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I knew only that it was about three sons in a family.</p><p id="fd5b">I had a family too — a human one and a canine one. I had the two parents — Maddie and Mork — who had sired and given birth to three males. On impulse, I decided to keep all three puppies. I fed and bathed them, and my affectionate relationship with Maddie allowed me to appoint myself mother-in-waiting. I declared the litter “My Three Sons.”</p><p id="e40a">As if they knew they were not only brothers but survivors, they were loving to each other from the first day. This is not always the case as brothers mature. Often the dominance factor weakens the bonds. But for these three pups, it was not to be. They are as loving today as they were as pups.</p><p id="9495">But love can’t always save us from harm, and the other day the worst thing almost befell our families. I could say it was due to carelessness from the stress of mourning the loss of Mork, the father who had died at age 15 only days before, but I don’t think leaving the gate latch open was caused by a confused and saddened human family.</p><p id="b4bb">I don’t believe in coincidences, and it was no coincidence that the gate, which had never until then been left open when my pets were in the yard, was open that day. It was no coincidence that only one person was watching them outside. Usually, it was me, but that day it was my husband. An open gate and a person unused to keeping an eagle eye on pups was an invitation for disaster.</p><p id="5b13">When my husband raced inside the house, hysteria was written all over his face. He said, “The puppies, they’ve gone out the gate.” With that, we both flew out of the kitchen, out through the yard, and onto the sidewalk. I went to the right, and my husband went the other way.</p><p id="f2f0">The first escapee I

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saw and captured was Captain, the salt and pepper with the uncropped ears. Then I really got lucky. Usually, an extremely quiet neighborhood, my block that day showed a small group of people outside scattered a few houses from me. Again it was no coincidence that I had an instant support staff.</p><p id="4843">The runaways reinforced my belief that a Supreme Being was in charge of that all the planets were in perfect alignment or the trinity of three was a holy number not to be messed with. For me, these “coincidences” added up to divine intervention. I believe that I was being told in no uncertain terms that honoring Mork’s passing meant honoring his three sons.</p><p id="a80f">My support staff coaxed Butch, my black show dog, toward me, and another person held Ahab, my other black Schnauzer. Thanks to these kind-hearted people, I had my three sons back within 10 minutes.</p><p id="986c">It had happened so quickly I didn’t have time to think about blame or thank god that I had current ID tags on them. What good would those thoughts have been if my three sons had wandered further south and onto a busy street. I thanked my heroic group of rescuers and returned home.</p><p id="c20c">Since then we’ve had a few good group hugs. Of course, being as they’re dogs, they did not consider that this exciting adventure almost caused a tragedy. Every time they now go out in the yard, they check out that gate. You don’t have to be a seer to know what they’re thinking.</p><p id="1a90">But the gate is barred from them now; it has a keyed lock.</p><p id="5ca8">Caring energies helped create a powerful convergence of positive forces that spared my three sons and Mork’s progeny. Were they mere coincidences or something else? I like to think that somewhere, somehow Mork knows.</p></article></body>

Personal Essay

My Three Sons

Coincidental caring

Taken by Janice Arenofsky

Six years ago my Miniature Schnauzer Maddie, a salt and pepper, gave birth to five puppies sired by my champion black Miniature Schnauzer Mork.

I was thrilled at first, but sadness and tragedy were close at hand, mocking me with their distrust of purity and perfection. One little black puppy wasn’t strong enough to survive outside the womb, and another salt and pepper was too large to make it safely through the birth canal.

I was devastated even though I should have known these problems and worse often occur during whelping. At that point, I knew I would never tempt fate again. I was through breeding. My first litter had been textbook perfect, but this one had failed to rise to those high standards.

I gave myself leave to mourn those two dead puppies and did just that for a day or so. But Maddie and her three remaining puppies needed my constant attention. I had to watch that Maddie, an experienced mother, was nursing her puppies properly and giving them the kind of visceral stimulation only a mother brings to her litter.

I weighed each of the three pups every day to make certain they were healthy and developing normally. Of course, I knew I had three males, but somehow the standing joke that they were my three sons didn’t surface until about a month later.

For you younger TV viewers “My Three Sons” was a sitcom that aired from 1960 to 1972. It was a no-brainer, and I don’t think I ever saw the show. I knew only that it was about three sons in a family.

I had a family too — a human one and a canine one. I had the two parents — Maddie and Mork — who had sired and given birth to three males. On impulse, I decided to keep all three puppies. I fed and bathed them, and my affectionate relationship with Maddie allowed me to appoint myself mother-in-waiting. I declared the litter “My Three Sons.”

As if they knew they were not only brothers but survivors, they were loving to each other from the first day. This is not always the case as brothers mature. Often the dominance factor weakens the bonds. But for these three pups, it was not to be. They are as loving today as they were as pups.

But love can’t always save us from harm, and the other day the worst thing almost befell our families. I could say it was due to carelessness from the stress of mourning the loss of Mork, the father who had died at age 15 only days before, but I don’t think leaving the gate latch open was caused by a confused and saddened human family.

I don’t believe in coincidences, and it was no coincidence that the gate, which had never until then been left open when my pets were in the yard, was open that day. It was no coincidence that only one person was watching them outside. Usually, it was me, but that day it was my husband. An open gate and a person unused to keeping an eagle eye on pups was an invitation for disaster.

When my husband raced inside the house, hysteria was written all over his face. He said, “The puppies, they’ve gone out the gate.” With that, we both flew out of the kitchen, out through the yard, and onto the sidewalk. I went to the right, and my husband went the other way.

The first escapee I saw and captured was Captain, the salt and pepper with the uncropped ears. Then I really got lucky. Usually, an extremely quiet neighborhood, my block that day showed a small group of people outside scattered a few houses from me. Again it was no coincidence that I had an instant support staff.

The runaways reinforced my belief that a Supreme Being was in charge of that all the planets were in perfect alignment or the trinity of three was a holy number not to be messed with. For me, these “coincidences” added up to divine intervention. I believe that I was being told in no uncertain terms that honoring Mork’s passing meant honoring his three sons.

My support staff coaxed Butch, my black show dog, toward me, and another person held Ahab, my other black Schnauzer. Thanks to these kind-hearted people, I had my three sons back within 10 minutes.

It had happened so quickly I didn’t have time to think about blame or thank god that I had current ID tags on them. What good would those thoughts have been if my three sons had wandered further south and onto a busy street. I thanked my heroic group of rescuers and returned home.

Since then we’ve had a few good group hugs. Of course, being as they’re dogs, they did not consider that this exciting adventure almost caused a tragedy. Every time they now go out in the yard, they check out that gate. You don’t have to be a seer to know what they’re thinking.

But the gate is barred from them now; it has a keyed lock.

Caring energies helped create a powerful convergence of positive forces that spared my three sons and Mork’s progeny. Were they mere coincidences or something else? I like to think that somewhere, somehow Mork knows.

Puppies
Rescues
Coincidence
Runaway
Divine Intervention
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