My Mother Passed Away A Year Ago in November

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Julius Evans reflects on the deep love and emotional connection he shared with his mother, who passed away a year ago, and how her memory continues to evoke strong emotions in him.

Abstract

The article titled "A Son’s Love For His Mother Never Passes" is a poignant reflection by Julius Evans on the enduring bond between him and his late mother. Despite being described as "rough and tumble," Evans openly shares his vulnerability, admitting to crying when he thinks of his mother, who passed away not due to COVID-19 but naturally with time. He acknowledges the care provided by his sisters and their families, and despite past disagreements, he cherishes his mother's role in shaping him into the man he is today. Evans's piece is not just a tribute to his mother but also an exploration of the complex nature of grief and the acceptance of emotions as a natural part of the healing process.

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Evans believes it is acceptable for men, regardless of their past demeanor, to express their grief openly through tears.
He conveys a sense of pride and gratitude for his mother's influence on his life, suggesting that her guidance and love were instrumental in his personal development.
The author implies that the pain of loss does not diminish with time, but the memories of loved ones continue to hold significant emotional weight.
Evans's reflections suggest that the relationship between a mother and her child transcends any disagreements or imperfections, focusing instead on the unconditional love that persists.
He emphasizes the importance of honoring and remembering loved ones who have passed, indicating that this remembrance is a source of comfort and strength.

Why Am I Still Crying Like A Baby?

I loved my mother — even more as she got older. I was her protector, even though she lived with my sister in another state.

Both my sisters, my nieces and my nephews took care of her as she advanced in age. She passed away around this time last year. Not from COVID-19 thank God, but she passed-away nonetheless.

I’ve noticed that each time I think of her, I start to cry. I’m crying right now. And I think that’s OK. But you’d have to know who I am or at least, who I used to be. I’ll only say that I was rough and tumble.

So to see me crying at the thought of my mom is a bit humbling. But these are my private thoughts. You are getting a bit of insight to me. I know it’s ok to cry when I think of my mom’s passing. But no one ever told me how I was supposed to handle this.

My mom lives with me in my heart. I love her dearly, I just didn’t like some of the things she did or how she did them. We are past that now.

Ma, you made me an incredible man. I know I made you proud. Now, you can see the smile on my face. She still garners all those emotions. Thank God for mothers.

About the author

Julius Evans has a Master of Arts degree in National Security and Strategic Studies from the U.S. Naval War College, Newport, RI; a Master of Arts degree in Strategic Communication and Leadership from Seton Hall University, South Orange, NJ; a Bachelor of Science degree in Mass Communication and Journalism from City University, Bellevue, WA and an Associate of Arts degree in Liberal Studies from Central Texas College, Killeen, Texas. He is also a graduate of the Defense Information School of Print and Electronic Journalism, and Advanced Public Affairs. DINFOS was relocated from Fort Benjamin Harrison, Indianapolis, IN, to its present home in Fort Meade, MD.

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A Son’s Love For His Mother Never Passes

My Mother Passed Away A Year Ago in November

Why Am I Still Crying Like A Baby?

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