My Mom Taught me How to Get More Reads Back When I Was Six

Summary

The author reflects on a childhood lesson from their mother about self-presentation and confidence that parallels advice for success in journalism on Medium.

Abstract

The article recounts a personal childhood experience where the author sought advice from their mother on how to be liked by peers at school. The mother's advice, which included personal grooming, good manners, and self-assurance, is likened to principles that can lead to success in writing and gaining readership on Medium. The author draws a parallel between the childhood lesson and the importance of a compelling title, original content, and resilience in the face of initial lack of engagement on the writing platform. The article concludes with a call to action, inviting readers to join Medium through a referral link and to take a quiz about becoming a successful writer.

Opinions

The author believes that foundational principles of self-presentation and authenticity are timeless and universally applicable, from childhood social interactions to professional writing.
There is an opinion that personal validation should come from self-improvement and authenticity rather than external approval.
The author suggests that persistence and adherence to one's unique voice are key to attracting an audience in writing, similar to making friends in childhood.
The article implies that engagement with the Medium platform, such as joining as a member or taking a quiz, can be beneficial for aspiring writers.

I guess nothing really changes…

“How can I make the other kids at school like me?” I once whined to my mom.

“Five of my classmates won't play with me, and one called me stupid!” I explained.

She told me…

Always wash your face, brush your teeth and comb your hair before school.

Mind your manners and be yourself.

If they don’t like you, that's their problem. They’ll come around, or you’ll make new friends. Don’t worry if they like you as long as you do your best and be yourself.

Looking back, this was my first lesson in journalism, especially as it applies to Medium.

Start with a good, attention-getting title.

Follow the publication rules and don't copy anyone.

If nobody claps for your story, write another one.

My Mom Taught me How to Get More Reads Back When I Was Six

I guess nothing really changes…

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