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My Mom Started Vocational Training When She Was 52 and 5 Years Later She Lost Her Job
Is 50 too old to start a career? This is a question that especially women often have to ask themselves after sacrificing their best decades for their families.

When my mom was 52 years old, which was about 6 years ago, she had amazing news for us.
She was going to train as a machine and plant operator in the field of metal!
My mom gave birth to me very young, she was 19 at the time, and so it happened that she was still without any apprenticeship.
But that she then had the courage to make this new start at the age of 52, I think is very brave and admirable!
Yesterday we met for a cup of coffee and talked a little bit about it.
Interview Part I

How did you get the idea to do an apprenticeship? And why, of all things, a machine and plant operator?
“The suggestion to do vocational training came from the job center at the time, which was funny! Because I had already expressed an interest in it years ago, and at that time they thought it wouldn’t be worth it at my age.
The profession of machine and plant operator seemed to me to be a solid basic training. In addition, I had already gained professional experience in the metal industry over the previous years.”
How did you feel about the decision? Were you excited? And did you have any fears or doubts?
“I was worried that it would be too physically demanding. But in general, I was really looking forward to the training.”
How did your family react after you made the decision?
“My husband thought it was great and was proud of me! In general, I felt supported.”
What did you expect from the vocational training?
“I hoped for a permanent employment contract until retirement. And of course, I also wanted to have my skills documented in black and white.”
What was it like for you to go back to school? What was particularly easy for you? And did you have any problems somewhere?
“I had problems with math! Especially when it was subject-specific. Some knowledge of physics was also required.
On the other hand, economics and social studies were very easy. I had no difficulties at all here.
I got along great with my classmates at the training center! There were trainees of all ages.
The only thing that sucked was the daily drive to the training center. 40 km there and 40 km back. And I always had to leave very early because otherwise I would get caught in rush hour traffic, which would have meant traffic jams on the highway.”
Is there a moment or situation that you remember with particular delight?
“When I passed my exam!
I usually suffer from exam anxiety and that day was no different. I was afraid I would black out and forget everything when it was time.
Fortunately, however, everything went well!!! I was even one of the first to finish. That was a load off my mind and I was so happy! In fact — I could have even jumped for joy!”
Interview Part II

About 2 years later, my mother’s training was completed. I asked her what happened to her career after that.
She told me that her first employment contract was with a temporary employment agency.
Unfortunately, this is now common. Companies hardly hire employees directly anymore without having worked in the company through an agency before.
Also, I can hear my mother proudly saying that her hourly wage was now set higher based solely on the fact that she was now “a full-blown skilled worker”!
She was lucky! At least that’s how it seemed.

For one year she worked through the agency in a local company that manufactures positioners and valves. And after this first year, she then received a contract directly from the company!
Again, the joy was great! The fact that the contract was temporary didn’t bother her at all, because that is also standard nowadays in the working industry.
By law, companies are obliged to hire the employee for an unlimited period of time after 2 years if they still want to employ them. My mom had already been with the company for over 3 years at that point if you include the time through the agency.
Now it was all or nothing!
My mom had firmly expected a permanent position. The shock was all the greater when she was told 6 weeks before her contract expired that there would be no further contract.
The reason given was a lack of orders due to the Corona pandemic. A welcome excuse — if you ignore the fact that there was plenty of work!
In addition, new (younger) employees were hired at the same time. Again, of course, on a temporary basis.

“When I received the bad news, it was a big shock for me.
I had firmly expected to be taken on. Everyone had always been very happy with my work.
In fact, I had worked my ass off for the company. I worked Saturdays and overtime whenever there was a need!
To be simply “dumped” in this way was like having the rug pulled out from under me. I was at the end of my rope.
With the stress came migraine attacks, which I had actually gotten under control in recent years. I was then on sick leave during these last weeks.
After this experience, I resigned. All the ambitions I had before, I lost. If I were to work somewhere again, I would just do my job. No more and no less.”
After 8 months of unemployment, my mom got a job again through a temporary employment agency. Since June of this year, she has a standard temporary contract with the company where she works.
Conclusion of the Interview
If you could go back in time, would you still choose the apprenticeship again?
“Yes, definitely!
I’m always happy when I can learn something new. It boosts my self-confidence. In addition, the qualifications still serve to provide financial security.”
What would you like to see from society and the government or politics? What should change?
“Companies should hire people after the probationary period, as it used to be! And not make fixed-term contracts last for years.
In the case of a fixed-term contract, the employment contract ends automatically, employers don’t even have to give reasons for the termination, which is very problematic.”
“Because this condition leads to years of uncertainty for the employee.”
“It affects, for example, vacations. My current contract runs until the end of May. That means I’m only entitled to vacation days for 5 months in 2023. That’s no way to plan a summer vacation!
And I often work despite having pain because I don’t want to or can’t take a sick leave. Absences often lead to an employment contract not being extended.
In general, as an employee, it is difficult to enforce one’s rights if the employment contract can always end within a few months.
This state of uncertainty is basically unacceptable.”
What other personal advice would you like to give the reader?
“Learning something new always pays off!”
“Take all the training and courses that are offered to you! Because no one can take these qualifications ever away from you.”






