avatarNiharikaa Kaur Sodhi

Free AI web copilot to create summaries, insights and extended knowledge, download it at here

2271

Abstract

/p><p id="abd6">One foot after another, deep breath in and out, sometimes it can be difficult and sometimes it can be easy. You can’t question whether you are doing it right or wrong, you just have to keep going. The same is true with writing; you need to type one word after the other for the ideas to flow.</p><p id="042d"><b>3.“A problem with a piece of writing often clarifies itself if you go for a long walk.”<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Dunmore"></a></b><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helen_Dunmore">Helen Dunmore</a></p><p id="d2e9">Stepping away from your copy helps you find new connections to ideas, to structure a thought differently and tighten sentences. As you are out running your mind is busy at work forming connections you might have missed as you were writing. Running acts as the catalyst to the ideas that were marinating in your mind.</p><p id="66dd"><b>4.“In long-distance running the only opponent you have to beat is yourself, the way you used to be.”― Haruki Murakami, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/2475030">What I Talk About When I Talk About Running</a></b></p><p id="fa36">There is only one person you need to compete with: yourself. You need to compete with the version of you that showed up yesterday, to tweak the process and learn new ways of getting better. Each day is an opportunity to better yourself.</p><p id="86b1"><b>5</b>.<b>“The twin activities of running and writing keep the writer reasonably sane and with the hope, however illusory and temporary, of control.</b><a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joyce_Carol_Oates">Joyce Carol Oates</a></p><p id="78b1">Life can be unpredictable, messy and dark. Your best-laid plans might flop in ways you had not foreseen. But in between the stimuli and your response you get the choice to control your reaction. And therein lies your power. In writing and running you get to step away from the heat of the moment; to find solutions to the problems you are facing.</p><p id="f5a5"><b>6</b>.<b>“If you don’t acquire the discipline to push through a personal low point, you will miss the reward that comes with persevering. Running taught me the discipline I need as a writer”.</b> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Wrecked-Broken-World-Slams-Co

Options

mfortable/dp/0802404928">Jeff Goins</a></p><p id="a41c">The challenges we face can feel insurmountable and we might be tempted to give up. But in pushing past the pain and discomfort, we are building resilience and patience. Through running, writers deepen their ability to focus on a single, consuming task and enter a new state of mind entirely. The deliberate act of moving forward each day reminds you that everything will work out in the end.</p><p id="9554"><b>7.“For me, running is both exercise and a metaphor. Running day after day, piling up the races, bit by bit I raise the bar, and by clearing each level I elevate myself. At least that’s why I’ve put in the effort day after day: to raise my level…The point is whether or not I improved over yesterday.</b><a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Talk-About-When-Running/dp/0307389839">Haruki Murakami</a></p><p id="3fc7">Word by word, mile by mile. All you can do is trust the process and put in the work despite your doubts, excuses, and fears. Once you start the fear begins to dissipate. You realize that the only way to<b> <i>finish</i> </b>an article or a race is to start. Just take one step and keep at it.</p><p id="5e50"><b>Creation, self-awareness and freedom. </b>Running offers writers escape with purpose.</p><p id="c042">You start with a blank page or a blank trail and end up with a creation of your own.</p><p id="6b50">You might also like:</p><div id="9b5a" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/building-a-writing-habit-for-beginners-by-a-beginner-e50a88508099"> <div> <div> <h2>How To Build A Writing Habit For Beginners, By A Beginner</h2> <div><h3>The world is still hungry for more great work</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*IzL6kfk468UzxQeqT3OO_g.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="64b4">As always thanks for reading. Keep the comments and corrections coming.</p><p id="6a86">Stay in the loop. <a href="https://rb.gy/0bfahg">Join my newsletter for more articles.</a></p></article></body>

My Journey From a Side Hustler to a Solopreneur

Here are a series of events of the past 2 years.

LinkedIn India’s Office (Image by the author)

Around this time two years ago is when I started side hustling.

And at the time of typing this, I just got back from a 5-day long holiday at the beach with my girlfriends and work was taken care of with no intervention during my downtime.

Same thing during my month-long holiday two months ago when I didn’t have to worry about anything.

This may sound flowery, but this change has happened with a lot of work and moreover a lot of things not working out.

So here’s an honest account of my journey since then. I know the present-day scenario sounds beautiful, but I’ll be selling you a fake dream if I don’t tell you what actually happened behind the scenes.

I hope you can use my failures to circumvent mistakes and steal my wins by using my strategies.

I’ve been writing since I was in second grade. So while I wasn’t writing online, I’ve been writing all my life.

Two years ago, I was casually browsing when I was bored at work and I stumbled upon a blog. I couldn't stop reading it!

I realised people can actually make a living out of what they enjoy doing.

Earlier, the only such people I knew were Instagram bloggers who I don’t resonate with one bit. It feels like a facade of showing people that you’re living your best life.

But this was real.

Also, they too resonated with being quiet, minimalistic, and aiming to be wealthy instead of trying too hard to appear rich.

This felt like exactly the life I wanted. So I started writing online. Enrolled in online courses that cost half my monthly paycheck, but I knew it’ll pay me back.

I’d edit articles before work, and write after work.

After a few weeks, I also started browsing on Upwork. I hopped onto YouTube to figure out how to make an attractive cover letter and read blogs about how people get high-paying Upwork gigs.

This is the one thing I see most people who ask me for advice lack — self-studying. You can get everything on the internet from verified sources and learn from others.

My first freelance gig paid me $130 for about 2 hours of work.

And that money tasted yummy.

In the coming months, I freelanced a bit, but also kept writing online.

I wrote online because it was fun. Little did I know I was planting seeds for:

  • personal branding
  • attracting opportunities
  • becoming a better writer

Another thing that most people dismiss today is the power of having your work speak for you. People want to freelance, but they don’t have work that speaks for them.

Picture this — somebody gets in touch with you because they know you’re amazing. They wait for your availability and will pay you what you want.

This is so much better than spending hours applying for gigs.

Now that I’ve hired two people, I got in touch with them because I already knew they’re brilliant at what they do.

Writing online for no money in return may sound pointless and it may not motivate you. But it can and will help you more than anything else in the future.

It’s difficult, which is why not everyone does it. But it helps long term.

Now, I’ve had zero dreams to be my own boss.

I still don’t find it appealing. I feel independent and like to own my time — but being your own boss is romanticised. It has many downsides, such as:

  • burnout: when does work end?
  • burnout [again]: work has ended, but are you still thinking about work?
  • strategising: what’s next? how are we growing our business?
  • feedback: what’s good and what can change?
  • money #1: how are we making money this month?
  • money #2: how can we make more money?
  • money #3: could we have made more money?

It’s a mindf#ck.

These are questions you have to ask yourself so many times that they eventually stress you out.

So while I didn’t have to satisfy my ego of being my own boss, I still wanted the simple stuff, like doing what I love and getting paid enough.

And then, I quit my 9–5 after side hustling for 10 months.

And that’s when:

  • my high paying client ditch me
  • my potential client in the pipeline proposed me to work for peanuts

So everything fell down.

I told you — it isn’t flowery at all. But today, I’m glad it happened because now I know what I don’t want.

“Negative results are just what I want. They’re just as valuable to me as positive results. I can never find the thing that does the job best until I find the ones that don’t.” — Thomas A. Edison

So I continued side hustling during my notice period.

I also tried to pick up a few one-time freelance gigs. With this, I was clear about a few things in freelancing:

  • I suck at writing blog posts for others
  • I don’t enjoy writing for others so much
  • I prefer a one-time commitment over an ongoing relationship

So while I didn’t know my direction, I at least knew what I didn’t want to do. This zeroed down one writing path for me — copywriting.

And on the side, I wrote more than ever before.

  • 20 articles a month
  • 3 times a week on LinkedIn
  • started a Twitter account

Writing for others squeezed the joy out of writing.

And I didn’t want to fall out of love with the one thing I loved doing on weekends as a single child and an introvert. My diary and books have been my best friends — I will not let go of what we have for the sake of earning bucks.

Two months after being self-employed, I went in for surgery on both my knees, which left me in bed for a month.

But before that — I got 13 side-hustle-related articles together and rolled out a free ebook.

Over a thousand people downloaded it.

That’s when I knew that even though my mom dislikes how lazy I am, I’m going to use it as an advantage to get things done quickly with the least effort.

After my surgery, I again had a random idea.

I thought — what if I taught people my systems about consistency in writing online?

I’m lazy.

And if I can do it, anybody can.

So I tweeted about this, received 120+ responses and shortlisted 40 folks from 20 countries to get on board to learn with me. Turns out, it worked.

“I didn’t think; I experimented.” — Pablo Picasso

With this, a cohort-based course was born this year and all cohorts got sold out.

This taught me that if I add value to people’s lives and assure them of results, they will pay for it.

Can I scale to a recorded course instead of a cohort-based? Yes. I can also increase the number from 15 to 35 or something.

But the conversations that I have with these people teach me more than anything else. People can share their struggles when they talk 1–1, and these conversations will help me solve future problems.

I’m only 26. I want to focus more on learning instead of ‘scaling’.

Learning in depth now will help me in the future.

No amount of money can buy that.

The last ten months have been about launching digital products.

Not with an intention to make money, as you’d think.

The course or digital products weren’t my ideas. They were both consequences of answering questions I receive most often.

This also made me realise that money finds you when:

  • your intention is right
  • you solve problems
  • you serve people

And don’t underestimate it. People can spot bullshit from far away. Your audience isn’t stupid.

If you’ve read it till here, I’m sure you can sense my energy, which is why you’re sticking by.

Now, I’ve shifted my gears to

  • writing for myself
  • teaching
  • products

And sometimes, I write for others.

I still don’t know what business looks like 6 months later. Or even next month.

“You may not know in your mind where you are going, but you know it by doing.” Nassim Taleb

And while the uncertainty made me anxious earlier, it’s something that doesn’t keep me awake at night anymore.

If you told me two years ago that life will become like this, I’d tell you it's impossible.

I wouldn’t even explore the possibilities, I’d just deny it blatantly.

But one thing led to another, and this happened.

“We can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish.” — Tony Robbins

This involved failing many times, using random strategies my head comes up with — some work and some don’t, and having lots of fun along the way.

Too many people worry about having it all sorted.

I still have nothing sorted. I started a YouTube channel 19 days ago and I don’t plan on buying any equipment any time soon.

Aim for progress over perfection.

What’s worked so far and will continue to help me is my motto:

Start now, figure it out later.

Once you start, you open so many possibilities that you cannot read or learn. You discover it for yourself.

Open yourself to magic.

Magic comes to those who work towards it.

And have lots of fun, in that process.

Click here to grab your free Side Hustler Checklist. Enjoy reading on Medium? Buy a membership for full access.

Life
Self
Self Improvement
Work
Inspiration
Recommended from ReadMedium