My issue with Jordan Peterson’s “12 Rules for Life.”

Summary

The author of "12 Rules for Life" by Jordan Peterson appreciates the book's valuable life guidance but critiques its complex and sometimes chaotic structure, suggesting it may not be accessible to all, particularly younger minds.

Abstract

The author finds Jordan Peterson's "12 Rules for Life" to be a profound yet challenging read, filled with philosophical, ethical, cultural, and religious insights. While the rules themselves are deemed

One of the most influential books I came across last year was “12 Rules for Life, An Antidote to Chaos” by Jordan Peterson. I must admit that I enjoyed reading this book, and there is a lot to take in if you give it a chance.

However, something bothered me during the reading sessions that challenged the question:

Who is this book for?

The main reason that led me to this question is how this book is written. Although the content proposes several rules to battle the chaos in our lives, the structure of each chapter is often chaotic.

Of course, if you dedicate yourself to it, it will make perfect sense, but I feel that, for each chapter, the train of thought traverses jungles, deserts, and martian landscapes before reaching the beach of conclusion. My point is that this book is not an easy read.

It is very elaborately written for a book that aims to guide an evolving young mind to avoid pitfalls in life. Sometimes, a teacher must descend the stairs and meet his audience at a lower spiritual level. I believe not everyone can “use” this book; it is unfortunate because it is for everyone. Many may feel discouraged by the complex writing and the “chaotic” mental route that backs every rule.

The rules, as conclusions, make perfect sense. As a father, I would like my kids to abide by them. And, of course, they make me, as a person, better. They are backed deeply by a philosophical, ethical, cultural, and religious standpoint.

You may understand what I mean if you listen to Jordan Peterson speak and analyze his position on TV or long-form social media. He is asked a rather simple question, and he answers in such an academic way, a blend of his own clinical experience and high concepts, that you must concentrate on what he says to get the answer you want. You must have a certain intellectual level to appreciate what JP says truly.

So my main issue with this book is that it is not for everyone…

On a more personal note, I am building a collection of books that I hope my children will benefit from as they grow up. You see, I have a trait in common with JP. I am getting quite passionate with my wording, which often makes my kids either discouraged or averted by what I have to say to help them grow. This is something I am currently working on. I suggest reading “12 Rules” later in their adult life when they would be more mature.

The bottom line is that this book is an excellent read if you want to delve into JP’s mind and see a lot of his reasoning that follows his current ideas and notions. The ideas presented in the book are solid and viable, giving many tools to forge strong points in your personality. You will learn much about human nature, its fundamental weaknesses, and powers, and find an equilibrium.

One of my favorite notions from the book is that we are born stupid and keep doing stupid stuff throughout our lives. We must give and overcome battle to overcome this stupidity and achieve our better selves. This book is one tile of that road to greatness.

However, this book should be approached at the midpoint of your growth journey after you learn to commit to a difficult mental task that will eventually reward you.