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Summary

A man recounts his experience of being dumped by his girlfriend after she went out with 22 men in one night, as detailed in an exclusive story on his blog.

Abstract

The author shares his journey through the world of online dating following a recent breakup, highlighting the superficiality often encountered on dating platforms. Despite his initial shallowness in judging potential partners by looks alone, he falls for a natural redhead. The story takes a turn when his new girlfriend goes on dates with 22 men, leading to their eventual breakup. This narrative is part of the author's exclusive content for his blog's members section, emphasizing his success in business and the loneliness that drove him to seek companionship online. The author reflects on his experiences as potential material for a book and promotes his blog and a Medium membership through referral links.

Opinions

  • The author acknowledges the prevalence of exaggeration and deceit on dating websites, with both men and women presenting idealized versions of themselves.
  • He admits to initially judging women based on physical appearance, a practice he identifies as flawed.
  • The author hints at a sense of loneliness and the desire for genuine love and companionship, which motivated his venture into online dating.
  • Despite his business success and financial stability, the author values emotional connections, indicating that money cannot replace love.
  • The author seems to have processed the experience with a sense of reflection, possibly suggesting personal growth through the ordeal.

My Girlfriend Went Out With 22 Men In One Night, Then Dumped Me

Photo by Quinten de Graaf on Unsplash

I feel like I have some fantastic stories to tell about my life, and I think that I could write a book because so much has happened to me, some good and some sad, but stories all the same.

I have found writing on the Medium platform rewarding in so many ways, I, of course, have to protect my family, but they understand that I also need a release.

Many of you know that I have started my blog website, and I said some of that content would be exclusive. Well, this is my first exclusive story.

I was a single guy, recently out of a relationship and looking to see what “was on the market,” so I joined a dating website. Each night after work, I would look through profile pictures to see if anyone took my fancy.

It was the same old trash you see on dating websites, full of BS, push up bras and tight jeans, with girls claiming they are complete angels, and I am sure some of them were.

The guys were no different, playing Mr innocent. I am so caring but have not found the right one…blah..blah..blah!

At the time in my life, I was very successful in business taking home a six-figure salary, but very lonely, no one to love and no one to love me.

I logged onto the dating website once more and started to look through photo’s, because yes, that is how I judged women back then, by their looks alone, sad but true.

Wow, she is gorgeous. I spotted the one, and I am a sucker for redheads. She was as natural as they come. Little did I know what I was getting myself in for and how this would eventually end.

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Robert Ralph
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