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in terms of strategies and plans. Any vision I had gets erased.It doesn’t matter whether it’s a month ahead vision or a year ahead vision. They all get deleted.What replaces it is the after-sex feeling of fulfillment and satisfaction. A feeling of being accomplished.From my gut as a young man in his 20s, sex felt like a vision killer and my brain automatically started refraining from it.I would struggle to bring back my vision or keep up with where I had left off.Bringing things back together in my mind would take time. This cost me a lot of time and energy.A new rearrangement would often be different from my previous plan. I wasn’t even capable of knowing which vision was the best as I had forgotten the previous one.I assumed my current vision was better since we keep evolving as human beings.My work is complex, I need to keep planning and forming strategies now and then. It isn’t a typical 9 to 5.<h2 id="6cc1">No stress, no huge financial obligations—just work</h2>I would also like to mention I am not stressed, struggle financially or have huge financial obligations.It only narrows down to my nature of work, and how I feel sex affects me as a person.It’s not about being disturbed to the level of not being capable of giving love in the form of sex.<h1 id="3c80">Zapped Energy</h1>The second reason is that sex zaps my energy real bad. I normally like working till about midnight. If sex happens before that, often there is no getting back to work.If it happens in the morning as so many people call it, the morning glory, the day will be less productive.Day ope

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rations won’t be aggressive and there will be a laid-back feeling all through the day.I learned these patterns and started avoiding indulgences.With time my motivation and grit reduce. Getting it back to the level of tenacity I like is often a struggle and takes it.And after achieving it. Sex was there staring at me waiting to push it down once more. It became sort of a battle between my energy and sex. One being an antagonist, the other the protagonist.<h1 id="b622">She Is a Strong 8</h1>My girlfriend is beautiful. If I’d rate her I’d give her an 8.7/10. I hope she doesn’t read this because she would probably flex. She is low-key every man's dream physically. (My friends gave up, they said I had raised the bar too high)Beautiful, long hair, good skin, perfect boobs, soft ass, etc. Every aspect you may think of is on point. And now she wants to leave me.Our relationship has been quite peaceful. We’ve created memories, we’ve had fun, we’ve traveled and most importantly we vibe.I don’t bulge though. This is the only problem we have. Every other aspect of our relationship is good.My vision is precious and I don’t want to lose it. It defines me as a person. A man is nothing without a vision. It’s similar to a ship in the ocean without a direction or rudder.When I have a big project coming up, my brain is constantly running. I even avoid cuddling. At such times, all I want is to think straight. I avoid her seductive beauty to get into my head. At night when she wants a cuddle, I low-key brush it off.Our relationship has been perfect except for that one aspect. She’s had enough and now she wants to leave me.</article></body>

My Girlfriend Wants To Leave Me Because I Refuse To Have Sex With Her

The last thing I expected—I never saw it coming

My girlfriend wants to leave me because I refuse to have sex with her. Let me be honest, I don’t know whether it’s just me or other men relate. Sex topples me off completely.

It’s been quite a while since I last touched her. We talk and communicate but when it comes to sex I don’t want it.

I started by refraining my mind from it. Pushing my thoughts out of it.

I have become so good at it that it has become a normal thing. I no longer feel the need to have sex. I wake up and stick to my routine. In the routine, there is no sex in it.

At first, she was cool with it but she didn’t like it as time passed. At times she tried placing her legs on me or pushing her bum towards me. I ignored it. Now she is so mad at me for not doing it.

She often throws tantrums here and there and I know where the problem is at. Regardless, I don’t bulge.

Sex throws me off completely and I don’t want to sabotage my life. Below are some of the things that make me avoid it.

My Vision Is Completely Blinded

I don’t know whether it’s just me or other men as well. Sex completely blinds my vision. After a few indulgences, I often feel like a blind has been placed on my eyes.

My vision completely goes out of sight. I mean vision in terms of strategies and plans. Any vision I had gets erased.

It doesn’t matter whether it’s a month ahead vision or a year ahead vision. They all get deleted.

What replaces it is the after-sex feeling of fulfillment and satisfaction. A feeling of being accomplished.

From my gut as a young man in his 20s, sex felt like a vision killer and my brain automatically started refraining from it.

I would struggle to bring back my vision or keep up with where I had left off.

Bringing things back together in my mind would take time. This cost me a lot of time and energy.

A new rearrangement would often be different from my previous plan. I wasn’t even capable of knowing which vision was the best as I had forgotten the previous one.

I assumed my current vision was better since we keep evolving as human beings.

My work is complex, I need to keep planning and forming strategies now and then. It isn’t a typical 9 to 5.

No stress, no huge financial obligations—just work

I would also like to mention I am not stressed, struggle financially or have huge financial obligations.

It only narrows down to my nature of work, and how I feel sex affects me as a person.

It’s not about being disturbed to the level of not being capable of giving love in the form of sex.

Zapped Energy

The second reason is that sex zaps my energy real bad. I normally like working till about midnight. If sex happens before that, often there is no getting back to work.

If it happens in the morning as so many people call it, the morning glory, the day will be less productive.

Day operations won’t be aggressive and there will be a laid-back feeling all through the day.

I learned these patterns and started avoiding indulgences.

With time my motivation and grit reduce. Getting it back to the level of tenacity I like is often a struggle and takes it.

And after achieving it. Sex was there staring at me waiting to push it down once more. It became sort of a battle between my energy and sex. One being an antagonist, the other the protagonist.

She Is a Strong 8

My girlfriend is beautiful. If I’d rate her I’d give her an 8.7/10. I hope she doesn’t read this because she would probably flex. She is low-key every man's dream physically. (My friends gave up, they said I had raised the bar too high)

Beautiful, long hair, good skin, perfect boobs, soft ass, etc. Every aspect you may think of is on point. And now she wants to leave me.

Our relationship has been quite peaceful. We’ve created memories, we’ve had fun, we’ve traveled and most importantly we vibe.

I don’t bulge though. This is the only problem we have. Every other aspect of our relationship is good.

My vision is precious and I don’t want to lose it. It defines me as a person. A man is nothing without a vision. It’s similar to a ship in the ocean without a direction or rudder.

When I have a big project coming up, my brain is constantly running. I even avoid cuddling. At such times, all I want is to think straight. I avoid her seductive beauty to get into my head. At night when she wants a cuddle, I low-key brush it off.

Our relationship has been perfect except for that one aspect. She’s had enough and now she wants to leave me.