My First Near MFM Threesome

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but I’ve found that a lot of straight guys just don’t want to<i> go there</i>. I don’t know if it’s homophobia (what if we accidentally <i>cross swords</i>?) or if it’s that the guy thinks that he’s supposed to be the “magic maker” or if it’s that it’s just too weird to touch another guy’s woman even if he’s got permission from them both. Who knows, but even most gigolos won’t do MFM and we’ve had more than a couple of potential male partners back out of things at the last minute.</p><p id="0e59">Which is really too bad, because it’s hot as hell and every woman I know who has experienced it, finds it very exciting. That’s because when done correctly (not how they do it in most porn), MFM is all about the woman. She is the one who is in charge and leading the action and unless the guys are bi-sexual, she is also the complete focus of the whole shebang (pun intended). It mixes up the typical male/female partnered dynamic quite a bit and I think that’s a part of why so many women find it so hot. You can’t just be who you think you are <i>supposed</i> to be or who you’ve always been in bed and so as a woman, you get to explore new aspects of your sexuality.</p><p id="7fc1">And that, my friends, is one of the main reasons that MFM is so good for the guys involved. If the woman is feeling confident, attended to, and like it’s OK to express herself fully, it’s going to be a hotter experience for them as well. Besides getting a close-up view of live sex acts, it can be very arousing to see your partner from different angles than you typically would. And I really enjoy having all <i>zones</i> covered at once. All of my body is getting attention at one time, which can be difficult with just one partner unless you are dating an octopus.</p><p id="ffe5">After one of our first MFMs, James commented that he felt like he needed to go out and eat a steak. There was just so much masculine energy floating around, even after our date went home. Plus, we’d both really worked up an appetite! At that point, James wasn’t having any sexual contact with the other man, but he still found it very exhilarating to see me really unleashed and enjoying myself so thoroughly.</p><p id="1386">MFM is still perhaps my very favorite sexual thing to do, to this day, although unfortunately, I don’t get to do it as often as I’d like. It took a long time to find another man to play with after we moved, and although we adore the guy that we found, he lives the next state over and we only see him every 3–4 months. Still, it’s well worth it because it turns out the only thing better than an MFM with two hetero guys is one with two men who are also into each other.</p><p id="a8bb">I love watching James and Lane kiss and fondle each other. When I’m in the middle between the two of them, I adore when they reach over me and kiss each other. They aren’t worried about accidentally crossing swords be

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cause sometimes one of those swords is in the other guy’s mouth. I’m still the ringmaster in many respects, and it certainly makes <a href="https://readmedium.com/all-about-double-penetration-7aeb15dffd1e">double penetration</a> a lot easier when they aren’t worried about touching each other, but for the most part, we all three are finding ways to play Hot Tetris together, and I really like that.</p><p id="9efb">After that first almost experience of MFM, my interest was piqued, although I never really thought that I’d get to do it again, particularly not after getting married. I’m so glad that it’s something that James enjoys too, with or without any intimacy with the other man. It’s too bad that we waited so long to start doing them, but I guess better late than never.</p><p id="97ef">© Copyright Elle Beau 2020 Elle Beau writes on Medium about sex, life, relationships, society, anthropology, spirituality, and love. If this story is appearing anywhere other than Medium.com, it appears without my consent and has been stolen.</p><div id="5c69" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/societal-norms-often-keep-us-from-understanding-our-true-sexuality-f8ee8484f022"> <div> <div> <h2>Societal Norms Often Keep Us From Understanding Our True Sexuality</h2> <div><h3>I didn’t realize until age 50 that I like women too</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*R9J2QXt5TjSrKZygCNeaIw.png)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="9d53" class="link-block"> <a href="https://myerotica.com/the-devils-triangle-with-two-angels-582cb575a7df"> <div> <div> <h2>The Devil’s Triangle With Two Angels</h2> <div><h3>We three enjoy a win-win-win relationship</h3></div> <div><p>myerotica.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*RKpLiUjy7VpnGrhpgdFZew.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="2ac1" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/all-about-double-penetration-7aeb15dffd1e"> <div> <div> <h2>All About Double Penetration</h2> <div><h3>Two men at once is an amazing sensation</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*TV0SJq50O0P3MVPLXksX-A.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

And how it planted a seed that would only be fulfilled years later

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In my senior year of college, I once found myself naked in bed with the guy I was with and another couple. We’d been drinking, gotten caught in the rain, and decided to get naked and under the covers together to warm up. I was laying on my side, kissing my date, when I felt the other guy begin to press against me, his hands roaming all over my body and his hard cock sliding between my legs. It was exhilarating to be in the middle like that, but it didn’t last long. The other girl got upset that her guy was paying attention to me and the whole thing ended in less than 2 minutes. Still, it was an experience I always remembered.

Many years into a happy and sexually satisfying marriage and I found myself thinking about that college experience again. As a monogamous married woman, I hadn’t really seriously entertained the thought before, but we were going through an exploratory phase in our relationship, and it seemed like the time to bring it up. It still took a fair amount of liquid courage, but I did finally tell James that it was something I found very exciting to imagine. I was pleased and relieved that he didn’t find it objectionable or a blow to his ego and we continued to talk about what it might be like while we made love, whispering in each other’s ears elements of this fantasy as we fucked.

The next day, he said to me, “You know, we could absolutely do that sometime if you wanted to.” I was more than pleasantly surprised and yelled, “Oh, my god!” I then proceeded to give him a memorable blow job (I’d forgotten that part, but apparently he still remembers it because he brought it up when we were discussing this story). His only caveat was that we would also try an FMF. I’d never been with a woman before, but also had been a bit bi-curious for a long time, so I agreed and we started looking for our thirds.

You’d think that finding a guy to fuck a woman with essentially no strings attached would be the simplest thing in the world (at least that’s what society leads us to believe) but in real life, it’s often not so easy, particularly if that woman is married or otherwise “taken.” James told me about a high school girlfriend who thought the idea of being with two guys was hot. A few weeks later, James and she were in a hot tub with James’ friend and they knew what each other was thinking as they were making out. But when James invited the other guy to join in, he just grinned sheepishly and got out of the hot tub.

Maybe it’s because they were teenagers, but I’ve found that a lot of straight guys just don’t want to go there. I don’t know if it’s homophobia (what if we accidentally cross swords?) or if it’s that the guy thinks that he’s supposed to be the “magic maker” or if it’s that it’s just too weird to touch another guy’s woman even if he’s got permission from them both. Who knows, but even most gigolos won’t do MFM and we’ve had more than a couple of potential male partners back out of things at the last minute.

Which is really too bad, because it’s hot as hell and every woman I know who has experienced it, finds it very exciting. That’s because when done correctly (not how they do it in most porn), MFM is all about the woman. She is the one who is in charge and leading the action and unless the guys are bi-sexual, she is also the complete focus of the whole shebang (pun intended). It mixes up the typical male/female partnered dynamic quite a bit and I think that’s a part of why so many women find it so hot. You can’t just be who you think you are supposed to be or who you’ve always been in bed and so as a woman, you get to explore new aspects of your sexuality.

And that, my friends, is one of the main reasons that MFM is so good for the guys involved. If the woman is feeling confident, attended to, and like it’s OK to express herself fully, it’s going to be a hotter experience for them as well. Besides getting a close-up view of live sex acts, it can be very arousing to see your partner from different angles than you typically would. And I really enjoy having all zones covered at once. All of my body is getting attention at one time, which can be difficult with just one partner unless you are dating an octopus.

After one of our first MFMs, James commented that he felt like he needed to go out and eat a steak. There was just so much masculine energy floating around, even after our date went home. Plus, we’d both really worked up an appetite! At that point, James wasn’t having any sexual contact with the other man, but he still found it very exhilarating to see me really unleashed and enjoying myself so thoroughly.

MFM is still perhaps my very favorite sexual thing to do, to this day, although unfortunately, I don’t get to do it as often as I’d like. It took a long time to find another man to play with after we moved, and although we adore the guy that we found, he lives the next state over and we only see him every 3–4 months. Still, it’s well worth it because it turns out the only thing better than an MFM with two hetero guys is one with two men who are also into each other.

I love watching James and Lane kiss and fondle each other. When I’m in the middle between the two of them, I adore when they reach over me and kiss each other. They aren’t worried about accidentally crossing swords because sometimes one of those swords is in the other guy’s mouth. I’m still the ringmaster in many respects, and it certainly makes double penetration a lot easier when they aren’t worried about touching each other, but for the most part, we all three are finding ways to play Hot Tetris together, and I really like that.

After that first almost experience of MFM, my interest was piqued, although I never really thought that I’d get to do it again, particularly not after getting married. I’m so glad that it’s something that James enjoys too, with or without any intimacy with the other man. It’s too bad that we waited so long to start doing them, but I guess better late than never.

© Copyright Elle Beau 2020 Elle Beau writes on Medium about sex, life, relationships, society, anthropology, spirituality, and love. If this story is appearing anywhere other than Medium.com, it appears without my consent and has been stolen.