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graphic than that and obviously I had no idea when I told him it was okay to go (this was his first time going as well). I was absolutely heartbroken when I found out.This all happened a few weeks before our wedding and we’ve had many long talks about how to move on from this.Now that our wedding has come and gone and we are married, I’m trying to heal the best I can and move on from the situation and have a happy marriage.Women, any advice? [ Please comment below, I’m curious what women think on this topic. My wife is OK with me going to a strip club but I won’t because I think they’re disgusting and it’s a betrayal of our vows.]Men, do you guys think about the strippers you’ve had dances from often?[I have been to a strip club twice before I was married. I never have a lapdance but I can’t imagine that it would be anyI shouldn’t feel insecure but of course the girl he had a dance from was absolutely gorgeous and looked completely different from me (she has short blonde hair, cool tattoos, fake boobs and butt. I have longer brown hair and no tattoos, I’m fit like her but have smaller natural boobs and butt).Just feeling like I’m not enough now.<p

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id="2e9c">My husband and I have been with each other since shortly after high school and have been together 10 years now, so he hasn’t really been with many other girls besides myself, and the girls he dated in high school.All I can think is now that he’s seen/ touched a hotter woman, that will be literally all he thinks about when he sees me. He has apologized and repeated over and over how much he loves how I look until he’s blue in the face — why can’t I get past this?Gentleman,This is what you may end up doing to your spouse by going to a stripclub. Your wife may say that she is OK with it but you’re opening pandora’s box and once it’s open you can’t close it.Why potentially torture her with the thoughts of you having what is essentially a sexual encounter with a stripper.A committed relationship requires sexual fidelity. Don’t try to create excuses and exceptions. If your friends are trying to get you to do something that would irreparably damage your marriage then it’s time to get new friends.Let me know what you think in the comments.If you have a story to share or want advice then email me at [email protected]</article></body>

My fiancé went to private room at strip club for bachelor party, does he still think about her?

My husband went to a strip club on his bachelor party (which I gave him permission to do).

[ Don’t give your significant other permission to engage in sexual activity with other people. It’s not entertainment. At best they are using strippers as objects for sexual gratification and not even thinking of them as people, at worst they are trying to cheat. Both are bad.]

Lack of communication on both of our parts caused a huge issue between us. The bachelor group went to a fully nude club (I’m naive and didn’t even know fully nude clubs were a thing- thought they only took off tops), and they all got VIP area full contact lap dances (again… me being naive thought a lap dance was just out on the floor and they “hovered” for the most part.)

[There are a lot of assumptions here. She already stated that there was a communication issue, which is true, but I don’t blame her for not knowing the full details of what can happen at a strip. I do question the motives of a man that wants to go to a strip club when they are in committed relationship.]

The lap dances were clearly more graphic than that and obviously I had no idea when I told him it was okay to go (this was his first time going as well). I was absolutely heartbroken when I found out.

This all happened a few weeks before our wedding and we’ve had many long talks about how to move on from this.

Now that our wedding has come and gone and we are married, I’m trying to heal the best I can and move on from the situation and have a happy marriage.

Women, any advice? [ Please comment below, I’m curious what women think on this topic. My wife is OK with me going to a strip club but I won’t because I think they’re disgusting and it’s a betrayal of our vows.]

Men, do you guys think about the strippers you’ve had dances from often?

[I have been to a strip club twice before I was married. I never have a lapdance but I can’t imagine that it would be any

I shouldn’t feel insecure but of course the girl he had a dance from was absolutely gorgeous and looked completely different from me (she has short blonde hair, cool tattoos, fake boobs and butt. I have longer brown hair and no tattoos, I’m fit like her but have smaller natural boobs and butt).

Just feeling like I’m not enough now.

My husband and I have been with each other since shortly after high school and have been together 10 years now, so he hasn’t really been with many other girls besides myself, and the girls he dated in high school.

All I can think is now that he’s seen/ touched a hotter woman, that will be literally all he thinks about when he sees me. He has apologized and repeated over and over how much he loves how I look until he’s blue in the face — why can’t I get past this?

Gentleman,

This is what you may end up doing to your spouse by going to a stripclub. Your wife may say that she is OK with it but you’re opening pandora’s box and once it’s open you can’t close it.

Why potentially torture her with the thoughts of you having what is essentially a sexual encounter with a stripper.

A committed relationship requires sexual fidelity. Don’t try to create excuses and exceptions. If your friends are trying to get you to do something that would irreparably damage your marriage then it’s time to get new friends.

Let me know what you think in the comments.

If you have a story to share or want advice then email me at [email protected]