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her.</p><p id="a253">If I don’t dick you down, that’s not abuse. It’s so dumb because I don’t argue. I shouldn’t be dating you if we’re arguing. I just stay quiet because there’s nothing productive about arguing. It’s a feminine trait.</p><p id="a41b">That’s the only thing I ask for in a relationship. We can disagree and talk to each other and treat each other like adults. But if you raise your voice at me, maybe it’s a trigger for me because I go into defense mode.</p><p id="b7cf">The day we broke up and completely stopped all contact, she tried to file a restraining order, but I had collected pictures from every time she left me a bruise.</p><p id="6a84">I would never use it against her because I thought we were in love.</p><p id="086c"><b><i>We were “picture perfect.” Like seeing a picture of us you would think “they love each other so much.”</i></b></p><figure id="4c13"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*rwZLSJPG38u2kVKjtA7KTg.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><figure id="ca9f"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*xpmBllzLxPdSqdfo4gOGqg.jpeg"><figcaption></figcaption></figure><p id="44f5">And we did, but she had a drinking problem

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and a high sex drive. I was already going through mental health problems because my friend passed away, and I had to get on meds.</p><p id="a452">Just because we’re together, I don’t expect your body to be mine at my disposal. And if she really would just approach it differently, why wouldn't I want what she wanted?</p><p id="535c">She didn't know anything about foreplay or seduction.</p><p id="6afc">I’m not “Tickle me, Elmo!”</p><p id="c749">Anyway, I shared this because I want to shed light on what many men, most men, never speak up about.</p><p id="326e">When I tried to tell the police that she abuses me, they laughed at the idea.</p><p id="e5c0">This is why Johnny Depp winning was so important. 98% of the time, the woman always has the upper hand in cases like this.</p><p id="cbe5">But you could only hold up a lie for so long before you start telling the truth.</p><p id="2b5a">Amber Heard created this hell for Johnny, but little did she know it would be for herself.</p><figure id="8de4"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*w4iI9DU5qmrAAinHab1QhQ.jpeg"><figcaption>They didn’t want to sell us this picture, so we had to steal it lol</figcaption></figure></article></body>

My Ex-Girlfriend Used To Abuse Me For This One Reason

I Never Shared This Story Until Now

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The only thing Johnny Depp is guilty of is putting up with Amber Heard. I was in a similar position with my ex a decade ago.

She was super abusive to me and every time someone saw us it looked like I was the abusive one.

One day my sister ran into my room and saw her punch me in the nose. I started bleeding, and I told my sister to leave us alone and for some stupid reason, I was blaming myself and telling my sister that I deserved that punch.

And you know what she was mad about? She was mad because she wanted to get it in, but I was not in the mood.

This reoccurred over a dozen times. She had a real problem. She would tell people that I was abusing her.

If I don’t dick you down, that’s not abuse. It’s so dumb because I don’t argue. I shouldn’t be dating you if we’re arguing. I just stay quiet because there’s nothing productive about arguing. It’s a feminine trait.

That’s the only thing I ask for in a relationship. We can disagree and talk to each other and treat each other like adults. But if you raise your voice at me, maybe it’s a trigger for me because I go into defense mode.

The day we broke up and completely stopped all contact, she tried to file a restraining order, but I had collected pictures from every time she left me a bruise.

I would never use it against her because I thought we were in love.

We were “picture perfect.” Like seeing a picture of us you would think “they love each other so much.”

And we did, but she had a drinking problem and a high sex drive. I was already going through mental health problems because my friend passed away, and I had to get on meds.

Just because we’re together, I don’t expect your body to be mine at my disposal. And if she really would just approach it differently, why wouldn't I want what she wanted?

She didn't know anything about foreplay or seduction.

I’m not “Tickle me, Elmo!”

Anyway, I shared this because I want to shed light on what many men, most men, never speak up about.

When I tried to tell the police that she abuses me, they laughed at the idea.

This is why Johnny Depp winning was so important. 98% of the time, the woman always has the upper hand in cases like this.

But you could only hold up a lie for so long before you start telling the truth.

Amber Heard created this hell for Johnny, but little did she know it would be for herself.

They didn’t want to sell us this picture, so we had to steal it lol
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