My Dentist Gave Me the Best Writing Advice Ever
A surprising source of writerly wisdom

My dentist gave me the best writing advice ever—and he didn’t even know it.
I love my dentist. He’s one of those small-town dentists with good bed-side manner. You know, the kind you can almost imagine making house calls to lonely widows, sick kids, or snowed in elderly couples.
In the middle of one of my appointments, he dropped a wisdom bomb on me.
My jaw might have dropped but my mouth was already open. He had some kind of medical torture device jammed in there, rooting around for cavities.
Like most dentists of his generation, he entertained me with jokes and stories while he worked.
I can’t prove it, but I think there might be an underground black market for dentists to bet on how often they can get patients to laugh-gag with a mouth full of dental foam.
But I digress.
He was regaling me with stories of dental school.
All of the sudden, in the middle of his story, he delivered the advice.
The Writing Advice
He said, “Only brush the teeth you want to keep.”
On the surface, it doesn’t sound very much like life-changing writing advice. I can’t dispute that fact.
However, my mind immediately followed this chain of thoughts:
- I want all my teeth!
- Oh, that’s the point
- How clever!
- Wait, I can apply that to writing…
My writer-mind translated his words into advice that has stayed with me for years. I use it for every story, article, and book that I write.
Once again, he said: Only brush the teeth that you want to keep.
My translation for writers: Only edit the pages that you want to publish.
Why This Is the Best Writing Advice
I want ALL of the pages I write to be published. You probably do, too.
And that’s the point.
Yes, this well-known quote is true:
“You can’t edit a blank page."—Jodi Picoult
But, you can’t publish an unedited page, either.
Actually, you can, but you shouldn’t.
If you do, your readers will notice. For some, they will never read your work again. That’s harsh, but it’s the truth.
If you consistently push out articles, books, or stories with endless typos, then even your die-hard fans will abandon you. Yes, the link in that last sentence takes you to the IMDB page for the movie, Die Hard, because… it’s awesome.
It’s also a cultural illustration of the advice my dentist gave me. To succeed as a writer, you must edit with “die-hard” grit. You must be willing to walk barefoot over broken glass to save your story.
My dentist’s advice is the best because it reminds us of the importance of proofreading our work.
It’s simple. And that’s why it is so effective.
“Only edit the pages that you want to publish.” — Christopher Kokoski
There Is No Perfection
If you rush to publish, you may regret it.
If you don’t read your writing out loud, give it to a trusted beta reader, or run it through editing software like Grammarly, you might lose a reader, a contract, or some other kind of opportunity.
You have so many choices for proofreading your own work.
However, there is no perfection. I don’t know about you, but I find mistakes in published bestsellers all the time. If a professional team of editors still screws up, so will we.
It’s not about perfection. It’s about excellence.
Final Thoughts
Only edit the pages you want to publish.
That’s the best writing advice my dentist ever gave me. After all this time, it still resonates with me. It reminds me that I have a choice to make. It reminds me that the quality of my writing is up to me.
And, you know what? It’s up to you, too.
Thanks for reading! You are awesome! 😁





