My Cheating Wife Got Pregnant, and Now Hopes I’ll Take Her Back…

“There were hundreds of thousands of texts right there, countless nudes, calling him daddy degrading comments…”

This is about a guy who is married and, after a while, the dynamics between his wife started to change and one day he after a lot of suspicious activity without a shout out saw things were going on and she was cheating and eventually… you’re going to see that

I’m a 36 year old male, as of now the characters have been a bit altered by their names, Rebecca, my now ex-wife who’s now 34, James, my college buddy and the guy Rebecca cheated on me with and Saladin my guy friend and Lisa, Saladin’s, cousin,

Rebecca, and I were what you call college sweethearts, we survived college and the hardships of life we got married in our early 20s.

I was 25 and she was 23

Ever since we got married, things were rocky not from the start, but situation wise. I was studying pharmacy School and she was an accounting major. There were things that was that were okay with me, but not with her.

Despite being married, she still acted like she was a free bird.

Rebecca eventually joined James’ company as an accountant because it paid very well, she became the breadwinner of the house.

It didn’t take long before she started to complain about everything. She didn’t like where we lived and she even started hating my cooking. I’m a great cook and she used to love eating my food until recently.

Our fights became more regular and intense.

Side note: The statistics for relationships where women earn more than men are not

There was a drastic turn when I heard that Rebecca and James were hanging out with our set of mutual friends.

It seemed off.

I confronted both to which they both said. It was a sudden plan and was in our field, coincidentally, it happened the same day I was out of the city so they might have planned it beforehand, which I’m not sure.

Side note: Of course, they did. Stop overthinking obvious things.

My marriage blew up, so I was sure there was something because my bedroom action became effing dead and I became I was increasingly paranoid because whenever I tried to address things, I was turned down

I’m no saint.

I constantly yelled at her to tell me what was going on because there was something off your favorite person really talks or does stuff with you and they claim it’s nothing.

it was also the year that we were at us

My friends and I decided to open a medical shop that provided medicine shop as a side venture. So, one of the friends was Saladin: he proposed that we celebrated at a pub. When we got there. I noticed a girl looks a lot like Rebecca. She was dancing with another man and it was quite dark. I got a closer look. Lo and behold, it was Rebecca and James dancing hand to hand.

I wasn’t much bothered about it at first because hey they’re friends

Side note: No, you should be upset because this is a clear indication of cheating.

I was here with my colleagues, and she was there with hers, but it started bothering me. I decided to send her a text asking where she was. She’s, usually on her way home by now.

She told me she was already at home. This was a real red flag.

I told her to stop lying because I knew she wasn’t.

I could clearly see that she was getting paranoid and told me she was on her way.

She left the pub afterwards.

That night, I asked her about James.

The look she gave me was as if she had seen a ghost, because she was not expecting that question. That look told me everything I needed to know.

Something was up.

That night, I snooped on her phone because the curiosity was killing me.

The password was changed so I couldn’t see the phone.

The next day I spied on her enter as the entered the password and logged in when she wasn’t looking.

I couldn’t believe what I saw.

There were hundreds, if not thousands of texts, countless nudes’ photos, calling him daddy and degrading comments.

My wife and I made a vow to each other- that if there’s ever anything we need to explore; we would be transparent to each other. She broke that vow too. She confided about him. How much of the thrill she felt that night, the pub I went through everything?

What hurt the most was that she herself told me if one of us ever got bored of the other or needed to spice things up that we’d, let each other know and she destroyed everything instead.

I couldn’t look at her the way I used to anymore.

I cried the night and confronted her stupidly without any evidence the next morning-bad idea.

She yelled at me and stormed out after telling me I was abusive and insane.

She told all her friends that I was abusive that afternoon they had created a messenger group where everyone ganged up on me to troll me.

When she came home that night, she told me she was in love with James and wants a divorce.

I told her to talk first, but it turned into her berating me I yelled at her and she called the cops.

I was asked to spend the night elsewhere. I went to my sister’s and when I returned the next morning, James’s car was there.

He spent the night at my house.

There was nothing needed to explain. He was doing it on purpose hell. She was doing it on purpose. This is terrible and again the whole believes all women thing.

I went to see a lawyer as we did not have a prenup. Apparently, she already filed a complaint about me being abusive and it didn’t look good for me.

Not once does she try to apologize. Not once does she try to make amends. Our country law doesn’t count infidelity as a fault, so even with that she’s entitled to half of my everything, but her complaint can sue me up a few days after that, where I was living with my sister.

I tried contacting Rebecca, but she just responded by text that she wants a divorce.

That’s it 12 years of relationship four years of marriage and she ends it with a text. I was convinced that James was taking my place.

I was eventually handed divorce papers.

Everyone from our friend’s circle was convinced that I was an abuser and James was her savior.

We were officially divorced during the start of 2018, she was dating James openly during our divorce, he was her life.

My life fell apart shortly after.

I lost my job, my house and my reputation.

I had to change the city to move someplace else to restart.

Saladin helped me to get a fresh start.

He got me a decent paying job.

That was that was nowhere like my previous one, but it was better than my other options. We became close friends while I was working to earn back what I had lost.

My dating life was over for me.

I just couldn’t trust anyone anymore.

No contact between me and Rebecca. The last thing, I heard she moved in with James. They were doing great now, move on to the revenge part.

At the end of 2020, things started to pick up for me.

Our pharmacy venture became a big success. I was able to make much more money.

I met up with a friend of mine that knows Rebecca and he told me the James left after he cheated on her and left, but Rebecca had a child with him.

James was absent since birth, and so he did not sign the birth certificate so, Rebecca is raising that child as a single parent. She tried dating, but she was not over me or James.

Part of me was happy about it, but I still missed her.

I sent her an email asking how she was doing. She wasn’t expecting to hear from me we exchanged it, we exchanged emails and reconnected.

Our first meeting was in 2021. After several years she had gained weight and looked constantly exhausted. Frankly, just her look made my blood boil and triggered me, but I also wanted to take my revenge on her.

Side note: So he’s reconnecting just to take revenge? Trust me it’s never worth it. Don’t lower yourself.

That’s why I reconnected life had already done that on my part, but I’m an a-hole.

I wasn’t done with her.

She told me about James and reopened the early wounds. I got my closure, which made me feel a bit better. I guess she said she was sorry. She wasn’t thinking straight what she was doing, and James had poisoned her mind against me.

I got my closure, which made me feel a bit better. I guess she said she was sorry. She said I told her that I will forgive her if she comes clean to everyone and includes my name out. She did that losing a lot of friends, but she deserved that my name was clean.

She wanted us to date again because she wanted me to help her raise the a-hole James’s child. I told her, I would agree to it, but we need to date and get married first and only then, while I legally adopt her child, the little guy’s adorable and I had taking a liking to him.

I was already seeing someone else at this time so I was cheating on that woman with Rebecca.

We were both in a long-term , long-distance relationship.

Rebecca and I were living in different cities. So, I never moved in with her, but I played it well by saying I need to travel for business, so I was only getting Rebecca’s hopes up to crush her.

Like she crushed me.

We were getting intimate, but condoms were used. Rebecca felt, like she found love again. I pushed her into therapy to get to her to be normal again. Everyone was commenting how she was getting much happier with me.

She would praise me and do little things for me that she used to do when were married.

I had a lot of emotions attached to her.

I still wonder if my revenge was a good idea because she might be traumatized for a lifetime, but she did not think of my heart when we were married so why should I think of hers now?

Her birthday was coming up. I grabbed Rebecca for ring shopping. She picked out her favorite ring, and I got it wrapped. That night she came up to me crying and saying was sorry for hurting me.

She looked generally remorseful, but I had no feelings for her except indifference.

I convinced Saladin’s cousin, Lisa, to help me out with my plan. I already told her everything beforehand. She was against the idea initially, but I managed to convince her. She was still uncomfortable with it, but understood I need to go through with it.

I drove Rebecca out to our favorite spot when we were married. Lisa was already waiting there. I introduced her to Lisa as Rebecca my ex-wife and friends with benefits there, and then I proposed to Lisa with that ring.

Rebecca, went mad and started yelling, to which I replied.

“How the fuck can you expect us to work out when you destroyed our relationship. I’m never dating a dirt-bag like her again.”

She asked me again and again, if I, if we meant nothing,

I told her nope sleeping with her was compensation for the pain. I got her to clear out the pain she put me through Lisa was holding me back, she said Rebecca was hurting.

I told Rebecca that she needs to leave. She told everyone that I cheated, and I was an a-hole this time I took it as pride. Everyone saw the dirt bag that she was.

She cheated on me and made me pay a high price for a falsified abuse. Now she wants me to raise her kid and date her like nothing happened.

She wrote me a letter saying how sorry she is because she can’t imagine putting me through the pain that she already put me through.

She hoped I lived a better life.

The last I heard she was completely uninterested in dating and she looks like it.

She cost me my home, my job, my image, my reputation, my friends. I was considered to be an abuser to everyone. I gave her a taste of real medicine, yes by hurting someone else.

Now am I worse than her.

I don’t want judgment.

This is nuclear revenge and I’m sharing my revenge stories. I may emotionally scar her, but that’s what she did to me.

Closing thoughts:

Revenge is often unnecessary. It degrades you and consumes your time that could be better spent on reaching your goals to improve your life. I understand why this guy did what he did but I can’t say it was a good thing.