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ttps://readmedium.com/people-think-im-confident-here-s-what-they-don-t-understand-af6201a2505d"> <div> <div> <h2>People think I’m confident. Here’s what they don’t understand.</h2> <div><h3>9 Misunderstandings About Confidence</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*m7BOUXlstifMXvHY5BXHjw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="f2c6">13. “The only things that matter are things you actually do.”</h2><div id="bbef" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/screw-your-to-do-list-you-need-a-done-list-ede0b82c748"> <div> <div> <h2>Screw Your To-Do List. You Need A Done List.</h2> <div><h3>Because actions matter more than intentions.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*oyzl9-P13xwow7zZXAeoqA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="ee8b">12. “If I had an hour to solve a problem I’d spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and five minutes thinking about solutions.”</h2><div id="dd48" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-well-you-define-a-problem-determines-how-well-you-solve-it-847090979898"> <div> <div> <h2>How Well You Define a Problem Determines How Well You Solve It</h2> <div><h3>A productivity tip from Albert Einstein.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*XteUS1DaLpEPP__O8IK2lw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="fadd">11. “Every creator believes they are unique, but few can explain why.”</h2><div id="7968" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/five-keys-to-a-successful-creative-career-8707d417d714"> <div> <div> <h2>Five Keys To A Successful Creative Career</h2> <div><h3>How I help creators build careers.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*36QUtMO32E1hceDhWxawVg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="1153">10. “Great is never guaranteed.”</h2><div id="f579" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/you-have-to-be-ok-with-being-ok-to-become-great-e3a8caa6f33e"> <div> <div> <h2>You Have To Be OK With Being OK To Become Great</h2> <div><h3>This post isn’t going to be great.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*VcSlsEe0fBaqnTPzdHOTpg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="1670">9. “None of the people who tell you what to do know what’s best for you and you should stop listening to them.”</h2><div id="f05d" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/stop-listening-to-people-5a47b6be8a01"> <div> <div> <h2>Stop Listening To People</h2> <div><h3>They’re not helping you.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*AGjxVns2j9i03BwXOJWfKg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="adf3">8. “Never forget: It’s easy for people to unfollow you. Treat every post as an audition.”</h2><div id="7959" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-you-answer-these-four-questions-can-predict-your-social-media-success-bdc76166f499"> <div> <div> <h2>How You Answer These Four Questions Can Predict Your Social Media Success</h2> <div><h3>And they have nothing to do with social media.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*vpPrGa2MkUjv6NOPsLOyAw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="602c">7. “The promotion of work that provides value is a generous act, not a selfish one.”</h2><

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div id="72fb" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/how-to-get-over-your-fear-of-self-promotion-da0a4f3cc281"> <div> <div> <h2>How To Get Over Your Fear Of Self-Promotion</h2> <div><h3>Stop lying to yourself and do something about it.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*0sMNW6LoVlfWdA0Chtpyyg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="fc6f">6. “Your resume’s purpose is to secure a job you want, not just any job you’re qualified for.”</h2><div id="b79f" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/four-ways-to-improve-your-resume-you-probably-havent-heard-before-c40967123bc2"> <div> <div> <h2>Four Ways To Improve Your Resume</h2> <div><h3>A little tough love for job hunters.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*0r4mkQYXJz70ybcuFpl4Wg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="6a69">5. “You become comfortable with being uncomfortable.”</h2><div id="6dfe" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/50ideas-cb716c20c8c8"> <div> <div> <h2>50 Benefits of Forcing Yourself to Think of 50 Ideas</h2> <div><h3>Even bad ideas make you better.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*wPVs92X223MHTlK8wScxmA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="e23d">4. “Discomfort isn’t optional. It’s a prerequisite.”</h2><div id="b788" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/think-you-cant-do-something-read-this-80fdf2f50dd7"> <div> <div> <h2>Think You Can’t Do Something? Read This.</h2> <div><h3>There’s no excuse for these excuses.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*JSJlCz6uvERhbQTp9-Qlzw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="b536">3. “You feel stuck because you don’t know what you want — not because you don’t have what you want.”</h2><div id="8e7e" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/dont-know-what-you-want-take-two-minutes-to-read-this-ca56f1e4043e"> <div> <div> <h2>Don’t Know What You Want? Take Two Minutes To Read This.</h2> <div><h3>Because it’s the only question you have to answer.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*cdq8UcOGsfRHTSscBseUMA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="cd0c">2. “Ask what else you should ask.”</h2><div id="114e" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-3-minutes-it-takes-to-read-this-will-improve-your-conversations-forever-cbcae519c4ea"> <div> <div> <h2>The 3 Minutes It Takes To Read This Will Improve Your Conversations Forever</h2> <div><h3>How to ask better questions.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*hMDpvos6wS8tFfm7bhXM4Q.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><h2 id="d1d7">1. “Delete the words ‘I think.’”</h2><div id="1c71" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-two-minutes-it-takes-to-read-this-will-improve-your-writing-forever-82a7d01441d1"> <div> <div> <h2>The Two Minutes It Takes To Read This Will Improve Your Writing Forever</h2> <div><h3>You’re busy, so I’ll keep this quick.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*ErI7LVpTQOQZwJ0NUTlPtw.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="36d5"><a href="http://joshspector.com/email"><b>Subscribe to my newsletter</b></a><b> to get 10 helpful ideas each week.</b></p></article></body>

My 20 Most Popular Medium Posts Of The Year

As determined by 330,000 readers.

Thank you, Medium.

My decision to write more on this amazing platform proved to be a great one and I appreciate everyone who followed, recommended, and shared my posts this year.

Below are the 20 most popular posts I’ve written this year, not counting my weekly 10 Ideas Worth Sharing posts (which are also available by email).

I hope you find these posts as valuable to read as I found them valuable to write.

20. “The only attention that matters is that which is earned.”

19. “We shouldn’t expect to earn the attention of others for things we only do for ourselves.”

18. “Pessimism influences our decisions more than optimism.”

17. “Say what others won’t in ways that others don’t.

16. “It’s harder to avoid change than embrace it.”

15. “We don’t need another ‘them’ — we need YOU.”

14. “Confidence isn’t the absence of fear.”

13. “The only things that matter are things you actually do.”

12. “If I had an hour to solve a problem I’d spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and five minutes thinking about solutions.”

11. “Every creator believes they are unique, but few can explain why.”

10. “Great is never guaranteed.”

9. “None of the people who tell you what to do know what’s best for you and you should stop listening to them.”

8. “Never forget: It’s easy for people to unfollow you. Treat every post as an audition.”

7. “The promotion of work that provides value is a generous act, not a selfish one.”

6. “Your resume’s purpose is to secure a job you want, not just any job you’re qualified for.”

5. “You become comfortable with being uncomfortable.”

4. “Discomfort isn’t optional. It’s a prerequisite.”

3. “You feel stuck because you don’t know what you want — not because you don’t have what you want.”

2. “Ask what else you should ask.”

1. “Delete the words ‘I think.’”

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