Musings at 5:00 pm
“If you can't fly, then run, if you can't run, then walk, if you can't walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward.” ~ Martin Luther King Jnr.
If you must then don't quit! Come at it with every ounce of strength you have left in you; your triumph you should count with every step you take. If you wish, sit down and take a rest, if you are burnt out, get a tissue shed some of the frustration, but don't quit.
The journey of life is rife with disappointments borne from great expectations. However, learn to balance expectations from what you have control over and that which you do not have control over. Lower expectations over that you cant control and have a greater appreciation for its outcomes, only then would your motivation to grow improve.
Have a plan even if it's for the little things like planning to hydrate often or for little naps in between activities. Plan also, for the bigger things and enjoy the process of it becoming a reality but don't be too rigid in the details allow for flexibility, that would encourage creativity and innovation.
Execute and act with diligence and prepare to be resilient because every day comes with its attendant peculiarities and demands. Learn to juggle this without letting go of the focus and the bigger picture. Bear in mind that acts have consequences; positive and negative both are experiences to determine acts to persist in and those to dissuade from. Never are they the end or definition of your fate in life. Learn, unlearn, relearn and choose or unchoose but don't quit.
Pat yourself on the back like the proverbial lizard that fell from the top of the Iroko tree. You have done well and will do well so long as you are living to tell the story of your own fall yourself. That fall is a gift, it's not everyday life offers second chances at things. So, cherish the opportunity as it's a blueprint of the maze of that which you have desired enough to make an effort at handed over; but don't forget the cost.
Value your time, make and keep deadlines. The clock is the only thing that leaves and never looks back. However, its secret lies in its repetitive cycle. What you missed yesterday morning may be gone, yet tomorrow offers another morning to take heed and another over and over to make the change.
Fears are valid, they are the checks and balances. The evaluators of our journeys and should be dealt with or allayed as they come. For if left to fester they become negative voices growing stronger and crippling. Like that fear of death; the terminator which makes the philosopher wonder at the rationale for living or becoming. Truth is, as long as you breathe you have needs to be fulfilled which the thought of death would not alleviate. And once you have been born you must go through the motions of living before the terminator strikes. Make the choice to make it worthwhile.
