Motherhood is not everyone’s calling — but women who want children are also not committing crime.
Some men think that women in the so-called first world countries are not forced to marry at the age of 9 to a man 40 years older than them, or that they can go to school, go to work, so they are “already very lucky”. But when someone who believes that those fundamental choices and freedom are “already very fortunate” to have, I would say deep down in their heart they may not agree that women are equal as a human like men. That’s why some people say that women from first world countries are still somehow oppressed.
I’m not saying women in the bigger cities should take it for granted. Here I am going to talk about this ‘first world problem’ :
Women who are living in the so-called free world, want different lives and want to control their own future.
People talk about their colleagues being pregnant, talk about maternity leave. However, not many people notice that many new mothers are shocked by their changing identities halfway through their lives.
Of course, you know that the challenge is coming, and you have heard of all possibilities, but when it really happens to you, it is not words that can describe it.
Also,
There are women who don’t want children. There are women who want to be stay at home mother. There are women who want children, as well as a career.
No one can say to a woman that she should be one of the above. It should be her own choice:
Because motherhood is not everyone’s calling — but women who want children are also not committing crime.
Recent years, society has become more open and accepting of the idea of ”childless women”, although there are still many criticisms. However, although society has more understanding about women who do not want to have children, many mothers are suffering from “mother’s blame”.
Any problem that happens to the family or the child, even if it is a small problem, people will blame, and usually blame the mother, especially the stay at home mums, which is a 7/24 job. You may ask, “Stay at Home Mom Shaming?? How is this Still a Thing?” Sadly, Yes, it is.
So, whether you are single, married, childless, or a mother, women seem to be “wrong”.
so…
Do what you think is right, and keep your distance from those who continue to make non-constructive and extreme criticism.
I hope the society will respect and understand this matter more, but before the world can be changed, protect yourself from hurtful comments -