Mission Control: Navigating the Cosmos of Single Motherhood and Spacemen

It was a Wednesday that felt like a Monday — you know, one of those days where the planets seem misaligned, and you’re pretty sure Mercury must be in retrograde. My alarm clock had given up on me, choosing to join the realm of the non-functioning. So, naturally, we started our morning in what I affectionately call ‘panic mode’.
In the whirlwind of getting ready, my little one, who fancies himself an astronaut these days, had decided today was ‘dress-like-you’re-going-to-space’ day. There he was, space helmet (a repurposed bike helmet) donned, and arms wrapped in tin foil. “For the lasers, Mom!” he explained with the seriousness only a future space traveler could muster.
Breakfast was a hasty affair. We’re talking about cereal that may have seen a few too many days pass by and toast that was on the brink of becoming a charcoal sketch. I sipped my coffee — a crucial element in my morning launch sequence — and braced myself for the day ahead.
As we embarked on our daily commute, my mini-astronaut narrated our journey in space terms. Every stop sign was a meteor, every school bus a passing spaceship. It was charming, really, until we hit what he excitedly called a “black hole” (a.k.a. morning traffic). There we were, stuck in the vast expanse of suburbia, moving at the speed of a sloth.
At work, my day unfolded with the usual mix of meetings and email marathons. Amidst it all, I got a call from school. No, it wasn’t about a forgotten lunch or a scraped knee. It was about my astronaut-in-training, who had decided to give his classmates a ‘real’ space experience by turning the classroom into a makeshift planetarium. Sheets draped over desks, flashlights for stars, and, of course, his helmet proudly on display.
Lunchtime was my window of opportunity to fix the situation. I rocketed over to the school, prepared for a stern talk about appropriate classroom behaviour. Instead, I found a teacher trying hard not to laugh and a class of wide-eyed students who had just had the best morning ever. It seems my little spaceman had given a pretty compelling tour of the solar system. I left with a smile, a thank-you from the teacher, and a note suggesting maybe less NASA documentaries as bedtime stories.
Back at work, I navigated through the remainder of the day. The hours passed in a blur of spreadsheets and more coffee. Before I knew it, it was time to retrieve my astronaut from his explorations.
Dinner was an adventure in itself. We had ‘moon macaroni’ (extra cheese, please) and ‘asteroid applesauce’ (slightly lumpy). My son regaled me with tales of his space adventures, his eyes shining brighter than any star in the night sky.
As bedtime approached, we settled down with a book — not about space this time, but an old favorite. I watched as his eyelids grew heavy, his journey to dreamland imminent. I tucked him in, helmet by his side, just in case he decided on a midnight trip to the moon.
The house was quiet. I sat down with a sigh, reflecting on the day’s chaos. There’s something about single motherhood that’s a lot like space travel. It’s unpredictable, thrilling, and you never quite know what you’re going to encounter next. But at the heart of it all, there’s a love that stretches wider than the universe.
In my world of packed lunches and pretend play, I sometimes feel like I’m floating in space, trying to keep my little spaceship on course. But as I turned off the lights, glancing at the sleeping astronaut in the next room, I realized that this cosmos of ours, with its messes and make-believe, is exactly where I want to be.
No, we don’t always get the trajectory right, and yes, there might be black holes along the way. But with a little imagination and a lot of love, we make this journey through the stars one worth remembering.
As I finally lay down, ready to drift into my own space of dreams, I couldn’t help but think about what tomorrow’s adventure would bring. Maybe we’d land on a new planet, or perhaps we’d encounter an alien or two. Whatever it was, I knew we’d face it together — my little astronaut and I, exploring the vast, beautiful universe of life.






