Mentor or Sponsor? The Ladder Analogy to decide who you need
Spoiler, you need BOTH
I have been a mentor for many years now and one of the questions that I am frequently clarifying is : difference between a sponsor and mentor.
A mentor is a person who will coach and guide you on one or more facets of your work and career. They usually have been through what you are going through and will generously share their experience and strategies. By this definition, they are not required to be in your own organization.
A sponsor on the other hand, advocates for you. Helps you grab better opportunities and uses their credibility and influence to help you rise through the ranks. Due to the nature of this work, they do need to be a authoritative part of your organization.
The Ladder Analogy
Imagine your career is a ladder, and you are trying to rise to the top.
A mentor will guide you onto the next rungs, bring your attention to the creaky rungs, the rusty or pointy nails that are jutting out, where to avoid the fresh paint. They know the path and they’ll help your journey be better thanks to their knowledge. Do they need to be on the ladder themselves, when you are ascending? Nope. They just need to have traversed it well enough before.
A sponsor on the other hand, will lend a hand, while perched higher and aid in you in your ascent. They might do that by helping you personally, throwing you a rope, giving you tools, and a whole host of ways. But obviously they need to be on that ladder when you are climbing and necessarily be higher than you.
What’s the point of this?
Why should I care about the difference between mentors and sponsors?
Everyone needs both mentors and sponsors. Hopefully you already know that. If not, please remember this point.
But we need to understand the difference to get one or more of each, at the right time.
Knowing mentors can help you navigate your career, you’d start off with identifying them. And assuming you read the sections above, you can look for role models in a broad pool, not just your own organization.
A point to remember is : you might need multiple mentors for different aspects of your journey. Try to limit yourself to less than three, at the same time, because you want to fully utilize the wisdom those mentors are giving you. You have to implement their action items to make headway in your career graph.
Also, use the mentoring relations to either develop into a sponsor- protege relation. Or, become so accomplished thanks to your mentor’s guidance and your efforts that you start attracting sponsors.
In case the mentor cannot become a sponsor, you will, at some point, outgrow that specific mentoring need and need guidance in something else. Ideally, as you progress, you, as a mentee need to become a trusted connection, in which case only the mentor-mentee relation ceases not the connection itself.
Sponsors, on the other hand, it feels like you can never have too many. But remember, sponsors are using their reputation and credibility to help you, so don’t let them down. It reflects badly on you, and on that sponsor and deters others from rooting for you next time. Don’t burn your bridges people!!
Summary
- Mentors guide you from their experience and inside knowledge. Start off with one.
- Sponsors help you rise by putting their influence at work for you. Turn mentors into sponsors or use the knowledge from mentors to become so awesome, you attract sponsors.
- You need both mentors and sponsors to advance more easily and quicker than all by yourself through sheer effort and skill.
Do you have mentors or/ and sponsors?
How have they helped you?
Let me know in the responses.






