Summary

The article discusses the reasons why a man should kiss a woman after performing oral sex on her, emphasizing the importance of communication, mutual pleasure, and the dynamics of sexual relationships.

Abstract

The author of the blog post advocates for kissing a woman after cunnilingus as a sign of a job well done, indicating that the man has successfully pleased her. It is also presented as a way to affirm mutual desire and comfort with each other's bodies. The article suggests that women may feel insecure during sexual encounters due to the activation of all five senses, and it is crucial for a man to make her feel comfortable. Additionally, the post implies that a woman who is willing to kiss after oral sex is confident and may be open to more adventurous sexual experiences, such as threesomes. The author also touches on personal experiences and reflections on how early sexual encounters have influenced his views and behaviors regarding sex and relationships.

Opinions

The author believes that men should only perform cunnilingus within a committed relationship to assert ownership and maintain the woman's interest.
He cautions men against women's manipulation tactics, suggesting that women may use compliments during breakups to soften the blow and protect themselves.
The article expresses that stopping oral sex when a woman says "don't stop" is a common mistake men make, and it is important to continue the stimulation to ensure her satisfaction.
It is suggested that a woman tasting herself on a man's lips is a sign of her self-care and possibly an indication of sexual exclusivity.
The author has a personal policy of only performing cunnilingus on his girlfriend, implying a stance on sexual fidelity and the risks of casual sex.
He advises against becoming a "cuck," or allowing one's girlfriend to be sexually dominated by another man, as it undermines the man's role in the relationship.
The author reflects on his own life, mentioning a history of sexual encounters from a young age and how these experiences have impacted his adult relationships and mental health.
The idea of a threesome is presented as a possibility if a woman is bold enough to kiss after oral sex, but the author emphasizes that the experience may not live up to the fantasy.
He recommends that men should not push for a threesome but rather let it be the woman's idea, possibly by sharing a bucket list that includes the desire for a ménage à trois.
The author reveals personal struggles with the concept of sexual abuse from his youth, questioning whether enjoyment negates the label of abuse and acknowledging the long-term effects on his life.

3 Reasons Why You Should Kiss Her After Going Down On Her

You Taste Like Pussy

Before we start, let’s make it clear. I do not support going down on anyone that isn’t in a relationship with me. You’re free to do what you like, but if you want that kitty to stay around, prove ownership in her eyes. That’s easier said than done. Easily given, easily lost. We break our own rules all the time.

Be cautious though, don’t give in. Women are clever and can manipulate the hell out of men into getting them anything they want: material things, sexual favors, food, money, to name a few. Women manipulate us, men, into thinking that breaking up is a good idea, specifically when she dumps you. She pumps your ego up as she cleverly separates from you with validation like:

“If you’re not happy, then this isn’t the end. There’s always a happy ending.”

“I’ll always have a place for you in my heart. Trust me, this hurts me more.”

“You were the best I ever had. I’m going to miss that about you.”

“I never loved anybody as much as I love you. Remember that, okay?”

Do you know why she pumps your ego up as she breaks your heart? This is straight-up gaslighting. We’re susceptible to this because of our ego as men. We’ll be thinking, “Yeah, we broke up, but she said I was the best she ever had.” While that might be true, it won't last forever. She did that to nail the coffin and bury your relationship for her safety. Women are clever; she knows if she crushes your heart, you might become a serial killer.

Okay, I usually lay out an abstract, so only the real ones will get to read what I titled the blog. Oh yeah, we’re talking about cunnilingus. Where do I start?

Reason one: It’s a sign that you did a good job. I’m not saying that you brought her to climax, which is unfortunate. If you don’t pick up on her body language, keep going. Find the right spot, and for the love of God, don’t stop when she says don’t stop. “Don’t stop” means you’re bullseye. But what do us men do? C’mon, you know what we do. We stop and say, “What?”

Moron, she said, “Don’t Stop.” So what you do is continue whatever it was you were doing. Don’t move away from the bullseye. If you keep going, she’ll be satisfied in seconds. If you stop, the momentum goes away. It’s tough for it to come back. The reason why this is frustrating is that women play a part in their orgasm. What this really means is putting her insecurities to the side. There’s a lot of reasons why she might feel insecure down there.

All five senses are being activated. Touch, Taste, Smell, Sound, and Sight. With all of that between her legs, it’s obvious why a woman can feel insecure. As a partaker in cunnilingus, getting her comfortable is Amazon PrimeNow! Not one-day delivery, not even same-day delivery, now!

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Reason Two: It’s the hottest thing in the world. Pussy to tongue, she gets a taste of her own. What’s even hotter is her pointing out that “you taste like pussy.” It just goes to show that she takes care of herself. It may indicate that you’re the only one hitting it. I wouldn’t know; that’s why I have a non-negotiable policy: I only perform cunnilingus if she’s my girlfriend.

You can’t just be out here eating every pussy that sits on your face. I mean, don’t get me wrong, I’ve broken that rule before. That’s why it’s a policy now. If you’re a true man or one who wears the pants, you got to live by the code.

I didn’t make the rules, and I didn’t underwrite the policy. That’s just how it is. I hate to sound so pessimistic about women because I know not all of them are conniving creatures. I’ve had a little bit of a lot of different women. They say men are from Mars, and Women are from Venus. False, we’re both down to Earth.

She’s sweet. I liked her. But, I don’t fall in love during a vacation in the Philippines.

Reason 3: It tells you that she’s gutsy. If she doesn’t mind the taste of her own, if you play your cards right, expect a threesome with her and her girlfriend, of course. We’re not running trains on my girlfriend — if your girlfriend wants a train ran on her, I’d block her or throw her out of a moving vehicle—both of which I’ve done before but not for that reason.

If there’s one thing men should avoid, it’s becoming a cuck. There’s absolutely no reason for you to let your girlfriend get dominated by some other man. You might as well break up with her. She wears the pants after that. I think that women don’t have this fantasy of getting a train ran on them. Then again, every guy dreams of having a threesome. Maybe some women won’t admit it.

Cunnilingus during a threesome is between your girl and the guest. You can stay out of their way for that part. But you gotta have the mojo to take on two women. Most guys have trouble satisfying one, but two? It’s really not the best experience I ever had. I thought it was going to be heaven on earth.

I feel bad because I was more focused on her girlfriend. Is that not courteous? Aren’t the hosts suppose to serve the guest? I felt like that was protocol. Why would I focus on my girlfriend? We always do it. These are new waters we’re diving in. My life model is:

“I go all in, or I don’t go in at all.” Write this on my tombstone.

The Biltmore Hotel, Downtown Los Angeles 2016.

FAQ: How do you convince your girlfriend to have a threesome?

The secret is this: don’t. It has to be her idea. How I had my first threesome was rather simple. I just showed my ex my bucket list. Sure enough, ‘Ménage à trois was in there. That’s why it’s important to document everything you want in life. I’m not a guru talking about manifesting your destiny. I’m a regular person telling you to list all the things you want to experience before your time comes.

“The more detailed you get about everything you want in life, the clearer they will appear before your eyes.”

Reflection and context:

Oddly enough, I actually sort of wish I didn’t experience love and sex at such a young age. I wrote this before somewhere, I can’t remember. Looking at my 11-year-old nephew, I can’t imagine him being taken advantage of by his cousin’s girlfriends.

I’ve spoken to a few therapists and psychiatrists about this. I never considered that I was sexually abused since I was a pretty horny kid. My cousin and her friends were Catholic high school girls. We were all drunk and things happened.

My first sexual encounter was with two girls, but I didn’t lose my virginity that night. My last psychiatrist retired so I had to reintroduce my life story recently. During intake, they ask you several personal questions. The weirdest thing happened at the end. The psychiatric technician expressed that he wanted to pray for me even though this was well beyond his profession. I didn’t mind but I was more confused.

Later, I found out that in my file, I have a record of being heterosexually abused at a young age. I was like, “It’s not abusing if I enjoyed it though, right?” My new psychiatrist said that abuse is abuse and that has affected my life regardless.

I don’t know if he was looking for a good enough reason to continue my high dose of Xanax and Adderall per month, or maybe he has a point. Maybe that is why I lost my virginity the following year; I was twelve and my girlfriend was fourteen.

Maybe that is the reason I often write about sex. Maybe that’s why I dropped out of the Bible School, I couldn’t stop hooking up. Maybe that’s why I was a horrible boyfriend in all my relationships. Maybe that’s why… I can’t find happiness.