Humanity

Maturity Is Involved With Emotions

People are acting like assholes. Seriously, they act like they know everything and all is about them. Instead of treating people with humanity.

When you call people out, according to them you’re the one who made the mistakes, you’re the one that did it all, you’re the one who didn’t answer his calls immediately, or fill in the blanks whatever should be your fault to others.

People don’t want to go deeper into the context of issues you’re discussing with them and then they don’t want to understand your point of view and they say you're the one who is wrong about the issues. Nothing offending, but we’re in a discussion, then I believe you have to view other people’s views.

Emotions involved

I have seen maturity is far away from people these days, at least most of them. It is so toxic and so on a distance. It seems like people — these days — have less development in how to press their emotional button and how to use their emotions.

People have not developed a normal human being when talking about emotions. They have been taught to go their own way and talk about themselves because people believe that nobody may touch your boundaries — which is true — but being for one another with the right emotions gives you so much more back towards you.

Most of the people don’t use their emotions the right way. People have been taught not to show their emotions at all, as they have been said that they will be weak if they show their emotions.

Showing emotions is one of its best humanity factors we have and we will use. It belongs to us.

I believe that being weak is fine. I think you have to show and feel the emotions you have, as it will be processed through your system. You have to, to become a better person and develop yourself.

When you hold back your emotions, I believe you will act a little bit childish. More spoiled.

How do you develop maturity?

One question arises me sometimes: how do you develop maturity? And followed by more questions. Is it just there? Is it something you have to work on? And when are you mature enough? Are you ever ready to be mature enough?

Why do we need that, maturity? What is maturity?

Maturity is when you know how to handle yourself in the situation, but also being human enough to show your emotions when you have to. What if we all didn't show our emotions, what all the protests look like? What if your mother will gaslight you and you didn't say anything about it? Or you didn’t feel anything?

Well, developing maturity means also being able to know when you have to say anything in certain situations, to know when you have to work on your own skills and to be able to know when you have to take a step back to move forward.

Look how you have handled certain situations, what will you do differently in the future? It is important to know how you have handled those situations, to grow as a human being.

Maturity is when you are an adult, the way you become an adult and maturity is what skills you have to solve problems.