How To Become A Chick Magnet

It’s not so hard as you think!

It’s more than certain that most men have spent quite some time in their life trying to think of or find a way to attract women to them. There is a branch of study out there dedicated to discovering the type of men that most women opt for and trying to teach you everything about women. If after your endeavors, you have learned anything about women's behavior then you can call yourself a psychologist right now.

All these studies have been conducted by people who take into account psychology and how it affects seduction but ignore some factors, such as money, that may attract women to men. But the fundamental problem is that despite lengthy research, the results are still running away in your hands. What do finally women find attractive?

Well, women like men who stand by themselves. Men who have an independent and solid demeanor. Women want men!

After extended research conducted by Britain and Japanese psychologists, it was found that the points that impact seduction are not just how a man looks or smells. Particularly it reported that women who want to establish a long term relationship, which by the way, deep down, is what most of them are looking for, won’t choose good-looking men because they are considered to be unreliable, more likely to be unfaithful, and only good for short-term relationships.

Until recently, it was assumed that during the fertile period of ovulation, women don’t have pronounced "oestrus". However, recent research shows that given a free choice they opt for more masculine, well fit, macho type men (who are likely to make strong, healthy babies)during the period of ovulation.

In general, women rate faces that are slightly above average in terms of their masculinity as more attractive. During their fertile days — characterized by high estrogen and low progesterone levels — they prefer even more masculinized faces. A high willingness to reproduce in women during this period is manifested in an increased preference for men with pronounced masculine characteristics.

Respectively, the rest of the days, they prefer the less masculine type of men who might be thought to make better long-term relationships.

So, if you’re not a masculine type of man, you have many chances of getting any woman, 75% of the time.

However, women appear more attractive to men during their fertile days. For example, lap dancers (a form of entertainment widespread in the USA in which the dancers sit on the men’s lap) have significantly higher tip income during their fertile days than outside or when they take the pill.

With this investigation, it could be shown, contrary to earlier views, that men can perceive the fertile days of women very well, which is also in the sense of procreation. Women look more attractive in photos during the fertile phase. During this time, in response to erotic images, they even show increased activity of the zygomaticus muscle, which is one of the laughing muscles.

So you need to be aware of the women looking at you a lot and choose from them right away instead of those who attract you the most at a subconscious level otherwise you’ll end up picking out women who are ovulating and are not going to pick you.

By always picking girls who are attracted to you, your “score” can be hugely boosted. You just have to believe that in every place there will be some women who are attracted to you — no matter what you look like. Keep your confidence at a high level and believe it because after all, it is just a matter of time to find this type of woman.

If you want to attract and make women fall for you you have to bear in mind that women find it attractive when men embody independence and strength, when they live their male identity. This can be expressed, for example, in individual positions and opinions. However, the type of personality is much more important than the opinion itself. Anyone who insists on their position no matter what as well as the one who gives in at a sign of disagreement finally loses.

Being happy, content with who you are and where you are right now, friendly to both men and women, and not reacting with anger or sulks to setbacks but accepting life as it comes, you’ll attract more women and make them fall for you more often than you might believe.

Think for a moment all these guys who are always happy, laid back, and optimistic. Can you imagine them having trouble getting girls? I bet they don’t. Believe it or not, when you are out with a woman or just having fun in a nightclub, showing your temper is the worst thing you can do because this way you’ll ruin the “top guy” image you’ve struggled to create.

That’s why it’s critical not to drink too much when you are out trying to pick up girls. Don’t mix up your picking up nights with those when you and the guys go out and drink a lot or you’re watching the game of your favorite team.

Then it can often happen that a woman presents you with a more or less clear invitation to flirt and seduce. This is sometimes a bit more difficult to recognize, but with the right training, you will notice these situations more and more often. And the more you notice these situations, the more suitable women you will be able to involve in a nice flirtation.

It’s not so hard to attract and seduce women as long as you know what you are doing. If you keep telling your unconscious mind that you are the type of guy that women want like hell, you’ll find out that you’ll be filled with confidence and sex appeal. Then you’ll subconsciously believe that you are a chick magnet and there is nothing on earth that can stop women from getting attracted to you.

Psychologists claim that our mind plays a significant role in the process of seduction. Start by telling yourself, at least three times a day, that you have the power and confidence to get any woman you desire. Get convinced that you have a massive sex appeal and your confidence is at the highest level.

Don’t feel stupid doing this and most of all don't skip this step. These types of affirmations work.

As soon as you believe that you already are a chick magnet women will believe it too and they won’t be capable of taking their hands off you. It’s so simple.

You probably don’t know that what we believe about ourselves is formed by a particular unconscious region in our brain according to our thoughts. These beliefs do not depend on what happens to us. Instead, they depend on the way we think about what happens to us, the way we react to and deal with the events happening in our lives.

If you start thinking positively, looking only for the positives in all the circumstances and events of your life, and take charge of your life by never blaming other people for things that are happening to you, you’ll change yourself into this happy, laid-back guy.

Let’s assume that while walking on the street you lose your phone. You might get really angry and curse your bad luck for what just happened. Or you might curse your friend who “made you” walk up that street to meet him at the bar. Or, you might start blaming and cursing yourself for being careless or being that guy that these things always happen to.

But the confident guy would say, “It’s a bummer I lost my phone, no doubt. Ok, shit happens. Well, I guess it’s time to get that new model I always wanted.” Or, “Maybe this is another way that life tells me I have to cut back on junk food because that’s what I’m supposed to do to afford the cost of a new phone.”

That’s exactly the type of guy all women adore. So, if you want to become that type of guy you’ve got to change the way you think because confidence plays a major role in the whole seduction process.

A man is considered to be a confident one if success and happiness fluid his life. Such men don’t feel the need of being with women, they don’t care about rejection because they are convinced that lost opportunities just don’t exist, instead, their life is full of new opportunities. Their happiness and success motivate them to handle any rejection efficiently. By that saying, if a man is both successful and happy in life is considered to be a chick magnet. Period!

Have you ever met any guy who is unhappy or unsuccessful but can attract women?

Nop! I haven’t.

Women don’t like miserable or unsuccessful men.

Of course, it is not easy to achieve success and happiness but bear in mind that both of them are relative. Happiness is a feeling that we all have from time to time. We can be happy as long as we are looking for happy things in almost any situation.

Although you can define your success, to some extend, by setting your own goals and meeting them, nonetheless success can be defined by various other factors that come into play. However, if you apply certain behaviors in your life you’ll be considered as a successful one and thus a true chick magnet.

Do you want to understand women? Then you should read the next sentence very carefully

It is very important to women to be with men who act on their own initiative when dealing with women.

This type of man should be so calm inside that he not only reacts but acts of his authentic drive. Self-esteem is so important that he stays on his course.

An interesting man has both feet on the ground and acts out of this security. This allows him to build an independent force field that women find interesting, attractive, and irresistible.

Every man lives his masculinity and is aware of his being a man — period! In a conversation, a woman wants to be able to converse with a man on a variety of topics. The man’s positions and his handling of the conversation are important here.

If they have a sense of humor and can interact in unusual ways, this shows both their security and their intelligence.

Unfortunately, I can hardly give you any tips that you can implement in five minutes. The obvious ones come first. So take a shower, brush your teeth, and exercise. But everything that brings about real change comes from within.

More awareness, self-confidence, inner calm, good feelings, powerful action, and of course the knowledge of what is really important to women should never be ignored. The nice thing is that your awareness is simultaneously developing.

Get out of your comfort zone and do things that you were previously afraid of. Meditate. In December, wade slowly through a river in your area. The most important thing is to do it! Start shaping your life the way you want it!

And some useful tips:

There are no uniform types, no clothing style that makes every woman’s heart beat faster. The new jeans don’t make a man. And not even a new haircut. Once again, it’s about authentic self-expression. But there are a few points to understand that women can reasonably agree on.

• Men should be well-groomed. The fingernails should be cut and the teeth brushed within the last few days. The preferred beard should be in shape. That doesn’t mean that pedicures and intimate waxing are compulsory. But the appearance should reveal that man is careful with himself.
• Smile and laugh. If you laugh, you show your openness. He shows his joy in life. These are all things women like. When addressing a woman, you should consider whether smiling is not an appropriate facial expression. Laughing is also a great way to get noticed: Laughing out loud can fill rooms and make heads turn.
• Be attentive. Attractive men pay full attention to the lady of the heart in every moment. This makes the conversations or flirtations more intense and meaningful. Women feel accepted and honored. The contact goes beyond small talk because small talk cannot withstand the power of true listening.
• Try to be a generous guy as often as you can. Stingy men have no place in a woman’s life.
• Be always optimistic no matter what.
• When approaching a woman do it without the fear of rejection. So what if she rejects you? Don’t blame yourself and don’t let this rejection diminish your confidence. She may have reasons for not wanting to go home with you although she is wildly attracted to you. Stop thinking of it because there’s nothing you can do to change what has happened. Get over it and do it fast.

Keep telling yourself that you are a great and very confident man who can succeed in anything.

• Keep smiling, it doesn’t cost you anything. Put a smile on your face and color your world.
• Women adore intelligent men who have a great sense of humor. They find it very sexy. Just make sure you know what to say and how to behave in front of them.
• Have faith! You can do it no matter what as long as you believe it!

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