Make Her Crazy with These Tantric Sex Secrets
“I want to rip your clothes off!”
Tantric sex. This will set you apart from every man on the planet and make women remember you for the rest of their lives.
The term alone can invoke images of sizzling marathon sex sessions and mystical mind-blowing orgasms
I’m Olivia and this is five Tantric sex tips for you to drive her crazy. I’ve done all the testing, I know what works.
What Is Tantric Sex Exactly?
Tantric Sex is an ancient Hindu practice that’s been going on for over 5,000 years and means the weaving and expansion of energy.
It’s a slow form of sex that’s said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms.
If you can give a woman the best orgasm of her life, then she’ll probably come back for more.
Think of it as intimate clothing-optional yoga with your partner. Its purpose is enlightenment and the philosophy transcends the bedroom into all aspects of life.
In the Tantric view,
Sex and Orgasm equals spiritual awareness at its peak.
And when male energy and female energy join in one sexual union, it’s believed to be the highest point of enlightenment.
Despite all the talk about too good for words orgasm, that’s actually not the goal of Tantra.
Instead, it’s more about;
- Being in the moment,
- Riding that wave of sensation and arousal. Yours and your partner’s.
If you only focus on getting that one massive “O” at the end then you might miss out on other orgasmic joys happening in your body along the way.
But yes, you definitely can have extended full-body orgasms through Tantric sex.
Here are five simple steps on how to incorporate elements of Tantric sex into your own bedroom:
1. Eye Contact
It may sound obvious but deep eye contact with your partner can make your sexual experiences a lot more intense.
- Find a comfortable place to sit, so you and your partner can look directly into each other’s eyes.
- Start with your eyes closed and take a moment to center yourself.
- When each of you is ready to open your eyes and gaze into your partner’s eyes, allow her to really see you as you in turn witness her.
For added effect,
- Have your partner straddle you in the “Yab Yum” position for even deeper intimacy.
- You can even synchronize your breaths to inhale and exhale in unison.
Be careful with this last move though, as it’s deeply powerful and will make her feel strong feelings for you.
Best to save it for a really special girl.
2. Breathing and Awareness
To truly enrich your Tantric experience, the key is to be fully in the moment. If you’re thinking about work or getting some Chipotle later, then your touch will feel shallow and your partner will feel this.
- Breathe deeply and slowly from your diaphragm,
- Focusing on touching your partner with your full and undivided consciousness.
3. Explore Your Senses
Tantra isn’t just used to enhance the physicality of sex, it’s about the emotional and sensory experience as well.
This means taste, touch, sight, smell, and sound.
It’s long been known that when we lose one of our senses our other senses are heightened. Like when blind people develop a more acute sense of hearing.
To take advantage of this, create a relaxing, intimate, and sensual experience for your partner by blindfolding her and offering her a variety of non-visual stimulation.
- Try essential oils, cinnamon, or vanilla for the smell,
- Play some soft music that you know she loves,
- Feed her juicy strawberries or chocolate.
For touch,
- Try caressing her body with bits of silk feathers or a rose petal.
It might sound a little woo-woo or lengthy, but trust me she’ll melt right in front of you and make the sex that much better.
4. The “Yab Yum”
As I mentioned before, one of the key ingredients to soul-searching with your partner is looking directly into her eyes. The “Yab Yum” position is particularly good for this purpose.
- Sit cross-legged,
- Have her climb your lap,
- Sit with her legs around your waist,
The intimacy of bare skin-hugging bare skin leads to finding the deeper connection that you two have.
Start slow and thrust gently but also work on building up pace.
Have patience young grasshopper, and a prolonged orgasm will reward your efforts.
5. Full-body Orgasms
Imagine feeling an orgasm not just in your genitals but all over your body for an extended period of time.
Sounds too good to be true?
— Not in Tantra, it isn’t!
One way to learn how to have full-body orgasms is to practice reaching the point just before orgasm, then letting it fade a bit.
Now build it up again and use your breath and the power of intention to spread the energy through your body.
Protip:
Clench your P.C. muscle.
The muscle you use when you stop yourself from urinating and consciously drop your sexual energy to the top of your head stopping just before the point of orgasm.
This will allow you to keep making love while spreading that energy throughout your entire body.
This is a more advanced technique that requires some self-restraint and practice. But when you do finally orgasm you should feel ripples of it in different parts of your body.
She’ll Be Addicted to You
Tantric sex is a 5,000 years old study, so this is just a small fraction of what it has to offer. But with Tantric Sex, you can elevate your sexual life to one that has her crave your Yab Yum day after day.
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Don’t forget that before she’ll sleep with you, she has to be turned on. Use these steps to create sexual tension, turn her on, and escalate to the bedroom.
Turn that platonic, friendly vibe into a more sexual vibe like,
“I want to rip your clothes off”
