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ing at the end of the day.</p><figure id="9fbf"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*wZ6gEFFQ6bEpAZOI"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@clemono?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Clem Onojeghuo</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><p id="3c11">The best part about love languages is the fact that everyone has a different love language. There is a given rule while learning love languages you will realize that your receiving language may be completely <b>different</b> from your giving language.</p><p id="83a7">You may love to give hugs and be touched, but your partner/ friend may hate doing these things. How do we learn our love languages? the only way you could really do this is to read up on them and once you read about them you’ll be able to understand how other people like to be loved (or more importantly how you like to be loved).</p><h2 id="1264">As love languages are the easiest way to tend to your loved ones it can also be extremely hard to tend to many people at once.</h2><p id="7812">What I mean by this is imagine you have 3 different friends who have 3 different love languages, one loves to be hugged, one loves to spend time with you, and one only feels loved while receiving gifts.</p><p id="510e">The twist is you don’t like doing any of these things, and you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone to tend to these relationships.</p><blockquote id="2572"><p>I previously mentioned the 80/20 rule.</p></blockquote><p id="ae2f">This can also be applied while learning how to tend to people’s love languages. If you are tending to your friends/partner’s love language 80% of the time…..there’s an issue, if your love language i

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sn’t being done for you… there is an issue.</p><p id="af76">It’s hard to tell someone what your love language is and how you want them to express love to you, but being <b>open and honest </b>about the things you like doing might be the only answer.</p><p id="cf54">If you expect your friend/partner to <b>“change”</b> and tend to your needs please make sure you’re doing the same, overcompensating to one person’s love language can be damaging to your relationship.</p><p id="491c">Commit to the same level of effort as your loved one and do things that have value to both of you. Two people happy is what creates good relationships, and as Mystica said every relationship has a lasting impact, so try to make them all count.</p><p id="67fb"><b>My advice to you is to always do everything with love and love only.</b> At the end of the day if you have some love in your heart you can accomplish anything.</p><p id="8782">written by: <a href="undefined">Mysticmistica</a> & <a href="undefined">k. leafyy</a></p><p id="36e0">Thank you for reading! For more of me ( <a href="undefined">k. leafyy</a>), please use these guides to help you!</p><div id="a131" class="link-block"> <a href="https://medium.com/@kleafyy/subscribe"> <div> <div> <h2>Get an email whenever k. leafyy publishes.</h2> <div><h3>Get an email whenever k. leafyy publishes. By signing up, you will create a Medium account if you don't already have…</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*PmZvJQ7BpniWW5bw)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

love languages.

Living in the present is very important, but there is one thought I often have that makes me consider the future.

I question what this is all for, and it always comes back to the same thing. when my time here runs out, I know all that will matter is how I make people feel. How much I own or what I wear will mean nothing, so instead, I shift my focus to the quality of my interactions and experiences with others. I believe no amount of love can be wasted, but the way we show care is a conversation worth having.

Love languages help us to understand how our needs can be met in our relationships.

To have these deep connections, we need to learn how to understand each other better. Sometimes love languages reflect what we lacked as children, for example, if your love language is words of affirmation, maybe you weren’t validated growing up. Understanding the influence each relationship has had on you is what helps you grow, whether that starts with your parents, friends or partner.

Not every relationship lasts, but every relationship has a lasting impact, and learning lessons is a part of that process.

So be grateful for everyone that you knew and are yet to meet, we are all just figuring this out as we go and these connections are all that hold meaning at the end of the day.

The best part about love languages is the fact that everyone has a different love language. There is a given rule while learning love languages you will realize that your receiving language may be completely different from your giving language.

You may love to give hugs and be touched, but your partner/ friend may hate doing these things. How do we learn our love languages? the only way you could really do this is to read up on them and once you read about them you’ll be able to understand how other people like to be loved (or more importantly how you like to be loved).

As love languages are the easiest way to tend to your loved ones it can also be extremely hard to tend to many people at once.

What I mean by this is imagine you have 3 different friends who have 3 different love languages, one loves to be hugged, one loves to spend time with you, and one only feels loved while receiving gifts.

The twist is you don’t like doing any of these things, and you have to push yourself out of your comfort zone to tend to these relationships.

I previously mentioned the 80/20 rule.

This can also be applied while learning how to tend to people’s love languages. If you are tending to your friends/partner’s love language 80% of the time…..there’s an issue, if your love language isn’t being done for you… there is an issue.

It’s hard to tell someone what your love language is and how you want them to express love to you, but being open and honest about the things you like doing might be the only answer.

If you expect your friend/partner to “change” and tend to your needs please make sure you’re doing the same, overcompensating to one person’s love language can be damaging to your relationship.

Commit to the same level of effort as your loved one and do things that have value to both of you. Two people happy is what creates good relationships, and as Mystica said every relationship has a lasting impact, so try to make them all count.

My advice to you is to always do everything with love and love only. At the end of the day if you have some love in your heart you can accomplish anything.

Thank you for reading! For more of me ( k. leafyy), please use these guides to help you!