
Lonlieness and Masturbation
A consequence of masturbation is that it removes the need to reach out to another.

From a purely pragmatic point of view, that can have anti-social consequences.
Many interactions between people are sexually motivated.

These interactions are in and of themselves satisfying socially if not sexually.
So although the original motivation is sexual, the payoff is social too.
When the sexual urge has been satisfied, the urgency to seek social situations is lessened.
Lonlieness can be a good 😊 thing.
It can motivate people to reach out to others.
Masturbation is a turning inwards of energy that would more healthily be directed elsewhere.

Uninterrupted by closeness to another, it can be toxic and destructive.


I wrote this response to a rhetorical question posed by Jeffrey Sargent:
“I mean seriously, how can masturbation be a bad thing?”.
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