Live an Unapologetic Life

People will talk, so live as if you don’t give a f*ck.

When I was young, I thought that if I was a nice person, tried to be kind and do the right thing that others would like me and not talk about me.

I avoided situations and people as not to be dragged into drama and gossip. But even if you stay above it all, there will be someone who wants to pull you under.

I later found out that people will always find something to talk about, so you may as well do what you want and live how you’d like to.

Being a good person doesn’t make you immune to others criticisms, when you leave the room there will always be someone who wants to start a conversation about you. So do what makes you happy.

“Whoever gossips to you, will gossip about you.” ~ Spanish Proverb

Unfortunately, people like to focus on someone else's life instead of their own. They don’t want to fix their problems. They want to judge others. They get into one’s business instead of keeping track of theirs.

No one should have to apologize for who they are or how they live.

Life is too short to care what people think of you, and usually, those that are judgmental are fixating on others’ faults or insecurities, so they don’t have to face their own.

People concerned about another’s life is, because they don’t want to examine their own life.

“Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

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