Listen To This Cartoon Monkey
It Gets Easier
“It gets easier. Every day, it gets a little easier. But you gotta do it every day — that’s the hard part. But it does get easier.” — Cartoon Monkey from Bojack Horseman

If you’re setting out on something new — like writing on Medium, you need to recognize that it will feel like you can’t do it, and maybe you’re just not the sort of person who does this anyway. Rejections pile up, and being ignored is almost worse.
You just gotta do it every day. Set out to express yourself a little better each day.
Publish and move on. This is a long race, and you won’t survive if you keep thinking about the finish line.
Only Compare To Yourself Yesterday
We all know it. Comparison is the thief of joy. Didn’t Teddy Roosevelt say that? Or Einstein? Or Dumbledore?
Well, we are comparison beings, I hate to tell you. That’s the only way to make sense of the world, after all. What is a tall man if not compared to a short man? What is fresh if not compared to rotten? Successful to unsuccessful?
We can take that ability and use it for good. Only compare to the person you were yesterday. 2 good reasons:
- You are the best possible control group. No one else has your exact gifts and challenges.
- It is manageable to do a little better than you did yesterday. It is not manageable to become the most successful blogger on the planet today.
That’s all you can do is a little better today. It gets easier, but you have to do a little better today.
If You Want It, You Can Have It
You can only find out if you truly want something if you dive all the way in.
If it turns out that you truly want to become a writer, and you are willing to do what it takes, you can have it. I truly believe that.
Those who sit on the face, hedge bets, linger in resentment, and never truly decide are the ones who never get what they want. Because they were not honest with themselves, and so never knew how to ask the world.
You gotta do it every day — that’s the hard part.
Originally published at https://www.taylorforeman.com on July 30, 2020.






