Letter to Everyone — Get Your Shit Together
You’ve probably heard it very often when you’ve been through a lot.
But you should get your shit together. Although it has not been your fault, you should pick it up and make something if it. It could be with a therapist or with whoever is supporting you. You can get through it. You should and you have.
Go to the bottom of your heart and tell yourself what you want to do. What should life look like for you? What are your dreams in life?
When you’ve been through a lot like I have been then you definitely should talk to a therapist who can help you. Search for the one you have a click with. You can text when you want to talk to him or her whenever it is possible or make a list whenever you can’t talk to your therapist and talk about it in the sessions.
But anyhow, get your shit together to get out of the negative emotions and behavior. It also leads to neglecting your self-being. Your self worth is going down. You need to get out of it, no matter how and when. I know you will. Somehow somewhere and whenever it suits you, you will get out of your shit.
No matter who is responsible for it. You’re responsible for getting out of it. Don’t stay in your negative emotions, just stand for it, leave it behind you and continue to be happy — so these people don’t have any chance to hurt you again.
Get some therapy. Get some help. Not matter how. Just do it. Now. I know you will get better. I know you need to get better. Not only for yourself. Also for your beloved ones.
Also for the people who hurt you the most. Show them you’re happy. Show them that you are worth being someone. Show it. Show them. Show yourself.
You’re worth being someone on earth who is happy, and you can do anything. Everyone is worth it and so do you.
Look what can help you to get your shit together.
I know you have a beautiful life ahead. And you can do so much with it.
Agnes Laurens is a writer. She writes for the local newspaper. Agnes lives in Bunnik, The Netherlands, with her husband and three daughters. Writing is — aside from playing the violin — one of her passions since childhood. She is on Twitter and Instagram.
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