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. I am no longer searching for love because I experience love in my life every day. I have finally<b> let go of that need</b> to be attached to someone in a romantic relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I would prefer to be in a relationship, but <b>I will allow that to develop on its own</b>.</p><figure id="f340"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/1*J9s_9jJb4oGEdY_HdPCjMw.png"><figcaption>Image by <a href="https://pixabay.com/ro/users/geralt-9301/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=4573369">Gerd Altmann</a> from <a href="https://pixabay.com/ro/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=4573369">Pixabay</a></figcaption></figure><p id="9a06">I believe because I am vibrating in the frequency of love, in time, love will make its way to me. Therefore, there is <b>no need for me to spend time chasing love</b> as I did before, I will allow it to develop and blossom naturally. When romantic love does in fact return into my life, I will be well prepared to receive and to give love intelligently.</p><p id="532b">Love is a deeply intense complicated emotional state of being and it can become frustrating because of lack of understanding. So, if I were to give you one piece of advice it would be that <b>love should start with you</b>. Once you practice self-love, you have won half the battle because it will open your ey

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es to your true essence. You are a being whose <b>natural state is love, joy and peace</b>. Love will surround you and you will begin to see love in everything.</p><p id="3e44">I have found that once I started practicing self-love, it became easier to express my love and kindness having no expectations. I will now <b>let love be</b> and if romantic love enters into my life, I will let that be as well and allow it to develop authentically in its own unique and passionate way.</p><p id="f1c5"><i>This was written in response to <a href="undefined">𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘢 𝘊.</a>’s Wednesday Prompt:</i></p><div id="3c5f" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/weekly-prompt-12-16-of-april-9c44c4d0ac57"> <div> <div> <h2>Weekly Prompt: 12–16 of April</h2> <div><h3>Emergence & growth series</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*bjj2kiOeY3QQLy8__4oSzQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="2008"><b><i>Thank you all for reading. And thank you <a href="undefined">𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘢 𝘊.</a> for creating the space so that we all can revisit stages in our lives, tell our stories, grow, and heal. KTHT has been a rollercoaster, one that I don’t mind riding.</i></b></p></article></body>

Let Love Be

Love Will Develop Authentically

Wednesday: What aspect of my life should I leave alone to develop on its own?

Image by Karen Nadine from Pixabay

If I knew then what I know now, I would have loved myself much more than I did. In turn, I would have known how to express romantic love intelligently, and I would have known how I should have been loved.

I can stand in my truth and admit that I sucked at love because I was completely clueless. See, I fell on my face a few times because I was blinded by the illusion of what I believed to be love. I thought love came with happiness and the person I loved was responsible for my happiness and I was responsible for his. Therefore, when we both fell short countless times, we were sitting in misery second guessing our choices.

But I am grateful for those experiences because they led me to this moment where love is finally clear. I am no longer searching for love because I experience love in my life every day. I have finally let go of that need to be attached to someone in a romantic relationship. Don’t get me wrong, I would prefer to be in a relationship, but I will allow that to develop on its own.

Image by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay

I believe because I am vibrating in the frequency of love, in time, love will make its way to me. Therefore, there is no need for me to spend time chasing love as I did before, I will allow it to develop and blossom naturally. When romantic love does in fact return into my life, I will be well prepared to receive and to give love intelligently.

Love is a deeply intense complicated emotional state of being and it can become frustrating because of lack of understanding. So, if I were to give you one piece of advice it would be that love should start with you. Once you practice self-love, you have won half the battle because it will open your eyes to your true essence. You are a being whose natural state is love, joy and peace. Love will surround you and you will begin to see love in everything.

I have found that once I started practicing self-love, it became easier to express my love and kindness having no expectations. I will now let love be and if romantic love enters into my life, I will let that be as well and allow it to develop authentically in its own unique and passionate way.

This was written in response to 𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘢 𝘊.’s Wednesday Prompt:

Thank you all for reading. And thank you 𝘋𝘪𝘢𝘯𝘢 𝘊. for creating the space so that we all can revisit stages in our lives, tell our stories, grow, and heal. KTHT has been a rollercoaster, one that I don’t mind riding.

Self Love
Life Lessons
Self-awareness
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