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</div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*9HOoq5xzUW21OVWyKPZmmg.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="2eb6">Some not.</p><p id="bf90">Like my ex who pulled the plug on me a year ago. “I decided I’m not going to see you anymore.”</p><p id="f90d">I was shocked to say the least. I blinked back tears driving. It was a miracle I didn’t crash the car that day.</p><div id="3854" class="link-block"> <a href="https://monalisasmiled.medium.com/endings-4e479d95b038"> <div> <div> <h2>When An Affair Ends with a New Beginning</h2> <div><h3>Losing a Lover</h3></div> <div><p>monalisasmiled.medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*wxc23_kPBZTPoaSXJL0rjQ.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="efb8">I pulled the plug on my three year affair a week ago. He was thrown for a loop even though I felt our affair was “ending” for months. I couldn’t find it in me to keep going with him. He’s angry and upset.</p><p id="4c40">I get texts.</p><p id="bad9">“I don’t understand why we can’t be together.” “I’ll love you forever # Options .”</p><p id="734f">How do I even answer? There aren’t any good reasons.</p><div id="1a07" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/saying-goodbye-to-a-lover-18cd49600d83"> <div> <div> <h2>Calling From A Locked Bathroom</h2> <div><h3>Saying Goodbye to an Affair Partner</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*oyTUBxYxgDsVBrwB1ZTZYA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><p id="41c6">All endings suck.</p><p id="33a2"><b>Back to Lesson Eleven — <a href="https://readmedium.com/lesson-eleven-the-feelings-will-suck-so-make-peace-with-that-8995e667151b"></a></b><a href="https://readmedium.com/lesson-eleven-the-feelings-will-suck-so-make-peace-with-that-8995e667151b">The Feelings Will Suck So Make Piece With That.</a></p><p id="ac9f"><b>On to Lesson Thirteen — <a href="https://readmedium.com/lesson-thirteen-adultery-and-the-law-37fdb831a2b7"></a></b><a href="https://readmedium.com/lesson-thirteen-adultery-and-the-law-37fdb831a2b7">Adultery and the Law</a></p><p id="419b">Follow me on Substack. [email protected]</p><p id="54e7">Buy me a chai tea (my fave!) at [email protected]</p></article></body>

ADULTERY ACADEMY

Lesson Twelve — Endings are Brutal

Getting off the Roller Coaster

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Affairs have timelines. When you start to get sick, it’s time to get off the roller coaster. If the pit in my stomach is because I don’t want to open your text or see you, it’s over.

I’ve had my share of endings. Some mutual.

This is rare.

My ex-lover was a mutual ending, kinda. He called it quits because of a new pressurized job, and I bowed out. Crying in a parking lot is never easy.

Some not.

Like my ex who pulled the plug on me a year ago. “I decided I’m not going to see you anymore.”

I was shocked to say the least. I blinked back tears driving. It was a miracle I didn’t crash the car that day.

I pulled the plug on my three year affair a week ago. He was thrown for a loop even though I felt our affair was “ending” for months. I couldn’t find it in me to keep going with him. He’s angry and upset.

I get texts.

“I don’t understand why we can’t be together.” “I’ll love you forever.”

How do I even answer? There aren’t any good reasons.

All endings suck.

Back to Lesson Eleven — The Feelings Will Suck So Make Piece With That.

On to Lesson Thirteen — Adultery and the Law

Follow me on Substack. [email protected]

Buy me a chai tea (my fave!) at [email protected]

Endings
Adultery
Cheating
Breakups
Affairs
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