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The web content emphasizes the importance of dedicating time for quiet contemplation and self-reflection to foster personal growth, healing, and self-awareness.

Abstract

The article "Leave Time For Contemplation: 4 Cornerstones To Know Thyself & Heal Thyself" underscores the value of setting aside daily time for silent introspection. It suggests that in the midst of a noisy world, finding moments of peace is crucial for personal development. The author, Destiny S. Harris, advocates for the power of quiet reflection as a means to connect deeply with oneself, encouraging readers to ask introspective questions and engage in meditative exercises. The piece highlights the significance of breathing as a tool to center oneself and maintain a connection with the soul. It also provides a list of self-care needs that individuals often overlook, urging them to prioritize self-awareness, self-healing, and self-growth. The article concludes with a call to action for readers to embrace solitude and engage in self-inquiry to facilitate a journey of self-discovery and enlightenment.

Opinions

  • The author expresses a deep appreciation for silence, viewing it as a source of power, healing, awareness, enlightenment, and growth.
  • There is a concern that the constant noise of modern life hinders our ability to find peace and engage in meaningful self-reflection.
  • The article suggests that individuals are continually evolving and that regular contemplation is essential to stay in tune with one's changing self.
  • Breathing is presented as a fundamental practice for maintaining presence and connection with one's inner being.
  • The author believes that people often neglect to provide themselves with essential intangible needs such as self-care, self-love, and self-motivation.
  • A key opinion is that dedicating just 10 minutes a day to quiet contemplation can lead to significant personal benefits, including increased self-awareness and emotional release.
  • The author emphasizes the importance of accepting oneself and letting go of what no longer serves one's well-being.

Leave Time For Contemplation

4 Cornerstones To Know Thyself & Heal Thyself

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Devotion: “Quiet Contemplation allows you to connect with yourself, to remember who you are when the day is done, to ground down and breathe deeply. Save 10 minutes each day to do nothing except spend time in your own company and contemplate your day.”— Cyndie Spiegel

Quiet Contemplation

People often ask me why I enjoy silence. My response is always the same: I love the sound of silence. I love the sound of no noise. I love the sound of quiet reflection. There is power, there is healing, there is awareness, there is enlightenment, and there is growth in quiet reflection. But we often miss out on quiet contemplation because we are so wrapped up in the noise (e.g., media, radio, music, podcasts, tv, etc.).

When is the last time you sat in the stillness of the quiet?

In a world filled with incessant noise, it’s challenging to get away. It’s hard to find peace in a world full of pandemonium. But we must make time because no one else will make the time for us.

Who Am I?

It’s effortless to get wrapped up with our days year in and year out that we forget to stop. When we continue to forget to pause, we lose ourselves — indefinitely.

Ask yourself right now: Who am I?

We are constantly evolving. Even when it seems like we aren’t changing, our desires, likes, dislikes, goals, ambitions, values, priorities, and beliefs evolve. Don’t miss out on the evolution of your being by forgetting to take a moment to pause. Stay present. Stay engaged. Stay in tune with you.

Just Breathe

Often, I forget I’m breathing. I lose consciousness of my breath. I forget to feel my breath. I forget how peaceful listening to my breath is.

The breath always brings me back to my center. The breath keeps me centered. The breath keeps me present. The breath keeps me in touch with my soul. The breath keeps me in touch with my body. The breath keeps me in touch with my feelings. The breath is my cornerstone.

Just breathe.

It’s such a simple task that we often skip. All it takes is a few seconds to sync yourself to your breath. But the benefits, the healing, the peace, the freedom, the perspective, the love, and the stillness that come from taking a moment to breathe are magical. Do it today.

10 Minutes

Be with yourself. Be by yourself. Be quiet with you for 10 minutes at the beginning, middle, or end of each day.

Ask Yourself These Questions In Your Solitude

  1. How does it feel to be in my presence?
  2. How does it feel to be alone?
  3. How does it feel to be me?

Why can we give ourselves everything except the things we need like…

  • self-care
  • self-love
  • self-healing
  • self-development
  • self-awareness
  • self-enlightenment
  • self-growth
  • self-motivation
  • self-forgiveness
  • self-inspiration

We often miss the mark on giving ourselves the things (tangible and intangible) we genuinely need. But today, you can change that. Give yourself just 10 minutes of beautiful quiet. Notice how you feel after you’re done. Become 100% aware of your feelings. Be one with who you are today. Accept who you are today. And let go of everything that no longer serves you well.

Destiny S. Harris is a writer, poet, entrepreneur, teacher, and techie who offers free books daily on amazon. Destiny obtained three degrees in political science, psychology, and women’s studies. Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or @ destinyh.com

Mindfulness
Self-awareness
Meditation
Solitude
Breathing
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