Laughter- The Unsung Hero of the New Dawn.
My perspective on why laughing might enhance your life.
Life is a fantabulous journey. Life turns around to be different and unpredictable for all of us, at all stages from the very beginning of this journey as featureless, priceless babies who heavily got into this outer earth, competing with all of its other sperm friends and won the race with no other expectations but it didn’t know, it would experience everything after a certain period.
The toddlers from the stage of unstable nodders didn’t want to take life seriously, didn’t know how to face problems, had no idea about its pretty unsure future but the only gift his/her had was to make others happy by giving a bright smile towards every single person they see and meet every day.
And also, by waving their small hand and leg bones happily, a little cry for food, unique playlists for their sleep, a long term visual play in their colorful dreams during sleep, a real-time play with pets, an energizing feed from mom, cute twinkling talking moments.
The day it reached the age to crawl by its soft toes and the day it fell during the first walk, the above unclear visuals have always been one of our immature memories deep inside us, always.
The days of ecstasy :
From the period of little ones, there exists a big leap of time to become an adult between which, the young chap period throws some light on a lot of memorable events, several types of moments starting from :
The first fall during cycling, pillow fights with siblings, time with best friends, street play with native ones, great rumor session with our classmates, a burst of great laughter with his/her dearest friend when pocket smiles with zero money, sweet memories of jangling birthday parties with lots of buzzing crazy moments which made the day an unforgettable day of all.
The last and the best time we enjoyed with our unsung heroes(our parents), last fun and crazy time in a natural ambiance, and the day we took the first best photo using the borrowed camera from neighborhood friends and many more unforgettable moments exist even now.
These are the things that run behind in one’s mind like a fast-motion slideshow which always brings happiness to the soul and the yearning to live those moments in the present life puts a great smile to move forward towards another cherishing and positive day.
All of us, on one fine day, would like to relish our childhood memories together which had lots of fun, happiness, smoky memories about our falls, distinct ones of our school days which brings out lots of crazy thoughts to express inside us, most of the time, many satisfactory factors which put a smile on all of our faces.
The events might change from my perspective but we all do have some enjoyable memories.
I am always excited to recall my memories at times.
Keeping these phases of happiness in mind, the day I dreamt the sweet snippets again became the day to shed tears coming out of my pupil supported by my lower eyelid which became one of the largest dams to restrict the emotional waters.
The breeze of unforgettable days and pleasant memories dragged me but the reality that we can’t get back those beautiful days hit us very hard like a bullet-struck soldier into his heart, even more, harder to the core!!
Happiness of one is highly subjected to copyrights!!!
Unanticipated hard reality :
From my perspective, I came to realize that the world has changed, people have changed and their minds too, where they are put in definite restricted boundaries in the name of their country
And in that state or a country, everyone is compressed or even influenced to be under one specific religion, race, caste, creed, a community in the name of democracy.
Everyone is bound to live with their crunching responsibilities, feeling it as the prime fate that imposes on us like a core job.
All run to win their lives as a matter of superiority over others instead of living their own unique life which has got a lot of positive mountains and peaks to attain.
The meaning of living up to our dreams has changed as all are pushed to live in a specific standard of living and limit their dreams and passion because of ruthless discrimination even in 2020.
We are always instructed to do things that make the society happy and we are made to sacrifice things and adjust for the sake of their biased commitments…
Even though several pandemics affect us from time to time to teach us that “humanity is the answer for everything”, we refuse to accept it till now, as we all have grown up hearing the exact opposite of the say…
The real last day of this world comes when humanity dies….
We as people in this buzzy populated world have problems in this information era too in several different ways from personal to professional but we have forgotten to relish our memories where we have a bunch of happiness to explore and experience.
We have been taught to point out others for many problems instead of realizing the truth that the solution comes only when we change and show off the outer world.
Hurdles don’t ruin us :
Problems should exist every day as it brings out our real potential and the eternal power to overcome struggles, obstacles, regrets, rejections, sorrows, failures, the entanglement of fear, loss of injustice etc….
I have a bizarre guy to tell you as an example who already gave us a solution to overcome our problems.
Can you guess the guy? Give it a try to think about who it is!
The person who connects us all in our minds when we call him the joker. I don’t even like to call him a comic icon but instead, I do see him from a different angle.
Despite the gray shade character given to him generally, the laugh which he does when many types of issues eat him during his tough situations, made me see him as a person containing intellectually creepy behavior, who can laugh when he is in a crazy tough situation.
It’s OK to laugh at our problems, I think it’s a pretty cool move!
Generally, we consider this behavior as a creepy shit…No one would try to do this out of their shame, except him.
Of course, the character did! I agree but there’s something to learn from the character too.
He would not care about the type of problems he faces but instead, he put a bright smile on his face which I see as an inspiring quality that every one of us should be able to acknowledge and make it practically work.
Another great example is Charlie Chaplin’s character. While remembering Chaplin, his words come to my mind which says “Laughter makes our problems explicitly small”.
He is a great inspiration who laughs out towards life’s game between obstacles and struggles.
There is something or the other to learn from people we see, meet, and witness them in our day to day life…
Just wanted to mention that every issue has a multi-dimensional solution and the problems start to diminish when we start to give a pretty great laugh looking at it instead of making it laugh at you.
This aspect of the idea is somewhere similar to the usage of pressure cookers.
It’s time to flesh out the so-called pressures life imposes on us and we should try to face our life strong enough to stay in peace-mode.
Laugh at your problems until the laughter gets bored of you!!!
Always gather all your worries and problems in your mind and try to give a great laugh seeing it visually so that you come out of such nervous position and all kinds of pressures( the so-called one) to make your mind clear and stable to knock them off completely.
As a result, it helps you to make something productive.
This will help you to ruin your problems and worries.
By doing this, it gives us all, the overall space to think positively and develops the hope of being a better version of ourselves in the future.
“ Laugh as much as possible” “ Happy life”
Thanks for reading this post; Stay safe, stay happy.
With regards, Ashwin.
