Summary

Kira Dawn, known as The Gorgeous Mess, addresses the issue of online bullying, calls out those who engage in passive-aggressive behavior, and expresses gratitude for her supportive friends.

Abstract

In a candid and assertive blog post, Kira Dawn confronts the pervasive issue of online bullying, particularly the subtle form of passive-aggressive avoidance. She challenges her readers to engage with her content genuinely rather than superficially viewing it without reading. Dawn emphasizes the importance of meaningful interactions and the potential impact on someone's well-being, hinting at the possibility of the writer feeling isolated or suicidal. She takes a firm stand against bullying and expresses her intention to continue speaking out. The post is also a celebration of her 39th birthday and a tribute to her friends who have stood by her, highlighting the value of genuine friendships and support in the face of adversity.

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Kira Dawn criticizes those who listen to others' doubts and pretend to understand her message, labeling them as "Candy Land Gallows."
She acknowledges the strength of her friend Melissa R. Mendelson for standing with her and the support of her best friend, Gurpreet Dhariwal.
Dawn expresses frustration with viewers who watch her one-minute poems but do not take the time to read them, suggesting they unfollow her.
She views the avoidance and lack of engagement as a form of bullying and a waste of time for both parties.
Dawn appreciates honest criticism and challenges, citing her friend Tom Byers as an example of someone who constructively debates with her.
She emphasizes that her writing is not about money but about helping others, drawing inspiration from individuals like Chris Hedges and Gurpreet Dhariwal.
Kira Dawn values the unique qualities of her friends, such as Amy Marley's optimism, Lanu Pitan's understanding of gifts, and Sherry McGuinn's forthrightness.
She takes a stand against the culture of avoidance and passive-aggressiveness, urging direct communication and sincerity.
Dawn concludes with a message of love and resilience, stating that she will not be silenced or marginalized, and encourages her readers to take the time to engage with others' work, as it could be life-saving.

Judgment Nevertheless,

Always Will Be Found

I’m going to call you all out. Hiding in the shadows. Candy Land Gallows

The people that listen to somebody else’s doubt

Proclaiming to know what the Mess Is About

Funny just talking about bullies with my new found friend Melissa R. Mendelson who will be the only one strong enough to agree with me. I have another who will stand up for me Gurpreet Dhariwal my bestie.

The Fucking Gorgeous Mess Is Laying It Out Flat (Need My Fendi Glasses For This; Watch This Front Row Slut Show; The One To Speak First Is the Guiltiest Character). The “Leader of the Pack.” Not That They Will Read This. Duh? I know where my Stats sit.

So who is picking on me today? Be honest. Time for some formalities. Today I am 39 and frankly, I don’t have the time. Stop wasting both yours and mine.

I only hope some of my friends will join me in this cause. What’s the point of continuously viewing a 1 minute poem, but not reading it? Really? 1 minute. Just unfollow me. How many times do I have to tell you. 77 views in my stats only 10 reads, Okay?!? Fuck that. Rat ta tat tat.

Own who you are. My oh my, does this seem like I’m being bullied or what? Really I rather have you unfriend me. You think I adore all the shit that you write. My kind heart reads a two-minute poem, 50 claps, I sleep well at night.

Selfie’s of Kira Dawn The Gorgeous Mess

You are my mental mindfuck. If you view a poem that’s a minute long. Don’t be rude. Read it. I guess whoever this group is we are from two different generations. The “It’s All About Me” fiasco is not fashionable anymore. You just turned into a runway whore.

I take it as a compliment actually. The more you avoid me, the more you are threatened by me. This is why I love writing. Take the bullshit out and now we are talking.

This is what I respect. Tell me you hate my poetry. Tell me what you don’t like about me. Pull a Tom Byers who is a good friend of mine and challenges me from time to time. He ignites somewhat of a fury in me which then leads to a great friendship and debate.

I will tell you right now if you are only looking for money, you came to the wrong place, honey. Chris Hedges does this to help other people and herself. Such a selfless woman. Gurpreet Dhariwal loves to lift others up and will tell it like it is. We are The New Bonnie and Clyde of Social Media. Amy Marley will always see the good in you no matter what you say or do. Lanu Pitan she is a light, understands gifts that are given. Pierre Trudel ❤️Louise❤️ has a soul that is so giving I sometimes find it hard to receive. Tom Byers, we invite challenges against each other, we then explain and take it in…discuss without shame. R Tsambounieri Talarantas never has a cruel word to say, a true writer. Charlotte Zobeir Ali where I got nicknamed Kween🌹 she is maturing in her writing at a very impressive speed. O.J. Gillom a friend of mine from the very first day. No judgment, chill, and honest with how he feels. Martine Weber we have become friends recently. I know she respects me publicly. FILZA CHAUDHRY I just joined her new Pub and when I really found out what she is all about it made me feel love. B. A. Cumberlidge. A soul that is honest and true. He won’t judge you. I save the best for last Sherry McGuinn she will kick some ass. Better stop with the sass. I believe all these friends will stick up for me and will follow this cause.

This list goes on and on and on. If I have missed anybody I will meet you on the beautiful path to heaven.

Our Path To Heaven My Friends

I want to finish with this. Always take that extra minute or two it takes to read someone’s poem. For all you know they could be feeling suicidal and alone. So come meet me to my face and tell me your issues. Avoidance is a form of bullying and I’m not going to allow that to happen once again to me. In fact, to be obnoxious I’m taking another selfie. Poor you, so sick of me. Too bad I’m not going anywhere. Better get used to the Mess and No, NOBODY PUTS THE GORGEOUS MESS IN THE CORNER.

Ugh?!? Duh?!? What?!? The Bullies Are Back. At this juncture they are meaninglessness, hiding behind the passive-aggressive avoidances and no name to identify who you are.Writing this just gave me the strength to never fall short. Love you all!

Thank you for reading! God Bless You!

Kira Dawn a.k.a. The Gorgeous Mess

a.k.a Ditto Squared

a.k.a Kween🌹

a.k.a Bonnie & Clyde

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