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y looked broken today.</p><p id="e10c">He kept staring at his cup of coffee.</p><p id="cd2d">We had like 3 seconds of eye contact after meeting for 10 minutes.</p><p id="11bf"><i>“Jay, come on. Stop stirring the cup. It is cracking.”</i></p><p id="551d">He finally looked up.</p><p id="fd5c"><i>“Oh, did I? Apologies. I got distracted.”</i></p><p id="6d59">I dragged his cup away from him. Slightly.</p><p id="df5a">I wanted to speak to him.</p><p id="70f2"><i>“No worries, man. I know something is wrong. What is? Can share? My ears are yours. <b>For free!</b></i></p><p id="0f9f">And finally, he braved a light smile.</p><p id="3d72"><i>“For free? Wow. Knowing you… that must be a huge loss on your P&L!”</i></p><p id="7a86">Jay is finally back.</p><p id="5752"><i>“Precisely. You better talk!”</i></p><p id="9a6a">And talk, he did.</p><h1 id="3f3a">It Started with Financial Economics</h1><p id="4e68"><i>“It was about money.”</i></p><p id="f563">That was his opening statement.</p><p id="e9d1">And then, he followed up very quickly with the second one.</p><p id="8833"><i>“Gosh, I really hate to talk about dollars and cents. I’m so embarrassed of myself.”</i></p><p id="c54b">I assured him that all was fine. We <b>[just</b>] need to get comfortable talking about the dollars and cents.</p><p id="e0a2"><i>“Hey, look, look. <b>[I snapped my fingers at him]</b> Money is a real issue. We cannot avoid it. Learn to get it off your chest. You will overcome this.”</i></p><p id="95df">By now, I got worried.</p><p id="c7c5">Did he gamble away his money? Or did his wife run away with his life savings? I mean, regardless, it sounded serious.</p><p id="4061">I prepared myself for it.</p><p id="6b1e"><i>“My twin sons are attending university next year. And my wife is sick. She needs long-term medical care. I cannot do any of those. I have no money. I am suffering from the inside.”</i></p><p id="f759">He choked a little.</p><p id="1cd4">I went silent.</p><p id="76d8"><i>“The current job I have? I love it. I love everything here. But the salary is not enough for me. I spoke to Jim* and asked him to increase my salary. He declined. He said the budget is tight, and I did not bring business.”</i></p><p id="19d8">Jim = My ex-company CEO</p><p id="8c74">I was shocked. I covered my mouth. I never expected things to come to this stage.</p><p id="f234"><i>“Jim declined? After all these years? Did you try to take on more work to justify a pay bump?”</i></p><p id="8dfe">Jay looked defeated.</p><p id="ea3b"><i>“I did. But Jim said times are bad. The company is in cash-preservation mode. So… I thought about it for very long. I decided to leave.”</i></p><p id="64f2">His eyes got wet.</p><p id="c73c">I choked.</p><p id="1ed9">Slightly.</p><p id="1953">This is how a guy who worked for 26 years got treated. It saddened me.</p><h1 id="56ce">“What’s Next? Why Are You Retiring When You Need the Money?”</h1><p id="a4d3">This is the part where logic fails to follow emotions.</p><p id="6059"><i>“Jay, if you need the money, why are you walking away from it? Earning something today cannot cover all your expenses,

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but it helps, right? No?”</i></p><p id="b828">He got emotional.</p><p id="c415"><i>“I thought I had a bond with the company and vice versa. I never knew it boiled down to money. I guess… I felt betrayed. I want to leave. It’s too tiring. And my wife needs me.”</i></p><p id="c848">As far as I can tell… this is the point of no return.</p><p id="1cc7"><i>“I am just too tired. Maybe… I will do my own thing when my wife is out of the woods. Maybe.”</i></p><p id="95c0">I said nothing.</p><p id="f96b">I wanted Jay to know that he had my full attention.</p><p id="9e5d">In truth, I didn’t know what to say.</p><p id="c8a2">I was caught in the moment.</p><h1 id="360c">The Close</h1><p id="fdd5">Not all retirement stories are happy ones.</p><p id="e8d4">I have seen too many.</p><p id="ffbe">Jay’s story is unique.</p><p id="113a">He does not hate his work. The opposite is true. He loved it. He loved every single minute in the office. But reality drove a wedge between him and his work.</p><ul><li>He needed more money to keep his family going.</li><li>He needed more time with his wife.</li></ul><p id="e694">Jay is tongue-tight when it comes to money and compensation.</p><p id="284e">He never fought for his pay increment and performance bonus for years. And when he had to — He got thrown under the bus.</p><p id="8fc1">He felt betrayed.</p><p id="1dec">I hope this is not happening to you.</p><p id="aff1">Retire with happiness in your heart. Not grudges.</p><p id="52d1">We deserve better.</p><p id="0e5e"><i>Like this story? Hit <a href="https://aldric-chen.medium.com/subscribe"><b>Subscribe</b></a>!</i></p><p id="b69b"><i>Oh, oh, you can buy me <a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/aldricchen">a cup of black</a> too! Thank you!</i></p><div id="4efb" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/i-had-unfettered-access-to-my-vcs-executive-assistant-for-3-days-she-impressed-me-b7d370acf2ec"> <div> <div> <h2>I Had Unfettered Access to My VC’s Executive Assistant for 3 Days — She Impressed Me</h2> <div><h3>In short, she is [really] amazing.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*fpWAOGRUKC3seVXCzWEoYA.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="d2c0" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/i-saw-my-ceos-salary-everybody-s-faces-what-happened-next-is-unbelievable-e10d7d5b83a6"> <div> <div> <h2>I Saw My CEO’s Salary [& Everybody’s Faces] — What Happened Next is Unbelievable.</h2> <div><h3>Transparency leads to open mouths</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*ytoNjO3z9FHYu9GrprDI4g.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Japan Floods 2018: How To Help

#JapanFloods — the worst to hit the country in 3 decades. (Photo Credit: Quartz)

Flooding and landslides have devastated parts of western Japan, resulting in the highest death toll caused by heavy rainfall in over 3 decades.

Current situation (numbers accurate as of 13 July):

Source: JMA
  • 214 fatalities
  • 21 missing
  • 24,150 homes damaged or destroyed
  • 7,085 evacuees across 13 Prefectures
  • Over 2 million people were told to evacuate their homes.

How can you help?

It’s human nature to want to help after seeing people suffer. But sometimes trying to do good can inadvertently do harm — and in emergency situations, good intentions must be accompanied by effective, carefully considered actions. The 2011 tsunami and subsequent disasters such as the 2016 Kumamoto earthquake have taught us a lot about how to respond effectively to disasters in Japan.

So… with that in mind, here’s an outline of things you can do, things to consider, and things to avoid, when trying to help.

1. Don’t Send Stuff (Yet)

  • Search & Rescue is still under way, with life-saving as the top priority. This is not the time to be sending things like blankets, food and water (unless you have identified a very, very specific need with a local person or organisation who can properly deliver, store and manage the supplies responsibly).
  • Many NGOs are on the ground doing needs assessments — in the coming days and weeks, they will likely start calling for certain items, once the situation has stabilized a little more and logistical capacity (e.g. roads) have recovered.

2. Volunteer (when the time is right)

Source: Peace Boat
  • Unless you are a trained and experienced responder, don’t go to affected areas in the first few days. This is not the time to be “self-mobilizing”, for the reasons mentioned above. It is simply too early, and uncoordinated “help” may actually hamper rescue efforts.
  • Many nonprofits, local governments, and social welfare councils (社会福祉協議会 or shakaifukushikyogikai)will likely start calling for volunteers in the coming weeks, once they are ready and able to take in and coordinate volunteers safely.
  • When that time comes, make sure you get Disaster Volunteer insurance from your local government office.
  • Be as self-sufficient as possible (local resources such as accommodation, food, and water must go to survivors first and foremost). Do research into what you should bring — food, water, tent, first aid kit, safety equipment (gloves, helmet, steel-toed shoes, etc.).
  • Check this website which lists the Social Welfare Councils actively seeking disaster relief volunteers across the affected areas (Japanese only).
  • Some nonprofits may start calling for volunteers (e.g. Peace Boat, IDRO Japan, United Earth, & It’s Not Just Mud) so keep an eye out for updates. You can also see the Foreign Volunteers Japan Facebook page for volunteer opportunities in English.

3. Donate

  • Right now, donating money is the easiest and most effective way to support survivors.
  • Personally, and having worked full-time in this industry for several years, I recommend donating directly to smaller organisations on the ground, as opposed to larger organisations or general funds, as they tend to be leaner and have higher operational efficiency (but that’s up to you).

Here are a few English-language options:

  1. NGO Peace Boat Japan-based nonprofit doing relief work domestically and internationally.
  2. Japan Platform: Western Japan Disaster Consortium of NGOs, businesses, and government agencies which disperses funds to member organisations in Japan.
  3. GlobalGiving: Flood & Landslide Relief in Japan Crowdfunding platform which disperses funds to member organisations in Japan.
  4. Japan Israaid Support Program (JISP) Israeli nonprofit based in Japan.
  5. U.S.-Japan Council: Japan Flood Friendship Fund USJC, in collaboration with other organisations, has established the Japan Flood Friendship Fund (JFFF) to aid those affected.
  6. Go Fund Me: West Japan Flood Victims Fundraiser organised by an individual living in Okayama Prefecture.
  7. The Mainichi Mainichi Newspapers is accepting domestic donations in Japanese yen.
  8. Rakuten The e-commerce juggernaut is also collecting donations in English.

Japanese-language donation pages:

Of course, there are also many, many more options for donating if you can read Japanese and have a Japanese bank account/credit card.

This list from JANIC gives a comprehensive outline of some established groups who are accepting donations.

You can also donate via the popular messaging platform LINE, search engine Yahoo, crowdfunding platform Campfire, and even the “hometown tax” system Furusato Choice.

Other Useful Links

1. Google Person Finder for Japan

2. J-ANPI (Searches personal safety info registered in its database or Google Person Finder, by name or phone number)

3. DisasterMessage Board Web 171 by NTT:

4. Japan Meteorological Agency (up-to-date weather info)

5. Getting a Disaster Victim Certificate

6. Legal Information for Foreign Nationals (Multi-lingual)

7. List of websites offering natural disaster info in English

8. Updates in English & Japanese from NGO Peace Boat

9. Typhoon & Rainstorms Safety Guide: Fire & Disaster Management Agency

For more about disasters in Japan, see “Fukushima’s Nuclear Exclusion Zone: 7 Years On” or “Hokkaido Earthquake 2018”. You can also see the Explore Tohoku project which follows my 600km walk along Japan’s tsunami-affected coastline to document the region’s recovery, 6 years on from the 2011 Great East Japan Earthquake.

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