avatarAri Love

Summary

The author advocates for cutting off fake friends and toxic relationships to prioritize self-respect and personal growth.

Abstract

The article titled "It’s Time To Remove Fake Friends & Toxic Relationships" emphasizes the importance of letting go of meaningless friendships and situation-ships to evolve and grow. The author, who identifies as the "Cutoff Queen," shares their personal experience of blocking and deleting people who did not genuinely care about them. The author encourages readers to have the courage to walk away from such relationships and not feel obligated to explain their decision. They also mention that karma will take care of those who have taken advantage of pure hearts, and it is better to be alone than surrounded by people who do not truly know or care about you.

Opinions

  • The author believes that people often surround themselves with individuals who do not genuinely care about them.
  • Letting go of toxic relationships is a crucial step towards personal growth and evolution.
  • One should not feel obligated to explain their decision to walk away from fake friends and energy vampires.
  • Karma will deal with those who have mistreated or taken advantage of others.
  • It is better to be alone than surrounded by people who do not truly know or care about you.
  • The author encourages readers to let go, forgive, and let the Universe handle revenge.
  • There is an energetic shift currently, and karma is being handed out to those who have harmed others.

It’s Time To Remove Fake Friends & Toxic Relationships

It is time to remove, block, and delete fake friends and situation-ships.

Photo by Tim Mossholder on Unsplash

“Some of the most poisonous people come disguised as friends and family.” — Unknown

There are so many of us who surround ourselves with people who don’t give a damn about us. Maybe you are the weekend friend or the friend that always shows up when no one else does. You always come bearing gifts, you’re nice, and people think you’re an easy target.

In the last year, I have become the Cutoff Queen. I wear that title like a badge of honor. Letting go of meaningless friendships (and situation-ships) was one of my best decisions. As soon as I began to respect and put myself first, I immediately began to evolve.

One day, after being disappointed (again) by people who were supposedly my friends, I had enough. Although I am sweet as a cherry pie, I have limits, and those “friends” crossed the line. So, I picked myself up and began to block and delete everyone who wasn’t meant to move forward on my journey. And holy shit, there were a lot of them.

Why am I writing this message? Because I feel many of you are in the same type of relationships. You are surrounded by fake friends and energy vampires. My loves, when is enough going to be enough? When are you going to have the courage to walk away? As someone who has, I can testify that it is much better to be alone than surrounded by 100 people who don’t really know you (or care to know you).

You don’t owe anyone an explanation; let ’em talk. Let ’em cry, whine, and gossip because you walked away. If you are reading this, it is a sign that if you walk away, you will complete a life lesson and end a karmic cycle. I know this because I did. My willingness to put myself first and remove toxic relationships was a difficult lesson, but I passed.

The most disappointing thing is I was also a lesson for them, but they failed. Instead of doing the right thing, they chose to take advantage of a pure heart. And you never ever take advantage of a pure heart. Because if you do, karma will come knocking at your door.

I always tell people to let go (and forgive) and let God. You don’t need to seek revenge because the Universe will handle it for you (and that’s a promise). There is an energetic shift currently, and karma (good and bad) is being handed out. All the people who have harmed, stepped over, and mistreated you are being dealt with. So, pray for them, and allow the Universe to avenge you.

Voice Message

Currently listening to Since U Been Gone by Kelly Clarkson.

© Ari Love, 2023

Relationships
Self Love
Friends
Family
Spirituality
Recommended from ReadMedium