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Summary

The article acknowledges the normality of experiencing emotional ups and downs, emphasizing that it's okay to not always feel okay, and that seeking help during tough times is a natural part of the human experience.

Abstract

The article "It’s Ok to Not be Okey" delves into the inevitability of mood fluctuations, recognizing that everyone encounters days of joy as well as periods of sadness, anger, and lack of motivation. It underscores the importance of accepting these emotional shifts as inherent to being human and not a sign of weakness. The author points out that life's challenges can sometimes lead to stress, self-doubt, and a feeling of being overwhelmed. However, the piece encourages readers to understand that experiencing difficult emotions is part of a larger human narrative, where each person plays a unique role. Drawing on Shakespeare's famous quote, the article likens life to a stage where everyone is an actor with their own script to follow, suggesting that it's normal to feel down, cry, or ask for help, as these are natural responses to the trials one faces. The overarching message is one of reassurance: it's perfectly acceptable to have moments of vulnerability because these moments are not permanent, and everyone's humanity is defined by their ability to feel, not by an unattainable standard of constant positivity.

Opinions

  • It is normal for moods to change, and no one can maintain constant happiness.
  • Experiencing anger, lack of energy, and the desire to isolate or even be someone else are all part of human emotions.
  • Life's challenges and obstacles can lead to stress, worry, and a lack of motivation, which is a common human experience.
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It’s Ok to Not be Okey

We all have good and bad days, No one can stay happy all time, that is not human. Mood changes are inevitable.

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There are some moments in our life; we vend our anger upon our family and friends without any reason, somedays we even don’t have the energy to wake up from bed, do any work, prepare any food, there are some moments which we want to vanish from the earth completely, somedays we don’t want to talk to anybody, somedays we even cried without any reason and we do have a time that we want to become another personality (someone else).

Sometimes an unexpected challenge or an obstacle might block your way, and you find yourself stressing out, worrying, and not knowing what to do. And, some days, you just have nothing, Zero motivation, no energy. All of a sudden, you’re being plagued with self-doubt and annoyed with a lot of hurdles.

When you watch out life from a different angle you feel a little bit strange, we can’t argue with that. But, we can cope up.

Life has its own ups and downs. You can’t feel the sheer euphoria every time, you can’t find joy in everything. There is a time when people are completely down, broke and shattered into pieces, in those times it’s ok to cry, it’s ok to raise a hand for help. Because you’re a human, not a Deity.

When you feel that things aren’t ok, remember that everything in this feeble world is connected and you have a part to play. No-one else can replace your part.

I’m quoting:

“All the world’s a stage and all the men and women are merely players.”

These are the words of William Shakespeare, English poet, playwright, and actor, widely regarded as the greatest writer in the English language and the world’s greatest dramatist. He is often called England’s national poet and the “Bard of Avon”.

It’s crystal clear that everyone is an actor, and has some roles to complete. Meanwhile, they have their own responsibilities and want to encounter many upcoming storms. In the middle of these you may cripple, you may fall, you may cry, you may weep, you may be depressed, you may frustrated, you may be broken but it’s ok, nothing is permanent.

It’s ok to not be okey, Cause you have a beating heart and it’s not metalic.

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