It’s not that I can’t live without you, but with you, it’s better.

Have you ever considered enriching your life with freedom and sharing it with someone else?

Do you want to have a simple love, one that doesn’t require thinking about the outcome and isn’t necessarily aimed at marriage?

Do you want to understand someone? Just want to love someone? And be with that person.

In our lives, we meet so many people that you’ll forget most of them, but there may be that one person who you’ll remember and think of fondly.

Because they make your heart race, make you feel like a worthy opponent, and even in the cold of winter, you feel warmth just by thinking about them, looking at them, tears well up.

After meeting them, you seem to be enveloped by some indescribable emotion.

Question: What does it feel like to meet the right person?

A says: Before meeting her, I had a list of criteria: age, height, education, hobbies, and personality. But after meeting her, all those criteria became irrelevant.

B says: Just having her by my side makes me feel secure, even when we argue, after the argument, I think about how to apologize, not whether we should break up.

C says: All the “can’t” and “impossible” become “can” and “possible” when it’s her. I’m willing.

D says: He’s seen me at my worst, knows my worst temper, heard my saddest cries. But he doesn’t reject, doesn’t give up, doesn’t abandon.

E says: He doesn’t make promises easily, but after careful planning, I can feel myself in his desired future.

Everyone is waiting for someone who makes their heart race, someone who’s right for them. How do you know that person is the right one? Sometimes, a single encounter is enough for two people’s destinies to intersect.

Finding two people whose personalities match or complement each other perfectly is rare. Nobody is perfect; we all have our flaws. But if we’re willing to adjust, trust, understand, and be patient with each other, even when there are occasional differences or disagreements, it’s a precious thing.

Our personalities have both good, sunny sides and many flaws. If you were a plant, meeting someone like the sun, shining on you, allows you to grow in the right direction because you have sunlight. Maybe we’re both imperfect, but meeting each other makes us more perfect.

Meeting someone you like isn’t that hard, but getting along is. Many love stories start with affection and excitement but end with understanding. Why is it that sometimes, knowing someone too well becomes a reason for us to leave them?

The idea of the right person or the suitable person is not definitive. Your values align, or even if your interests and hobbies differ, your personalities complement each other, and you can have many conversations without interfering with each other, leaving space for each other.

In this journey, It’s not that I can’t live without you, but with you, it’s better.

If you haven’t met that person, don’t lose hope; perhaps the time isn’t right yet. Before that, make yourself better, climb to a visible place, and try to make yourself found. Because when they love you, even in the midst of a crowd, they can spot you with ease!

That’s all for today’s sharing, thank you for reading.