It’s Not Easy to Be Me, Gentle

I’m Gentle, and I’m lonely pretty often. No one wants to be with me. If they come on or happen upon me, most men consider themselves gay. I identify as gender neutral, but nonetheless, I’m misconstrued as synonymous with Soft, not that Soft is inherently bad either. (More to come on Soft in “It’s Not Easy to Be Me, Soft.”) Men like to be Hard but not Together, and that makes sense, considering many are avoidant. (More coming on Hard in “It’s Not Easy to Be Me, Hard.”) If they’re ever soft, they’re only soft when unwitnessed and Alone. (Coming Soon: Alone in “It’s Not Easy to Be Me, Alone.”)