It’s My Birthday Today
Here’s how I am celebrating it and why

It’s my birthday today, or at least it is as I write this. The reason I’m penning down these thoughts is simple — I have the luxury of some time today and a few thoughts I’ve been meaning to share.
As a kid, I was always enthusiastic about my birthday and eagerly waited for the day. Many times, I would even go the extra mile to remind everyone that my birthday was just around the corner so they’d remember to wish me. I enjoyed the birthday wishes and loved getting gifts, and the whole celebration meant “I am the center of the world” — delusion is good sometimes!
However, as life happened, I experienced a good share of highs and lows, and much like many other festivities, my birthday began to lose its significance over the years. For a good four to five years, I found myself treating it as just another day in the calendar.
But as the latter half of this year arrived, I promised myself that I would enjoy celebrating not just my birthday but all(most) festivals. So, even when I was alone on Diwali and on my birthday, both days turned out to be super delightful. I decorated my house, dressed up, cut a cake, exchanged wishes with close family and friends over call, indulged in some sweets, lit diyas and candles, and wished myself a happy Diwali and a happy birthday.

But why did this shift in perspective happen? It was a simple thought — if I were to have a daughter someday, I would want her to experience these events with joy rather than dismissing them as mundane. I would want her to celebrate her birthday with the feeling that she is the most special person in the world. I also would wish to pass down a bit of Indian culture during festivals. And create celebratory and happy memories.
On a side note, to ensure my birthday didn’t become a flop show, I strategically avoided people who could spike my stress levels — because who needs that on their special day, right?
So, here’s to me wishing myself a happy birthday! And in this moment of bliss, I encourage you to gift yourself a day of special joy amidst the regular, everyday happiness.
