Is it possible to meet and fall in Love on Facebook?

Summary

The author shares a personal story of finding love through a Facebook friendship that developed into a deep emotional connection, leading to marriage, emphasizing the importance of taking online relationships slowly and building a strong foundation before meeting in person.

Abstract

The narrative begins with the author in a vulnerable state, on the verge of homelessness in Minnesota, when a direct message on Facebook sparked a two-year online friendship with Olivia. Despite initial skepticism about online relationships, they fell in love virtually, learning valuable lessons about patience and authenticity. They emphasize the significance of taking time to genuinely know each other through frequent messaging and phone calls, without the pressure of physical intimacy. The couple's psychic connection grew so strong that they felt instantly comfortable when they finally met in person. They attribute the success of their relationship to the honesty and realness they shared from the start, contrasting their experience with the deceptive nature of typical online dating. Their story concludes with their marriage and a recommendation to approach online relationships with caution and sincerity for a meaningful and lasting connection.

Opinions

Online relationships through social media, unlike dating apps, can lead to genuine and profound connections if approached correctly.
Rushing into physical aspects of a relationship often leads to failure, whereas focusing on emotional and spiritual bonds strengthens the relationship.
Authenticity is crucial; being real with each other from the beginning builds trust and a strong foundation.
The distance in a long-distance relationship can be beneficial as it allows couples to develop a deep emotional connection without the complications of physical proximity.
Taking the time to know each other well before meeting in person can result in an immediate and comfortable connection when that time finally comes.
Traditional online dating platforms are seen as rife with dishonesty, whereas connections formed through social media platforms like Facebook can be more genuine.
The transition from online chats to phone calls is a significant milestone in an online relationship, indicating a growing intimacy and trust.
Patience and slow progress in an online relationship are ultimately rewarding, leading to a strong and resilient partnership.

It is, but do it the right way

I was staying in a basement in Minnesota, I was two days away from being on the streets, but I didn’t know that at the time. I was sitting in front of my laptop on Facebook when I received the DM.

That first DM leads to a two-year online friendship. We fell in love before we met in person. I know that online relationships have a bad reputation. I had done the online dating thing, and it left me cold inside. So I know how it is.

I learned some lessons that will be valuable for anyone considering online dating. Not with a Dating APP, but through Social Media. Take your time, and get to know each other.

Take things slowly, there’s no need to rush

Talk to each other on Facebook Messenger often. Don’t put pressure on each other, or yourselves. It helps if you both are in different States. You can’t jump into bed together too soon, because you’re separated by distance.

Relationships fail because couples put the physical before the emotional and spiritual. Get to know each other well before you commit to a physical relationship.

We were psychically connected

I and Olivia had formed a deep connection before we met in person. The connection was so deep, that when the phone rang, we knew who was on the other line.

We grew connected to the point when we met at the airport for the first time. It was like we had known each other for years. We were instantly comfortable with each other.

Online Dating is full of liars

I know from experience that everyone lies when they are dating online. If you start talking to someone on Facebook, you’re not thinking about being together.

It’s easier to be real, and being real with each other will build a strong bond in a short time. Olivia shared things that we had never told anyone else. We did that before we met in person.

Do it right, take it slowly

If both parties do it right, they will go from online chats to phone calls in a short amount of time. It’s amazing how intimate a phone call can be.

Olivia and I would never have met in real life, but we connected on Facebook. We built a strong relationship, and on September 10, 2017, we got married at our church.

We have been through a lot as a couple. We have got through it because we built a strong relationship, and we started by taking it slow.

Is it possible to meet and fall in Love on Facebook?

It is, but do it the right way

Take things slowly, there’s no need to rush

We were psychically connected

Online Dating is full of liars

Do it right, take it slowly

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