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19">“You are so beautiful” … with several emojis, of course, is one of the most common messages.</p><p id="f164">One man she didn’t know messaged my ex and even offered to buy her clothes. I’m not sure if this tactic is the best one to impress women.</p><p id="2256">Probably it’s more likely to be the fastest way to no longer being respected and maybe even exploited. This behavior is also called simping nowadays. Here is a good definition of the term:</p><blockquote id="963e"><p>It is when a male is overly <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=submissive">submissive</a> to a female and <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=gains">gains</a> nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=ashamed">ashamed</a> when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.</p></blockquote><blockquote id="ea46"><p>Jake: Bro, did you hear what <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=collin">collin</a> said to <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=his%20girl">his girl</a>? Alex: Yeah, he’s such a Simp he’s <a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=embarrassing">embarrassing</a> to be around</p></blockquote><blockquote id="40b4"><p><a href="https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Simp">Source: Urban Dictionary.</a></p></blockquote><h2 id="4b53">The Bold Ones</h2><p id="72fd">On the Internet, everyone has balls. At least, I got this impression from reading her DMs. That’s why it’s happened that men who knew my ex personally and never dared to talk to her in real life were suddenly very communicative on Instagram.</p><p id="8724">Kind of shallow in my opinion. I think a good piece of advice is to only write to others on the internet what you would say to them in person as well.</p><figure id="2494"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:800/0*mxuBiu9bHeUANBxV"><figcaption>Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@simmerdownjpg?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Jackson Simmer</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com?utm_source=medium&utm_medium=referral">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure><h2 id="bc8c">The Stars</h2><p id="eea5">I must admit that the messages of these men made me a little insecure. I’m talking about the ones with the blue checkmarks. I wondered why she would want me if such men were interested in her.</p><p id="d971">Blue checkmarks on Instagram show a verified profile of somewhat famous people. Therefore, these checkmarks are something of a status symbol. Although it wasn’t so many, some successful athletes with blue checkmarks slid into the DMs of my ex as they say.</p><h2 id="649c">The Charming Ones</h2><p id="0ec5">To be honest, I als

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o read some very charming and funny messages that were sent to initiate a conversation. So there are also men who are still behaving decently even on the Internet when looking for women.</p><h1 id="29b1">Summary:</h1><p id="7939">It’s really astonishing how easy it is for some women to get men’s interest on the Internet. From what I have seen, there is an incredible amount of thirsty men on social media. This often shows itself by them messaging girls in an offensive manner or in them simping as they say nowadays.</p><p id="818b">Thanks for reading!</p><p id="b38e"><b>Wait a second.</b> Y<i>ou should get my articles in your inbox. <a href="https://medium.com/subscribe/@whitep"><b>Subscribe here.</b> </a>Maybe you also want to start writing on Medium yourself and make money. I made $2300 in my second month! You only need a membership for$ 5 a month. If you sign up<a href="https://medium.com/@whitep/membership"> <b>with my link</b></a>, you support me with a part of your fee without additional costs.</i></p><p id="fddd">I think you will also like these articles:</p><div id="53f4" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/7-surefire-signs-that-a-woman-likes-you-cf3183f84fb5"> <div> <div> <h2>7 Surefire Signs A Woman Likes You</h2> <div><h3>Watch out for these signals, men!</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*q3Sd95YToWGuC644)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="3baa" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/mindblowing-effects-i-took-creatine-for-30-days-66020bb7dfb8"> <div> <div> <h2>Mindblowing Effects: I took Creatine for 30 Days</h2> <div><h3>It feels like cheating</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*1Zaxtw1rBRSplSZV)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="0f86" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/the-sexiest-female-body-type-and-its-evolutionary-rationale-6d1f58f632fc"> <div> <div> <h2>The Sexiest Female Body Type And Its Evolutionary Rationale</h2> <div><h3>Darwin sends his regards.</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*CIAgT1b_ZagB3NIT)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

Inside The Instagram DMs Of A Hot Girl

It is insane.

Photo by Christopher Campbell on Unsplash

Imagine you had dozens or even hundreds of people available every day of whom you know that they are into you and that they would like to have sex with you.

How would that change your life? Would you exercise your options? Would you become cocky?

The Internet makes that a reality for some people. Especially for young, attractive girls. It’s incredible to see how many likes attractive women get on social media. As a normal-looking man, you would probably have to become an Olympic champion or win a selection to get such numbers of likes.

Here is an example. This picture got a whopping 267 k likes.

Thanks to my ex-girlfriend I got a very interesting insight into the Instagram DMs (direct messages) of an attractive girl. What I saw is hard to describe. It was kind of funny, but also shameful and shocking at the same time.

My ex doesn’t even have that many followers. I think it’s around 3k, but still, she’s being messaged by thirsty men virtually every day.

When we were just getting to know each other and were not really in a relationship yet, she showed me her DMs. After what I had seen there, I had no choice but to ask her to make her profile private once we got together.

The 5 Categories Of Contestants

When I think about it, the men who message women on Instagram can be divided into 5 different categories. This classification has no claim to be complete and should be considered with a little humor.

The Perverts

Some guys really sent unbelievable messages. Their mothers would be proud if they read their messages…

My ex got messages like: “I would like to fuck your brain out”. Comments about her ass or titswere still the most harmless messages in this category. She even got some dick pics. This is not a joke.

A charming conversation starter, isn’t it?

The Simps

The second category bets on being nice rather than anything else. Probably too nice. These men let women know several times how beautiful they are.

“You are so beautiful” … with several emojis, of course, is one of the most common messages.

One man she didn’t know messaged my ex and even offered to buy her clothes. I’m not sure if this tactic is the best one to impress women.

Probably it’s more likely to be the fastest way to no longer being respected and maybe even exploited. This behavior is also called simping nowadays. Here is a good definition of the term:

It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.

Jake: Bro, did you hear what collin said to his girl? Alex: Yeah, he’s such a Simp he’s embarrassing to be around

Source: Urban Dictionary.

The Bold Ones

On the Internet, everyone has balls. At least, I got this impression from reading her DMs. That’s why it’s happened that men who knew my ex personally and never dared to talk to her in real life were suddenly very communicative on Instagram.

Kind of shallow in my opinion. I think a good piece of advice is to only write to others on the internet what you would say to them in person as well.

The Stars

I must admit that the messages of these men made me a little insecure. I’m talking about the ones with the blue checkmarks. I wondered why she would want me if such men were interested in her.

Blue checkmarks on Instagram show a verified profile of somewhat famous people. Therefore, these checkmarks are something of a status symbol. Although it wasn’t so many, some successful athletes with blue checkmarks slid into the DMs of my ex as they say.

The Charming Ones

To be honest, I also read some very charming and funny messages that were sent to initiate a conversation. So there are also men who are still behaving decently even on the Internet when looking for women.

Summary:

It’s really astonishing how easy it is for some women to get men’s interest on the Internet. From what I have seen, there is an incredible amount of thirsty men on social media. This often shows itself by them messaging girls in an offensive manner or in them simping as they say nowadays.

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