avatarTori Hall Sudduth

Summary

The author reflects on the concept of a perfect world, contrasting idyllic fantasies with the genuine contentment found in their current life.

Abstract

In response to a writing challenge prompt, the author envisions a perfect world where they are unemployed yet not lacking in resources, free to lounge in comfort, travel, and engage with friends and cats. The author humorously describes a life in pajamas, without bras, and filled with cat-related social media groups. However, upon deeper reflection, the author concludes that true happiness lies not in these fantasies but in the real, everyday connections with loved ones, including their spouse, children, and friends. The author realizes that they are already living in a form of a perfect world, appreciating each day and the unique aspects of their life that bring them joy.

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  • The author values personal comfort and freedom, imagining a life without the constraints of traditional employment.
  • They place significant importance on self-care practices like showering, hair styling, and wearing makeup, even in a hypothetical ideal world.
  • The author finds great joy and humor in cat-related online communities and memes, indicating a deep affection for cats.
  • Despite the allure of an unencumbered life, the author acknowledges that the people in their life and the small daily experiences are what truly bring them happiness.
  • The author expresses gratitude for their current life circumstances, suggesting that contentment is found in appreciating the present rather than chasing an idealized future.

In Search of a Perfect World

There will be cat groups and lots of them.

Image created by Author via DALL-E.

Welcome to day two of the “Beyond Cupid’s Arrow” challenge! The prompt for February 2nd is from Karen Schwartz: “In a perfect world, I’d be …”

If you’d like to join in, check out the post below:

In a perfect world, I’d be unemployed. Not like broke and starving unemployed, and not exactly retired unemployed — I certainly don’t want to add 14 or so years to my age just so I can sit around reading books and napping. Just staying at home, lazing around in bed, traveling whenever I please, hanging out with my besties level unemployed.

In a perfect world, I’d wear my pajamas all day long. I’d never, and I cannot emphasize this enough, ever wear a bra. All pants would be elastic-waisted, and all tops loose and flowy. I would take a shower each day, and blow out my hair nice and straight. Self-care, people! I’d still put on make-up and paint my nails, which would surely give my jammies a touch of class.

In a perfect world, I’d join dozens (more) cat groups on Facebook. They’d all have names like “The Bappening,” “I’m this Cat’s Lawyer and They’re Innocent,” and “I Want to Apply this Cat Directly to My Face.” I would sit around cackling at the cute memes and donating money to various cat-fostering organizations.

Meme created by Author with photos of her late, great kitty, Blackberry. 💙

In a perfect world, I’d have the time to sit at my desk and ponder such an unencumbered life, yet as I wrote it all out, I’d realize that while all that would be fun, none of it is what makes me truly content. My mind would skim easily from visions of indolent loafing to the things — and people — I genuinely enjoy. The day-to-day bits of life and love that make my world so special.

So in a perfect world, I wouldn’t be taller or thinner or younger, I’d still be me. My husband would be my favorite person, the one I always want to talk to and scheme with, so that’s the same, too. I’d choose to live in my current house and have the same two kids, and I’d be surrounded by the love of a close circle of family and friends. I’d appreciate every single day, exactly as it comes, and I’d be thankful for each new sunrise.

In a perfect world, I’d be blissfully happy exactly where I am. How about that? Looks like I’m already there.

Image by Tori Hall Sudduth via Midjourney

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