Summary

The author describes a meaningful and humorous connection formed during a visit with an incarcerated individual, despite the initial need for caution.

Abstract

The author recounts a visit with someone they had met weeks prior in a prison setting. Initially, the author had to be cautious as they were not yet familiar to the other person. During the hour they spent together, the author focused on asking questions and listening, avoiding humor or jokes. However, the conversation was filled with genuine smiles and laughter, indicating a strong and authentic connection. The author values the sincerity of their interaction and looks forward to future visits, particularly on Boxing Day, which is anticipated to be a lively 'Blasting Visitors' Day.' The author expresses a deep appreciation for their volunteer work, especially when it allows for moments of humor. The piece concludes with a thank you to the readers and a nod to Sahil Patel for sharing a life lesson poem.

Opinions

The author believes that humor must be approached with care in a prison environment, assuming it might not be appreciated or could be misinterpreted.
There is an appreciation for the opportunity to have meaningful conversations without the need to discuss personal matters.
The author values authenticity and genuine connections, emphasizing the positive nature of their interaction.
The author finds great satisfaction in their volunteer work, which is enhanced when they can share laughter with those they visit.
The author is optimistic about future visits, looking forward to deepening the connection established during the holiday season.

CONVERSATION | HOLIDAY SEASON | PRISON

In prison, I can’t be funny

It will not be appreciated, I assume.

Conversations with incarcerated people aren’t always funny. Photo by Eliott Reyna on Unsplash

I had to be careful. They didn’t know me.

Yet.

I was allowed to talk for an hour with someone, I met weeks ago.

Great.

I was happy to see each other again now we had time to talk.

Finally

I asked and listened not talking about my life.

Agreement

I wasn’t making fun or telling jokes but we smiled and laughed

Wonderful

I was careful this time not the next time

Authentic

We are okay in each other's company We both mean well

Genuine

We said goodbye with a cheer I promise I’ll be back

Connection

It will be Boxing Day, next time It will be a Blasting Visitors' Day, next time

Happy

I love my volunteer work Even more when I can be funny

Next time!

We talked, listened, and laughed. We connected well. Photo by Eric Mok on Unsplash

Thank you for your attention. Have a great holiday season with lots of laughter. If you want to buy me a coffee, please, look here

I would like to give a shoutout to Sahil Patel for sharing this life lesson poem:

Embracing Life’s Pace

Poem

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