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nse. Of course, I didn’t expect much, but because it was fun, it caught my attention.</p><p id="849f">The conversation goes, the conversation comes, and we decide to go to a special place. He started with caresses, progressed to slow kisses, and made the atmosphere warmer, but suddenly he started to think he was the toughest man in the world and launched the traditional phrase: “Today is the day I make you cum.”</p><p id="4c63">My God Rafael, you were doing so well and you made a mistake like that. I even got excited thinking that you would really surprise me and do a decent “service”. But in the end, it was all idle talk…</p><p id="b3bf">It’s not like I expected him to be a sex machine who could do everything I wanted. But most of the time I was the one on top and he barely moved, it seemed like I was the one dominating the situation.</p><p id="01d4">But that wasn’t bad, I was still really enjoying the sex, and he was actually doing really well, but after a few minutes he “got there” before me, said he loved everything, turned his back, and went to sleep.</p><p id="0ba7">I was like, “What? Just that? Where is my reward? I also wanted to be able to “get there”. Calm down man, it’s not just having sex with me and going to sleep. I’m not your sex doll.”</p><p id="b64d">I had actually been very angry.</p><p id="5508">Of course, I didn’t say it out loud, just in my thoughts. But I really got really frustrated with it.</p><p id="df62">The next day, when I woke up, he was still there. I felt better, after all, he didn’t leave first thing in the morning and left me there like an object. I was even welcomed with breakfast in bed — Very tasty by the way — And in a way, I was happy about it.</p><p id="287d">He commented that he had loved last night and everything else that had happened during it, then asked me when we could go out again and if I had enjoyed it too.</p><p id="da55">Sincerely? He would have had many more opportunities to go to bed with me again if he hadn’t turned his back and slept right after reaching orgasm on his own.</p><p id="bf08">But since he “let me down”, didn’t do what he promised, and wasn’t man enough to pleasure a girl while prioritizing his own pleasure, I told him: “Maybe one day! I’ll call you anytime. I blocked his number after that. If I could rank among the guys I’ve slept with, he wasn’t the worst, but he’s definitely a 6.</p><p id="c7db">If he, instead of turning his back and going to sleep, had helped me reac

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h orgasm, even with the help of intimate toys, I would have been very satisfied and would have ended the night feeling like I was in Nirvana. If he did that, he would certainly be one of the best guys I’ve ever slept with.</p><p id="fa12">There are many “Rafaels” like this on Tinder or elsewhere. We should be prepared for this when we go out on a date. But guys — You also need to see women’s point of view — It’s not just receiving pleasure, it’s also knowing how to give it.</p><p id="f341">Thank you for reading this far. I hope to see you next time!</p><h2 id="6812">I also recommend</h2><div id="1665" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/i-fulfilled-my-partners-most-desired-fantasy-b95fbfd89a55"> <div> <div> <h2>I Fulfilled My Partner’s Most Desired Fantasy</h2> <div><h3>And his reaction was amazing</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*uh6zC2iBBItd-m3c)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="ee46" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/if-your-partner-makes-this-mistake-in-bed-you-can-treat-it-75371977670c"> <div> <div> <h2>If Your Partner Makes This Mistake in Bed, You Can Treat It</h2> <div><h3>The perfect solution to extend your man’s lifespan</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/0*2Oyvec1u5vfvbnAf)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div><div id="40ec" class="link-block"> <a href="https://readmedium.com/do-you-have-any-fetishes-then-you-need-to-read-this-eadd05fabc49"> <div> <div> <h2>Do You Have Any Fetishes? Then You Need to Read This</h2> <div><h3>I tested four sexual fetishes that are skin-chilling</h3></div> <div><p>medium.com</p></div> </div> <div> <div style="background-image: url(https://miro.readmedium.com/v2/resize:fit:320/1*BdKV2LVCS46wlRgXxcyV7A.jpeg)"></div> </div> </div> </a> </div></article></body>

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“I’ll Make You Cum Quickly,” He Said

Not this time darling

Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash

The worst thing that can happen to you is going out with a random guy you found on Tinder and when it’s time to “act” you discover that he’s less than he said he was.

Yes, that happened to me. I had the worst Tinder date and in the end, I was still dissatisfied with “badly finished” sex.

What do you mean Alexandra? Why was it so bad?

Calm calm. It’s not that he was bad in bed or had a small pal (by the way, size doesn’t matter). He did a good job, he knew where to put his tongue when he needed it — But he faltered at one single point that made the sex end badly: he didn’t perform splendidly during penetration and after cumming he just lay down on his side, and went to sleep.

How are my feelings like this? I also wanted to have more fun!

I will explain this story clearly, so pay attention to the following scenes and enjoy with me.

Well, where should I start? Oh, I know!

A few months ago I got lost at work and when I realized I was already swamped with work and without a decent social life. It was 5 weeks of coming home late at night, working overtime, eating junk food so I didn’t have to cook something to eat, and not having sex. In other words, 5 weeks without living life.

When this nightmare ended I was clearly tired and needed to do “something” to bring my soul back to my body. That’s when I said to myself, “I think I’m going to download Tinder and have some fun chatting with someone cool.”

That’s what I did. The intention was not to find casual sex, but rather someone cool to talk to and relieve me of boredom. I made some matches, talked to some fun guys, laughed a lot, and finally someone managed to get me out of the house to go out — I’ll call him “Rafael”

Rafael managed to convince me that having a meeting with him would be like seeing the 8 wonders of the world in person. I fell for your nonsense. Of course, I didn’t expect much, but because it was fun, it caught my attention.

The conversation goes, the conversation comes, and we decide to go to a special place. He started with caresses, progressed to slow kisses, and made the atmosphere warmer, but suddenly he started to think he was the toughest man in the world and launched the traditional phrase: “Today is the day I make you cum.”

My God Rafael, you were doing so well and you made a mistake like that. I even got excited thinking that you would really surprise me and do a decent “service”. But in the end, it was all idle talk…

It’s not like I expected him to be a sex machine who could do everything I wanted. But most of the time I was the one on top and he barely moved, it seemed like I was the one dominating the situation.

But that wasn’t bad, I was still really enjoying the sex, and he was actually doing really well, but after a few minutes he “got there” before me, said he loved everything, turned his back, and went to sleep.

I was like, “What? Just that? Where is my reward? I also wanted to be able to “get there”. Calm down man, it’s not just having sex with me and going to sleep. I’m not your sex doll.”

I had actually been very angry.

Of course, I didn’t say it out loud, just in my thoughts. But I really got really frustrated with it.

The next day, when I woke up, he was still there. I felt better, after all, he didn’t leave first thing in the morning and left me there like an object. I was even welcomed with breakfast in bed — Very tasty by the way — And in a way, I was happy about it.

He commented that he had loved last night and everything else that had happened during it, then asked me when we could go out again and if I had enjoyed it too.

Sincerely? He would have had many more opportunities to go to bed with me again if he hadn’t turned his back and slept right after reaching orgasm on his own.

But since he “let me down”, didn’t do what he promised, and wasn’t man enough to pleasure a girl while prioritizing his own pleasure, I told him: “Maybe one day! I’ll call you anytime. I blocked his number after that. If I could rank among the guys I’ve slept with, he wasn’t the worst, but he’s definitely a 6.

If he, instead of turning his back and going to sleep, had helped me reach orgasm, even with the help of intimate toys, I would have been very satisfied and would have ended the night feeling like I was in Nirvana. If he did that, he would certainly be one of the best guys I’ve ever slept with.

There are many “Rafaels” like this on Tinder or elsewhere. We should be prepared for this when we go out on a date. But guys — You also need to see women’s point of view — It’s not just receiving pleasure, it’s also knowing how to give it.

Thank you for reading this far. I hope to see you next time!

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