If You Want To Impregnate Her, You Must Pay Up
A woman is being called a gold-digger for having some requirements.
A very stunning London influencer who plans on never having children says that if she were to have a child, the guy must pay 250,000 in British pounds, give her a “push” present, and pay for a mommy makeover after ruining her body through pregnancy. A lot of men are upset with her and I am confused as to why they are.
First of all, the woman was only responding to a question presented on Tik Tok by another woman. However, it was her response that ruffled some male feathers.
Other women said similar things mentioning “baby moon”(similar to a honey moon before giving their body over to pregnancy), having cooks, and maids, etc.
When you look at this influencer, you kind of see why she doesn’t want to have a child. She earns great money obviously, keeps her body in excellent shape, and is enjoying her best life. If a man wishes to have a family with her, she wants to make sure that he will add to the happiness and not take away from it.
Some responders have a “no cheating clause” in these pre-preggers rules too, because as some women have said, “There ain’t no way I am ruining my body, my life, and then he slinks off to be with someone else. Nope. He will pay.”
Before getting into what the men had to say, let’s first understand why are there all these pregnancy requirements?
Why can’t these women be like the ones of yesteryear, right? Just get a man, marry him, and have his children and go with wherever the flow takes them?
I have a theory.
It is clear as day though.
Recently, I published an article about how Korean women are saying no to men entirely due to the mistreatment and outright disrespect they are enduring.
They are even tired of having to bring beauty to the table — wearing makeup and high heels, etc to please a man. They’ve even listened to their mothers’ and grandmothers’ horrible marital stories, and plenty have seen what their mothers had to go through with a man who just won’t love them.
It appears women all over are not trying to be like the women of yesterday. The women of yesterday put up with abuse, cheating, and many of them suffered chronic illnesses or even reached an early grave.
Today’s women are saying, “You know what? I love myself, I love my body, and I actually have a pretty peaceful life. What will I benefit from having a family that can compare?”
As you can see from the screenshot, only one person realized that it is her body and her choice.
Other commenters mentioned how she would look in ten years, what her mother was given before birthing her, and other rude remarks.
As I’ve already stated, the women are not making these statements out of the wild blue air. They’ve probably seen what their mothers and mother’s mother had to go through and want no part of it. Do materialistic, gold digging demonic women exist? Sure they do!
However, a woman’s response high divorce rate and infidelity by making sure she is secure, is actually the smartest idea. Besides, these women are not upset about men saying they will never “marry women like that nor impregnate them” because these women made it clear they aren’t interested anyway!
In summation, I don’t know how much it truly costs to have a baby if we’re talking money. I’m going to assume it costs a huge bundle, because that is 18+ years of care for a human being, and that is not meant to be done alone. An even higher cost is what women’s bodies go through during and after pregnancy.
Some women will need postpartum counseling and that will not be cheap, some women’s blood even changes — for example, Halle Berry got Gestational Diabetes from pregnancy. A woman’s bones, flesh, and mentality literally morphs when she gives life.
If certain men can’t understand why these women are now giving requirements, then they may not have been paying attention. Personally, I wouldn’t mind having a child with my husband, and I do not have a laundry list of requirements, but that is because I believe I chose well.
Thank you for reading!