If You Spot These Signs, She Has Been Dickmatized and Can’t Help It

Dick shaming can actually be a turn on. Is her love language cockology?

Yes, I know how that sounds. I’d be horny too if my guy’s only love language was Cuntology.

A lot of men freak out about their cock size, and I get it. We, women obsess over that bad boy. We like them thick and we like them long. But in general, we don’t care about the size if it gets the job done.

Justice was unfortunate to be on the smaller side. He’s about 4 inches and a bit thick when his fully erected. The first time he had sex, his girlfriend dick-shamed him.

Prior to the date, he assumed he was well endowed below. So the girl, who was more experienced than he was, had high expectations. Only to be surprised when he pulled down his pants, and the tiny boy popped out in the open.

“What the hell?” She said.

Mortified by what she saw, she walked out on him and they never spoke again after that day.

He ghosted her. Blocked her on Facebook and on Tinder, where they met. But the girl felt humiliated by his reaction. She went on Facebook and made dissing posts about his dick and tagged their schoolmates.

Justice was ashamed to go to school because of the mockery. He took some time away from school until the whole saga died down.

However, as Justice experienced more and more of this shame. But something happened.

He became turned on by them. Whenever his girlfriend urged him to push deeper, knowing well he couldn’t, he would get intensely aroused and explode in that minute.

As time went on, Justice started losing interest in physical dating. He had better chances at sex through phone calls than in person and would ejaculate during phone sex. He got addicted to watching SPH (small penis humiliation) porn and would jerk off while watching the videos.

When he met his wife, she was a virgin. She had no experience in sex nor seen a penis before. Since Justice was her first, she didn’t know he was in the smaller category. She enjoyed sex with him and despite his small cock, he knew how to get her to orgasm.

About a year into their marriage, Justice felt guilty that his wife wasn’t enjoying sex as much as she should. He talked to her about hotwifing and said he wouldn’t mind opening their marriage so she could have more sexual experience with other men.

They set up an account on Kik and Reddit and started chatting with men interested in swings. They met a couple of potentials and set up dates with them.

During their first date with a bull, Justice realized he was into cuckolding as well. He would record the scenes of his wife having sex with other men. Sometimes he would participate by sucking the bull’s cock. But he was never f*cked by the men.

After a couple of successful swings, their sex life changed forever. Justice said his wife became obsessed with sex. They went from having sex three or four times a week to five times a day.

Every time she was near him, her hands were either in his pants or she was slapping his ass. She wanted sex everywhere — in the kitchen, bathroom, and even when they were outside. She just couldn’t get enough and with the dick shaming that goes along with the sex, Justice became more intuned with his dick size.

Although they continued swinging once a month, for the rest of the weeks their sex was exciting. His wife got used to shaming his size for the fun of it and was happy telling him how small he was. How he wasn’t man enough to satisfy her.

However, the humiliation aroused Justice even more. And when the spark was dying in the bedroom, they would re-watch the sex videos and revive the excitement.

How to tell if her dick obsession is why she loves sex with you

Good sex is about knowing where to touch what during the right time. But great sex requires presence, connection, and understanding specifically what your partner wants and likes.

When it comes to female orgasms, the chemical reaction is more emotional than physical. There’s no one-size-fits-all approach to female sexual satisfaction, just as there’s no one-size-fits-all penis.

Some women have the most intense orgasms from fantasy, others get off on risk or danger (i.e BDSM sex), and some can only climax when they feel safe.

However, if you want to know if her obsession with your cock gets her off more than her love for you, here are four signs to look out for.

She doesn’t go a day without sending you erotic photos

I’m one of those women who go for what they want, in the bedroom and off the bedroom. And if you are pretty, in good shape and perfectly endowed for my mouth and cunt, you are in for a ride.

One time I dated this dude who got heads turning whenever we went shopping at the mall. But he was shy. Didn’t like it whenever I complimented his meat.

So I decided he would be the one coming to me for sex, even begging me if he must. I noticed he was more expressive over text before we met in person. He told me he likes chats because it allows him space to speak openly if he is not seeing the person’s facial expressions.

I took advantage of his honesty and would feed his eyes with erotic texts and semi-nude images of me without my face in them. He loved it. He said throughout the day all he would think of was what he would to me when he got home. And boy, that guy never disappoints. Sex with him still remains my best ever.

She stays with you for the sex

I have met a lot of shitty men in life, but this dude who gave me the best orgies of a lifetime remains by far the shittest. He had a wired habit of poking his nose which irritated me like crazy. And liked biting his fingernails like a toddler.

As if that wasn’t enough for me to exist the sexbuster, on top of that, he had no table manners. He talks very fast and would talk with food in his mouth. He would spit out drops of food while he’s chewing.

I tried to correct him on his bad habits but he would shun me and say I was being controlling. I decided to mind my business and stopped eating with him at the same table.

However, my estrogens were on-switch. I was constantly horny whether he was around me or not. Just thinking about his cock would send electricity all over my body. I wanted sex all the time. He liked it in the first two weeks we started dating. Then he started feeling objectified, thinking I was with him just for the sex.

Truth is, he was right. The guy had everything I wanted physically in a boo, but that was all he had going for him. So I stayed — enjoyed as much pleasure as I could before moving on.

She dresses provocatively

Dressing provocatively is nothing new to women. At least, we have a reason for doing so when we leave the house. But when we are indoors, we like to be comfortable in shorts or pjs.

However, if your girlfriend wears more of miniskirts, see-through clothes or bikini pants every single day, she’s definitely up to something.

I remember those days when I wanted guys to notice me. I would objectify myself to get their attention. And when I dated my cockicious boyfriend, my dressing style was different. I would walk around the house naked or in singlets with nothing underneath. This way I could easily spring up on him for a quickie.

I have heard some women say they make holes in their pants and shorts for easy access when they are horny. The idea is to make him lose control so you won’t be the one begging him for sex.

You see, it’s not every day you meet a guy with cocks that drive you nuts. So in those rare times, we make the most of what we have.

She worships your cock

Tell her you won’t talk to her until she washes your car and changes the oil, trust she will do that and more. Anything for a taste of your meat, she will do it.

Not having her touch your cock is like a death sentence. Cock worshipers are the most loyal and humbling partners you can ever have. As much as I hated lazy men, I was loyal and submissive to my cockicious boyfriend.

Now that I think about those times, I see that I was a loser. Following him around like flies, getting jealous when women ogled at him. I wouldn’t sleep unless his dick was inside me or I was holding it. As if it was going to magically disappear if I didn’t secure it.

If I had stayed with him much longer, I probably would have become a sex addict. Some things are just not healthy no matter how pleasant they are.

Men love when women confessed their lust and fantasies about their dick. But women would rather leave their thoughts to themselves because they will be humiliated for speaking out.

So if you are wondering if your woman is satisfied with your cock size or not, I hope you got your answer from reading this post. If she’s being dickmatized, her body language will tell you.

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