If You Don’t Know It’s Not Hush Hush Anymore

All Fathers, Brothers, Husbands, and Lovely Ladies

To all the loving and caring sons! To husbands, brothers, and fathers! To all the beautiful, mighty girls and ladies!

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I’m about to go on leave A day or two every month Which I won After winning a big battle 🤍 To make everyone understand That I need it, at least now in my 40s! 🤍 I’ve won many battles Me alone, none along But this one I’m working on Very close to the endpoint 🤍 The mood swings and irritations The unexplained depression That comes and goes With life struggles and hormonal changes 🤍 But I’m close and very sure I’ll put you down with my knees over 🤍 It’s only the racing thoughts That come along The thought clarity That I’m working on 🤍 But poor little girls And young women Out there in the struggle Not knowing to cope with it 🤍 It’s the worst times when Most quarrels spark on and divorce act on 🤍 All single mothers and fathers All divorcees and lost lovers Can you rewind a bit back longer And recollect and remember 🤍 Isn’t that villain the menstruation So can you beware of this monster That would turn you into a gangster So kill it when its a youngster 🤍 With yoga or meditation Whatever can make you a finester 🤍 Open up to your family and spouse Before everyone around turns so gross Work on your inner self Work it out and get together 🤍 Mark the date on your calendar To get the reminder and be prepared Have your family be informed To avoid being provoked 🕊️🤍🕊️

Today is my “Free Day.” I utilized every second I was awake and alert to enjoy my new hobby of reading and commenting and learning on Medium. And, I think every woman deserves to earn this “Free Day,” not only from office work but also at home from her regular duties that she does with lots of love and care. Not only physical relief but it’s also mental relief that she needs.

If you can’t care for her At least take care of yourself And leave her alone She very well knows To care for herself

Have you gotten into her head around those days? Even the loveliest quiet ladies can be easily provoked to make the loudest noise. If you do a little trolling you would probably find this to be the demon of all divorces.

It definitely would have been for me. But, after a 20-year-long struggle, I was able to finally get my mind under control even during those difficult times. Thankfully, I held on to our relationship so tight, so strong, so many times, reaching the edge of separation and stepping back and today, our son doesn’t have to struggle and we still have a wonderful life to live together.

When I rewind and look back, all those quarrels were during those periods of my pre-menstrual mood swings, depression, and irritability and my post-traumatic migraines (a bike accident in which I hit my head and face to the ground) along with work stress (working in night shift and sleepless days) which I fought with for more than 15 years. I’m by nature a very calm person who avoids arguments and run away and hides but had to cry out loud when the house was on fire.

It’s the tiny little spark that burns down the whole building!

So don’t let it spark!

Speak up and let go, maybe we can also get a little low; it’s okay to lose a little ego for a beautiful relationship, a beautiful family, and a beautiful life!

If nothing works Heads up, raise your shoulders Stay strong and stubborn, but calm Shut your ears and mouth Find the key to opening your mind Work on yourself, not others

Maybe things will change! Have a beautiful life!

Now that my husband understands and supports me, sometimes even does some cooking, I’m grateful for that! My son also understands that I’m taking rest and feeds me dark chocolate to stabilize my mood, but only that he doesn’t understand he can’t jump on me and pours out too much love and hugs!🤗

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