Sexuality | Lingerie | My Sex Life
I Used Naked Pictures of Me To Survey Men. Red or black lingerie? Nude or wearing lingerie? One piece or 2 pieces?
Do men prefer a woman wearing lingerie or being naked? Do men prefer red or black lingerie? Do men prefer a one-piece or 2-piece lingerie? [My Sex Life Diary]

I write erotica novels & short stories. I also publish sex confessions as a spermivore, spermaholic, and teen slut. Yes, teen slut! And I’m proud of it! Sex is good. And girls who love sex shouldn’t have to hide and pretend to be “pure.” Sex is pure! And naked skin is natural.
The stars were aligned for something special this Sunday morning! I couldn’t enjoy the ocean today. Rough sea! And I didn’t feel like writing when I got up, although I thought about it.
So, I went to the Aventura Mall, not knowing exactly why. I did “people watching” and ended up in front of a lingerie store, where I almost immediately noticed a middle-aged man sitting on a bench in front of the store. I sat next to him and put a hand on his lap.
“Waiting for your wife?” I asked him.
He jumped as if I had just woken him up, then he stared at me. I asked him again, pointing at the lingerie store. He smiled and said he had just picked this bench randomly. His wife was somewhere else in the shopping center.
I told him my new boyfriend was about his age (yes, a lie!), and I was wondering if he could come with me into the lingerie store to help me pick what my man would most likely enjoy me wearing. At first, it was as if I had asked him to jump off a bridge! But eventually, he followed me in.
I browsed around. And every once in a while, I grabbed his hand to move to a new area. I asked him a lot of questions about many pieces of lingerie. Is this one too transparent? Is this black one better than the red one? Every time I asked a question, he was uncomfortable. It was entertaining to see!
Then I asked him whether he would like me to wear a pushup bra if he were my boyfriend, even though my tits are naturally firm. We were alone in a corner of the store. I lifted my tank top and exposed my boobs to him.
“Do I need a pushup bra?”
I thought he was about to have a heart attack! He told me I didn’t need one.
I wanted to push this fun I have with exhibiting my naked body to unsuspecting men and, for a second, I was ready to ask him to come to the changing room to help me select lingerie I should buy, but then remembered that they don’t let us try lingerie naked. And that is when another fun idea came to mind!
I bought four pieces of lingerie, then thanked my male helper and went home.
I took 5 selfies:
- Wearing a one-piece black lingerie
- Wearing a one-piece red lingerie
- Wearing a two-piece black lingerie
- Wearing a two-piece red lingerie
- And… One nude selfie!
I drove back to Aventura Mall. I’m only a few minutes away, on A1A. And that’s when the fun started!
I targeted men sitting on benches around the Mall. I told them I was doing a study for a school project (yes, another lie) and would appreciate it if they could tell me which picture they preferred. Most men accepted right away. Those who hesitated usually accepted after I put my hand on their lap and showed them my puppy eyes! Men would do anything for a young woman smiling at them, and I’m enjoying taking advantage of it while I can!
I started by showing them the pictures of me wearing a one-piece and two-piece lingerie in black. Then, depending on their preference, I would ask them to choose between black and red lingerie. At that point, I would make sure they know it was me in the pictures if they hadn’t asked yet. Some of these pictures showed my tits and pussy. It was fun!
Finally, I asked them to choose between that picture of me in the lingerie they said they preferred and a picture of me in the nude, head to toe. It was so funny! Typically, they would either stare at the nude picture of me or alternate between glancing at me and looking at the pic.
“Yes, I’m a real blonde!” I always said.
I wish we were on candid camera or something! Their expression was always priceless. I wish I could re-look at them again.
At one point, a security guard came to talk with me, wondering why I was tackling people in the mall. After I explained to him what I was doing, he volunteered to answer my survey, and that was the end of my reprimand!
I’m back at the condo. The sea is still rough, and it’s on the cold side of things for South Florida.
I compiled the results from the men who answered my informal survey about lingerie, and here’s the verdict.

These men preferred the selfie in which I was wearing two pieces instead of one-piece lingerie. Maybe they like my belly button? I don’t know!

I thought men liked red lingerie, so that was a surprise to me, but I love this verdict because I also prefer black over red!

I don’t know about that one! It’s flattering, of course! But my experience tells me that men prefer me to wear lingerie. They like to unwrap me. I always thought it was part of the beastly ritual of “taking me.”
It is possible that the men I surveyed were influenced by the fact I was standing next to them. Perhaps they thought they were complimenting me by voting for my nude selfie. I don’t know!
The stats of this non-scientific survey don’t matter, anyway! It was a way for me to do exhibitionism through selfies on my iPhone. It was thrilling!
The idea came to me partly because a fan on Patreon asked for nude pictures of me, which I didn’t provide. I don’t want nude pictures of me floating around anywhere. I eventually showed them my pussy and tits before removing the pussy picture. However, showing a nude pic of me on my iPhone to a man standing next to me… That was a great idea! I wasn’t losing control of the pic.
There are so many places where I cannot strip naked. I mean… I could, but doing jail time is not part of my ambitions! However, I can show pictures anywhere!
I’m on to something here!
Thanks so much for supporting me as a writer and for your interest in my sex life. I often think of you when other men and women are using me. You are my motivation to try new things and push my limits!
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