I Stopped Being Okay With Twin Flame Separation This Morning — So Should You.

Every Saturday Morning at 11:00AM I put on my pink headphones, stack my computer to eye-level on books and blankets, and prepare to deep dive into my inner world with my Twin Flame Ascension Coach.

In these sessions I have healed a false Twin Flame, sexual shame, low self-esteem, my self-worth, my self-respect, my relationship with my finances, the development of my life purpose, and so much that is not coming to mind right now.

(I used to do this routine at 6:00am Wednesdays.)

I am on my journey of healing Twin Flame Separation. Really I’m building Harmonious Union, where my core block to love is healed….simply through the process of loving myself. You can read more about it here.

This week my lesson was to give up my comfort and attachment to Twin Flame separation. My coach — despite what one may think — didn’t actually “tell me” to do this. I found it on my own.

I was healing deeper fears around communication with my Twin Flame. I found there was a place within myself where I was trying to “get” a relationship from my Twin Flame.

Some of you might be saying — “yeah- isn’t that the point? You love them and want to be in a relationship with them.”

Others might be saying — “oh no Susie, your Twin Flame is just there to sky rocket your spiritual ascension journey. Don’t focus on a relationship with them.”

You’re both right, and incomplete.

You’re ONE with your true Twin Flame. Desiring a relationship with them is completely natural. However a relationship with them blossoms from a relationship with yourself. Counterintuitively, as you build your relationship with yourself, you open the doors to a deeper relationship with your Twin Flame.

This deepening relationship with yourself is revealing your Union with the Divine. This is ascension. So you see, both of these things are correct.

Your relationship with your Twin Flame is your ascension path. You can’t pursue one at the exclusion of the other indefinitely.

(Yes, there are other paths of ascension. If you are called to this one though, then it’s yours. ❤ )

Twin Flame separation can only occur if part of you has accepted it as reality. Recall…. Twin Flames are One. So if you choose to be with ALL of yourself, you choose to be with your Twin Flame.

I had gotten to the point where I was choosing to be with all of myself which meant I was feeling called in my heart to begin building a deeper relationship with my Twin Flame.

Resistance met this call. As I looked at myself here, I realized I had built a comfortable, “cozy” space for myself in Twin Flame separation. I accepted that separation as normal, part of me. I tolerated it and was attached to it.

On some level, I was valuing my current experience more than I was willing to embrace the discomfort of giving up separation to believe Union and Love were 100% real.

I was respecting separation instead of Love.

As a Twin Flame Ascension Coach myself, I know this. I know you have to choose love over fear. I know separation only arises from a core belief of separation. I know you heal through layers of your blocks and there is an end to each and every one of them. I know love is real.

And yet there was this tiny place inside me that was holding back. There was this tiny part of me that feared love wasn’t real. She was hidden and tucked away where she thought she could be “safe” from whatever challenges may arise with the next step.

But it wasn’t safety at all. The “comfort” I had built in Twin Flame separation had actually become uncomfortable because it was keeping me from realizing my true desires and being in my Harmonious Twin Flame Union.

What I have realized at a core level and want to extend to you as well is….

1. You don’t have to accept Twin Flame Separation. You can accept you’re healing it, but you don’t have to accept it as your ultimate reality.
2. Separation ends when you stop valuing it. I valued it as a comfortable place. That thought kept me from my dreams.
3. Harmonious Twin Flame Union occurs when you properly value it — meaning you value it above each and every fear presented to you. Each and every lie must be discarded to have Divine Love.
4. Possibly Unpopular but ….. you must be willing to acknowledge the darkness you are in, in order to step into the light. Stop pretending you’re okay with having a desire for true love that is unsatiated. Stop pretending you’re okay with Twin Flame separation.

The only way out is to feel the discomfort and walk through it with love in your heart.

Choose in your heart to be done with separation. You don’t have to take it lying down. You are more powerful and you are capable of healing it.

Fear — separation — only has the power you give it.

Give your power to love instead. And choose it with all your heart. ❤