I Matter, I Am A Big Deal To Myself
Hence, I Always Look Out For Me (Emotionally, Spiritually, Physically, Financially, and All Else). Prompted by: how to reclaim emotional intimacy
Contemporary survival does require us to reassess how important we are to ourselves. Yet, very few of us are accustomed to loving ourselves thoughtfully, intentionally, and unapologetically.
This reality is unfortunate because self-love stimulates self-care, and both qualities can help us build our world. Can you imagine what kind of compromise you will fall into whenever you can’t be immersed in solitude?
As a way to return to self-love, self-examination can be started. Simply ask, when was the last time you took a luxurious bath in a clean and tidy environment? After all, “Cleanliness is closer to Godliness.”
Next, you’re clothing! Honestly speaking, do you feel comfortable and well presented in the items you wear? I mean, you are an adult and hopefully are free to assemble your gear. Hence, while at this freedom: add some zest, some sexiness, and flex here and there. If there is a certainty, tomorrow is not guaranteed, so look your best while here.
We may migrate to the food choices we make, how we serve and enjoy them, and where we choose to make these cultural choices. In short, love yourself to maintain a clean space, cook food, and create meals previously served in a five-star hotel pre-Covid restrictions. Correspondingly, with your liquids, don’t lower the bar too much, nope.
How do you discuss your business internally? Please be kind to yourself. In my experience, no one deserves more love, respect, patience, understanding, forgiveness, encouragement any support from me more than myself. In closure, I am so grateful that I can hug myself to encourage myself, reward my choices, and send myself to sleep if needed. Honestly, I use this ability a lot.
May we kindly love, do self-love, and all things will fall into their rightful place after rediscovering who we are and what a big deal we each are to ourselves.
Take Loving Care Of Yourself






