Essay

I Do This When I Want to “Make Love”

Take this tip and don’t go a day without playing with your partner

There are days when I don’t want to play with my partner, but somehow he manages to convince me that this is the best time to enjoy an adventurous night together — Do you want to find out how he manages to convince me so well? So let me tell you this secret.

You know when you’re having a bad day and you don’t want to see anything or anyone? Well, this happens a lot with us women, especially when we get close to our monthly periods — And as incredible as it sounds, even when I turn into a jaguar, my partner manages to encourage me to “play” between four walls.

I asked him a few questions about how he managed to convince me so well, and he decided he was going to reveal his secret to help other guys get their girls even on the worst of days. So what exactly does he do to get to “have” me all night to himself?

According to him, the main point of your strategy should be knowing exactly the day your woman is not cool. For example, we’ve been together for over two years, and in that time he’s already learned a lot about me — so he knows the days I’m mad and the days I’m calm. It’s like there’s an aura around me that makes you sense danger and chaos, lol.

With that in mind, he starts preparing the territory first thing in the morning. He brings me coffee in bed, buys me chocolates, compliments me, gives me massages, and agrees with everything I say (even if I’m wrong). In short: the first step he takes is pleasing me.

I confess that after he told me about it I got a little irritated and left him without love for three days lol.

But these are just the initial steps before the bigger plan. According to him, this first step is necessary to make me more malleable, that is, more open to trying new things later on.

The second stage starts in the afternoon. He told me that the sexy dance videos he shows me are one of the triggers that open up space for late-night play — It’s like this is a pre-warm-up for what’s to come.

Now I know why whenever I’m really mad he shows me some funny videos with a higher sensuality tone. In fact, I can’t deny that it makes me more motivated to play lol.

The third step, according to him, is the moment of truth. He prepares everything during the day and expects the payoff at the end of the night — a 100% calculated plan that has worked for me for a long time (will it still work for me even though I know the whole truth?)

But continuing to the point, the night is the final moment of his strategy. According to my boyfriend, this is the moment when he makes the final move and gets me all to himself — He starts by putting on a “love” music playlist that makes the whole mood warm, after which he changes the ambient light to something darker, for example: red. As this is a sensual nature color, we only use this one, but you can try others.

He also likes to start games off lightly without being too intrusive. When he starts noticing that I’m more open to “playing,” he goes further and further — And so it goes on until he finally has me completely.

In other words, it’s a process that lasts all day and in the end, manages to get me even on the worst days. It really is a formidable strategy that might not work for me anymore now that I know about it lol.

Final Thoughts

This is a good technique for you to try with your woman, but if I were to give a recommendation, it would be: don’t just spoil your woman when you’re looking for fun, pet her even on normal days — This will definitely make it easier too for you.

Another tip my boyfriend left for you was: this technique doesn’t always work, there are days when women really just want some time alone, and for that reason don’t force something stupid on them. It can make everything worse.

Thanks for reading. Have a great day!

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